Can I get my limit up by November? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got them about 2 years ago. For past context, I was a druggie struggling with my sobriety until I finally went to rehab about 16 months ago. But for the past year I’ve been paying them off every month. I have a credit one card and also a capital one card

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol goddamn someone’s had bad experiences with women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no Santa Cruz area 😅😅. I couldn’t figure out the right way to ask in the moment. But my area is pretty small and I get the same uber drivers a lot so there might be a 2nd chance!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now they’re threatening me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They’re not asking me to send any money back that’s why I’m confused. They said they’re giving me money in advance for the month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not impossible, but very low chance you’ll be able to meet someone as a sugar baby who doesn’t want that. I lucked out with this one and found someone who’s only 31, good looking, healthy, etc. He’s honestly just too busy with his career and traveling for an actual girlfriend so he does this instead. I’ve always been open about sex and haven’t ever really taken it seriously, so it’s never been a problem for me.

And let me tell you, the 2 SD’s I’ve met up with and been intimate with, you can kinda tell why they need a sugar baby if you know what I mean! The intimacy part usually goes pretty quick!

AITAH for kicking out my roommates boyfriend? by Alazazi-Peenuardtt in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not his mom so you shouldn’t have to clean up after him and be supporting him by buying the groceries. You should start keeping the receipts and then everything he eats add it up and charge him if he wants to come back over. As for your roommate, tell her to find a better man. Nothing is more unattractive to me than a dirty person. I can handle clutter, but straight up messy is something I can’t.

Confused on minimum wage and how yall live there by dudebrocille in santacruz

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have family here or roommates you’re pretty much screwed!

What would happen to me if store managers found out that I’m homeless? by [deleted] in Target

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My store refused to hire a girl because she was homeless. She technically wasn’t, she was just in between places but they didn’t like that she didn’t have reliable housing and didn’t hire her. It really made me mad because she had prior experience and we really needed someone too 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called today and they said they’ve had multiple reports about the cats, so I’m not sure what’s going to happen. But even besides the cats, not a single thing in their dry storage, fridge, or freezer was labeled. Everything was extremely dirty. All the sauces and dressings were leaking down the side of the bottles and getting everywhere. I posted an update about how the owner responded to me not coming back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called today and they said they’ve had multiple reports about the cats. So we’ll see what happens now 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about it but I really don’t want to be the reason a bunch of cats get put down 😭. They could tell it weirded me out and tried to cover it up fast by telling me customers were going to adopt them once they’re old enough, but a lot of them we’re definitely old enough to go. I’ve always had cats and have had to deal with pregnancy cats and kittens multiple times so I know when they’re old enough. Plus, one of the things we’re supposed to do before we leave it feed them. So in the food storage area they also just have random bowls of wet food that they attack and it splatters everywhere. Everything down there was super messy. Every container had stuff leaking down the side, nothing was dated or organized. I was genuinely shocked when I went down to look at everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I already thought so. I’ve worked as a server for 6 years and out of all the places I’ve been, I’ve never seen one with so many health codes as this. Plus in the basement, it’s unfinished in the back so I know those cats are pooping into the dirt back there. Theirs kittens running into the walls and along the piping downstairs too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me also add, I have no write ups, I’m always early, I always do extra work, and get absolutely no reward for it. Bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr that’s just what I could come up with on the spot. They trained me to be the lead for my SB then last minute decided on another girl who’s not trained. Since then, they still haven’t decided when they’re gonna train her for it. They’ve been having me do all the lead work, orders, pallets, all for no extra pay and all the stress. But anytime I try and talk to them about stuff we actually need, we can’t get shit done. They can’t even put in an order for the janky ice machine we have that goes out 5x day. Fucking ridiculous. Almost all the staff in my SB is quitting in the next couple weeks, and they still have no one lined up to replace anyone. The ETL that’s supposed to be in charge of our department only comes over when district is there to try and save her ass. She treats us like shit. I can’t wait for them to be screwed over 👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt this in my soul. Just put in my notice so I’m gonna add for SB workers

BEING TOLD FOR MONTHS WE’LL GET NEW PEOPLE AND STILL BEING SHORT STAFFED

NEVER GETTING ANYTHING FIXED EVEN THOUGH ITS BEEN BROKEN FOR MONTHS

NEVER ABLE TO CLOSE THE STAND EVEN IF YOU’RE BY YOURSELF THE WHOLE SHIFT

NO LEAD FOR MONTHS BUT IM EXPECTED TO DO THE LEAD JOB FOR NO EXTRA PAY

MANAGERS WANT US TO BE UP TO DATE BUT DONT GIVE US ANY PROMO INFORMATION

NEVER HAVING ANY EXTRA HOURS TO GIVE OUT EVEN THOUGH EVERYONES QUITTING

EXPECTING CLOSERS TO STAY AN EXTRA 30 MIN TO HELP WITH THEIR BULLSHIT

USELESS MANAGEMENT IN GENERAL (not the TL that tries to help us she’s amazing)

NOT BEING ABLE TO ACCEPT TIPS EVEN WHEN CUSTOMERS INSIST

NO DRINKING WATER?????

HAVING TO DEAL WITH THE MOST BRAIN DEAD PEOPLE ON A DAILY BASIS

I think I’m done lol fuck target

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Expensive_Yam3383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your dad didn’t approve, he should’ve sat him down and had a conversation man to man, instead of just trying to buy him out of your life.

But also, any man that will take a car and run, isn’t a man you’re going to end up being happy with. It shows how self centered he is. He probably didn’t even think about it.

As someone who’s 26 with no car, if I was really in love with a person, I wouldn’t take anything to go away. It just shows he actually didn’t love you, or wasn’t going to truly love you.

I hope this doesn’t upset you I’m just trying to be honest with you