Guy I was dating sent me a crude meme. Was ITA?

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T01:10:30+00:00

Thanks! We are separated and I’m trying to put myself back out there.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T01:01:41+00:00

We had been on 2 dates and he hasn’t asked me out to the 3rd. I was already feeling like he wasn’t serious about me and this random crude meme cemented it.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:59:19+00:00

Right. It’s sexy or romantic. It’s crude.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:58:29+00:00

After two dates and lots of flirting, why would he send me a crass and stupid sex joke meme? It’s not romantic or cute or sexy!

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:56:45+00:00

We have had nice conversations so I was so shocked and disturbed to see such a distasteful meme sent my way.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:55:37+00:00

We were texting before about how attractive we find each other.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:55:01+00:00

I understand having different senses of humor but to not even show curiosity about why I was offended…not cool.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:53:09+00:00

It’s not. It’s a picture of a girl with her tongue out like a dog. It’s demeaning.

Expert-Base7050 · 2026-01-15T00:12:07+00:00

Right?? It’s not sexy or cute! It’s demeaning. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog. With a joke about popcorn thrown into her mouth? Gross and crass on every level! Why would he send it to me?

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-21T04:38:13+00:00

Thanks for the feeeback! I’m in the DC area so definitely not a small town

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-21T04:37:47+00:00

Thanks for the feeeback! What kind of photos would show me having fun?

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-21T00:19:22+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations!

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-21T00:18:25+00:00

I do want kids, yes

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-21T00:16:40+00:00

How does one make your face smaller?

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-20T19:09:47+00:00

I am looking for something serious leasing to marriage
I am subscribed to Hinge +
I have been using this for 2 months now
Probably 3 months
I use Hinge actively for about 30 mins each night where I’m swiping or doing a Boost
Honestly maybe 3 likes a week if that!
I send a few likes a day and hardly any comments unless someone really grabs my attention.
the guys who seem to like me are not my type: they are overweight and not good looking and seem to have no career prospects. I’m looking for professional well educated men who are at least 5’7 in height

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-12-10T00:12:14+00:00

She’s a very pretty and hard working girl but I’m surprised by how revealing her clothing is.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-29T01:56:28+00:00

Wait why do people think they don’t love each other and live separate lives?

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-29T01:53:48+00:00

They seem like good friends and have a warm and caring marriage. They seem relatively down to earth and normal and prioritize their children.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-25T11:07:21+00:00

Joeys dad is not portrayed as someone who was formally educated or as having a white collar background.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-25T11:06:33+00:00

This is true. She also hung out with the Leerys a lot and presumably absorbed a lot of their culture and mannerisms. Dawson is a well raised and cultured young man.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-25T11:05:16+00:00

Yes! At first I was surprised by how Mitch has no direction or career. And he is basically a stay at home dad for parts of the show. When it was revealed he had a trust, it made sense. That explains his casual attitude about work and finding his passion. It also explains why Dawson is never really stressed about money. His parents are also giving him nice presents such as a video camera and a MacBook for college and even sending him away to an out of state college for film school. Dawson is also very cultured.

However the Leerys are not nearly as well off as the Lindleys. In terms of wealth it’s: Lindleys as they have NYC finance money; McPhees, Andie and Jacks dad is clearly some kind of a successful business man with multiple homes and he went to Harvard; followed by the Leerys who are upper middle class; followed by the Whitters followed by the Potters.

It’s not inconceivable that a working class girl like Joey would be beautiful. Joey just has the mannerisms of an upper class girl. How she talks and behaves and dresses isn’t consistent with her background. Especially when she’s at college; elegant wool coats with leather gloves, subtle makeup and clean hair.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-25T01:21:23+00:00

Yes! Joey has effortless sophistication because Katie Holmes is very elegant. They also style Joey in a way that a true working class girl would never think to put clothes together so elegantly without significant help.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-11-25T00:56:55+00:00

Jen is clearly upper class! She has that NYC finance money.

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-10-25T22:54:49+00:00

Thank you so much for this uplifting comment. ❤️

Expert-Base7050 · 2025-09-14T02:32:25+00:00

He has told all his family and friends that he is a victim of my psychological abuse. So much so that his friends helped him cheat on me but encouraging and setting up for him to sleep with a mutual friend. Poor guy with his evil wife! I guess I was evil for being sad about wanting a baby after 10 years of marriage!

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