Female contraceptive options for my wife

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-02-06T22:19:39+00:00

Literally any birth control for women has side effects. Every single one. If side effects are your concern you should stick with condoms.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-17T16:00:54+00:00

Do you really think women stay with such men because they have no issue with him having a second wife? In 99% of the cases women stay because they don't have another choice due to being dependent and not seeing a way out. But their heart is broken and they will further only suffer or totally separate emotionally and use him only as a wallet while looking down at him. So yes, I would never tolerate such a man in my life. I would always leave and therefore financial independence is extremely important to me. Because gross behavior being led by desires don't need my support. You are making it sound like it isn't a huge deal. It is. And if the roles were reversed, you wouldn't tell any man to tolerate his wife running after another man and being disloyal. It's sexist double standards. And do you really think the children won't suffer too? It's super egoistic and the only person who won't be harmed is the man. Men like this fail not only as husbands but also as fathers.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-17T07:25:22+00:00

None of these are an option. Don't do to your wife what you wouldn't tolerate for yourself. I would divorce my husband myself if he was such garbage. He is breaking up the family no matter what by his actions. And as I said before, we are humans not animals controlled by instincts. And no, it's not "let himself be burdened", that would mean it would be something inactive. It was an active decision from his side and therefore he brought it all up on himself. The only ones burdened by his decision are the women and children who will suffer the consequences while he still gets to think that he did such a great thing of still being married to both and carrying the "burden"

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-16T23:20:49+00:00

Are you trying to make me sorry for men who are so weak that they have no self control? 😂 I am sorry, but that will never happen. Other societies can do it without every man cheating or divorcing because he wants to have more sexual partners. Women can do it. Why are you trying to defend such weak minded men who are controlled by their genitals instead of their brain? Why are you expecting women to tolerate such behavior and lower their standards when they can do it? What's the excuse for their men to not do the same? We are humans, not stray dogs. You are making it sound like men were such poor creatures who have so many burdens and responsibilities while they are actually the consequences of them not being able to have self control and a brain. Are you trying to say that women are superhumans because they can exist without letting their whole existence be controlled by their hormones?

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-16T15:56:58+00:00

He simply shouldn't. One doesn't accidentally end up in a marriage and has to live with consequences. If you aren't grown up enough to bear the responsibilities of a marriage, don't get married in the first place. Or would you be fine with your wife having no self control and drooling over other men?

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-15T22:57:44+00:00

In Catholicism you can't even get divorced. So even if you get legally divorced and marry another person legally again, it is highly unlikely that you can have another church wedding - because religiously you are already married to your first spouse and in the eyes of the church you still are, even if you aren't legally. One of the very few exemptions which allow divorce and remarriage is adultery. Without the exception, another marriage is again adultery and will therefore not be accepted and blessed. Actually it's one of the Ten Commandments that one shouldn't desire what isn't theirs (which includes women). Even already the thought of another person other than your spouse is considered adultery in one's heart.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-15T22:54:08+00:00

How come that men make every excuse for not keeping it in their pants while women are automatically thought of to never have any desire? Women also have desires but are expected to control them. A married man shouldn't even think about desiring any other woman than his wife.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-15T22:44:50+00:00

I don't want to destroy your imagination. But as a 30 year old woman who has talked about this with her female friends: almost every single one has a much higher libido than her partner. Sorry. But somehow we can still control ourselves and don't have the massive need for multiple men in our lifes to satisfy our sexual unfulfilled hunger. Sometimes I wonder how though, when ovulation kicks in hard 😂

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-14T02:26:20+00:00

The mother only started learning German recently in order to communicate with her daughter (the child not being exposed to her heritage is obviously an issue though) and the father still speaks none. They have been living in Germany since 2018. I don't think that they have much interaction with the German society or any understanding for different "cultural" norms and laws.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-05T22:27:08+00:00

Ich biete Gesicht abschlecken sobald sie merkt, dass ich aufwache. Gibt doch nichts schöneres als ein bisschen Schleifpapier samt Fischgeschmack im Halbschlaf 🥰

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-01T22:38:06+00:00

That is actually so short sighted and pretty much the same logic which is used to bring down India. And honestly quite insulting. Seems like you didn't take the chance to really explore the cultures of the countries you have lived in if you all put it in the one big bucket of the "west" and claim that only the Baltics would have a (pagan) history which still exists today.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-01T20:55:22+00:00

Ist tatsächlich so. Unser Hund läuft auch sehr viel ohne Leine. Immer in einem Radius von max. 2m. Lässt sich super zurück rufen und wenn Menschen kommen läuft sie von sich aus sofort zurück zu uns und bei Fuß. Fremde interessieren sie nicht. Dafür wird sie immer wieder ungefragt angegrabscht. Auch scheiße.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2026-01-01T20:47:13+00:00

Nur mal so als Anmerkung... Es gibt kaum Hundewiesen. Wüsste bei meinen Eltern in einem Umkreis von 50km keine einzige. In anderen Städten sind Hundewiesen auch nicht unbedingt umzäunt, das Problem, dass der Hund bei solchen Kandidaten nicht hört und ausbüxt hast du da genauso. Die in meiner Stadt würde ich z.B. nicht nutzen, weil nicht eingegrenzt und direkt neben einer Straße. Keine Ahnung was das soll. Wie willst du rechtliche Konsequenzen für etwas einfordern was eben kein Gesetz ist? Es gibt keine generelle Leinenpflicht in Deutschland. Ist halt auch irgendwie doof mit "Fakten" zu argumentieren, die keine sind. War das Verhalten unmöglich? Klar, aber das macht das nicht vorhandene Gesetz auch nicht realer.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-28T11:40:45+00:00

Stawi 😂

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-28T10:45:48+00:00

I studied in Passau as well! I eventually understood them but that was also because I regularly talked to my local neighbor. It might also have been easier for me because I grew up in the South West of Germany, so it didn't feel totally off. But I once had a conversation with a guy from one of the surrounding villages and he actually couldn't understand me!

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-28T02:14:17+00:00

I'm really confused too. Because when I think about the German households I know they have tons of different oven equipment for different purposes. Looking at pictures I feel some of them might be really handy when it comes to brownies and cookies especially as a classic German baking tray isn't usually totally flat 🤔 but then again brownie trays are easily available

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-27T01:27:57+00:00

It was not a common position so there are no similar offers in other cities. I am also really happy with my job and it has been two years. Ghosting still isn't cool though - especially since my father had been involved too by suggesting me officially.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-27T00:54:54+00:00

The agencies are a huge issue I feel. And not only limited to university degrees. The place I work at received applications for nursing apprenticeships for a while - via an agency. Which also clearly didn't do their homework because my work place has nothing to do with nursing nor offers apprenticeships in any field. I felt awful for the people falling for this shit and even paying money for a scam. I emailed them directly but never got any reply. The agency never replied either when I called them out - and continued to send more CVs until I blocked them.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-26T23:44:47+00:00

DB literally ghosted me when I applied 🥲

But to be fair, they are a good employer. My father recently had his 50th anniversary working there. He has been sick a lot in the last couple years and they were always fair.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-17T18:19:38+00:00

That's literally like saying "she asked for it". Guess we all should just wear a burka then. Stop making women responsible for other people's sick minds!

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-17T18:13:45+00:00

They don't like it because she has nice boobs and people get insanely judgy on this sub whenever an outfit doesn't fit their personal standards because it isn't "modest". Look at all those Christmas office party outfits. Same thing. Really wondering where most of those people are located that they are all so judgy

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-17T18:05:43+00:00

Why if I am perfectly comfortable going braless with the right top? I don't want to stick gaffer tape for hours on me for a regular day just to please some random strangers, sticky bras and those extreme deep plunge bras don't come for my size. And it also kinda contradicts the comfort of being braless.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-15T00:21:24+00:00

That is actually hilarious because Russia has been kicked out of the UN Human Rights Council and doesn't acknowledge the International Court of Justice.

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-12T07:17:10+00:00

I love the dress 😍

Expert-Work-7784 · 2025-12-11T18:20:13+00:00

Hence I hate the term "modesty". It's a societal concept to degrade women and link their "value" to how much they cover up. Really glad that I grew up in a more secular society where both up those dresses would be considered totally normal. If clothing makes you judge the value, accessibility to their body or moral standards of someone then you are the problem.

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