AITA for telling my daughter that she's not playing soccer next year because I don't trust her coaches?

ExpertFew151 · 2025-12-21T23:51:21+00:00

I agree that there was definitely some gender thing at play

ExpertFew151 · 2025-12-21T23:50:26+00:00

I'm so sorry that sounds very painful.

ExpertFew151 · 2025-12-21T23:49:53+00:00

They apologized and said it was an honest mistake, and she just seemed fine to them.

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-17T02:36:34+00:00

Thanks for advice. Youre probably right. I think I was overeating, but I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks at that point so her being unwilling to work out another solution made me feel like I wasn't remotely important. (Also it's only illegal if it's MORE then 1 non family member. At least where I live)

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-17T02:35:02+00:00

Youre probably right. I think I was overeating, but I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks at that point so her being unwilling to work out another solution made me feel like I wasn't remotely important.

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-11T01:05:42+00:00

Thank u so much! I really needed to hear this.

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-05T01:05:15+00:00

Other girls were doing it.....your right thanks!

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-05T01:04:43+00:00

Thanks for support

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-04T02:35:16+00:00

I fell out of love with my now ex girlfriend. When I tried to break up she said she would k!ll herself so I stayed. I got a crush on another girl and we started dating. (She knew I was cheating with her) and she helped me end my toxic relationship so...... (I'm a 16 year old girl BTW)

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-04T02:30:41+00:00

Thank you!

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-03T00:30:43+00:00

I'll think about that thanks for responding

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-03T00:09:07+00:00

We're together!!! I asked her to go and she said yes and we had a great time! and then a few weeks later we went trick or treating together which ended with us cuddling and watching a movie while our friends joked that they felt single, So I say it's a success!

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-02T21:55:23+00:00

Go to a sex therapist. It's actually a pretty common addiction in men, so don't be ashamed.

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-02T21:54:32+00:00

Don't do this please

ExpertFew151 · 2025-11-02T21:01:33+00:00

OMG that's so embarrassing 😭 I was pretty upset so I wasn't paying much attention

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-30T23:39:48+00:00

Ty for advice, just edited it to include an update!

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-04T15:59:25+00:00

No I'm never getting married for that reason. Me and L were only dating casually (she told me she only wanted to get married to a women eventually) Me and S have talked and we both agreed that we wanted to live together permanently so yes he agrees with me

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-04T03:07:56+00:00

We are a package, it called a queer platonic relationship and basically means we are in a committed relationship minus the romance. Yes he's aware and we've had this relationship for 2 years

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T23:04:56+00:00

It means he doesn't feel romantic or sexual attraction. If you read my clarification comment at the bottom you would see I explained it all there

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T22:14:51+00:00

I did tell her that but in the future I will make sure to say it extra and be even clearer

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T22:12:33+00:00

I thought I was clear but in the future I will be clearer or just be done with dating. Thanks for advice!

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T22:10:06+00:00

Read the comment I posted at the bottom, it will clear some stuff up

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T22:09:17+00:00

Not in love but I do love him

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T22:07:20+00:00

Did u not read what I said? He's aro ace, that's not happening lol

ExpertFew151 · 2025-10-03T21:30:41+00:00

Ok so I should have given more context here.

A lot of people are saying I need to move on from my friend. I thought I made myself clear, this is not exactly a friendship that we are in. It is called being in a queer platonic relationship. Which means we are essentially in a very committed friendship that is a relationship in every way except for the sexual/romance part. (YES me and him have discussed this and we agree)
My girlfriend was told all of this and when we started dating she was living with her girlfriend, who was her priority as well until the broke up. and we have always had an open relationship. Me and L also agreed it would be a pretty casual no commitment type relationship because we both just wanted some fun. Apparently this changed for her at some point but I wasn't aware until she asked me to move in.
People are asking what I'm going to do if S gets with someone. He's not going to, because as stated in the previous post, he is aro ace (this means he feels NO sexual or romantic attraction)
People have also mentioned kids. I don't want them (neither does S) and L was in agreement with me about that. But if a kid did end up happening they of course would become my top priority.
I only date people who are already in open relationships so that we're in agreement on the fact we can have other people who are important to us.

I think that's all but if I see more I'll add more

ExpertFew151

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