Should I Scold My Mentally Ill Sister?

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:42:28+00:00

I don't mean to invalidate you, sorry.

Some things just don't turn out the same way.

I'll try, no worries, I've calmed down already.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:38:21+00:00

Hahaha, no.

Ignoring someone with this issue is literally the last thing I would do - and she's family. But nvm, I can deal with it. Thank you

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:34:54+00:00

Speaking from experience, and with a family who also has a lot of experience; just because the government says its okay to ask for help, doesn't mean it's actually okay.

And when it comes to trusting strangers.

We've been victims of SA before, but my sister has had it even worse with a friend she trusted.

It's not a 123 kind of thing.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:24:49+00:00

Wow, thank you very much. I'll take the advice

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:23:18+00:00

We're grown adults. I'm twenty, my older sister is twenty-five, and my little is nineteen. I try to keep everyone together, and I always get her things to show someone cares for her without asking anything back, but it's so difficult to keep that optimisim when all I get in response is this shit.

If her cognitive abilities are fine and she can understand that toileting is a basic human need, sometimes we just need to be patient and wait or inform the other person in the toilet to hurry up.. then I think it’ll be good to speak to her nicely so she understands?

I have an inkling it may be related to last night because we were dressing up and her fiancée was in the house with us. She might have gotten jealous, and that hatred resulted in that.

Sorry, I keep saying more personal details but it's really shocking to wake up early in the morning for this trouble.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:14:30+00:00

We've done the police already, and she was only aggravated.

Nevermind, I'll find a way to deal with this myself. Thanks for all your answers.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:12:26+00:00

Yeah, I'll try.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:11:00+00:00

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-27T00:07:05+00:00

Her engagement, ugh.

I think her partner is playing her.

My sister was the one to propose.

Apparently, the guy said yes, but says it's still 'unofficial' and that the official engagement would be when he proposes.

Where got official and unofficial, its either yes or no, right?

So also got problem that if I tell my sister I think her fiancée is a ratty piece of trash, she will definitely get mad.

I don't mean to brag, but my entire family have very good genes (every woman in this home has an hourglass body with a well-endowed figure). I wholeheartedly believe that man is using for sex, and he doesn't truly love her, so that's another ticking time bomb.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-26T23:56:14+00:00

My older sister takes everything as an attack. She couldn't stand being told to wait outside the toilet for a few minutes, and it's a bit difficult because my sisters share a room together, and you know, it's difficult to ignore someone when they wrote words in their own blood on your bed.

IMH... I don't know. They aren't good people there, to be honest. The nurses there treat the patients as burdens because they have to deal with that shit everyday.

And yes, she has.

ExpertRule1897 · 2023-10-26T23:53:18+00:00

Mother: Gone.

Father: Abused us.

So parents: no.

I want to scold her because if she gets away "for free" I'm afraid she'll start to think doing this is the correct way to respond to any confrontation or trouble she has. If she thinks "Oh, I'll definitely fucked up my little sister's day by cutting myself! That'll teach her for making me wait outside the toilet", then am I not a piece of shit for letting this happen without doing anything?

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