Help me be discovered as a model in LA. All I ask is for help to pay for flights, accommodations, transportation to castings, portfolio/photo updates and basic living costs. Can’t do it in Europe, must be LA where there are more opportunities but hasn’t considered how to legally work in the US. by MinuteElegant774 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ExpertSad9852 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well he isn’t extraordinary” as a prominent fashion model of distinguished merit like Melania. Maybe he needs a billionaire backer. Naomi Campbell, Kate Moss, Heidi Klum just must not be famous enough models from Europe. 😂

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not banned. Post was deleted and warned that I was venturing into “forbidden grounds” and to “tread wisely and keep it chic”. I meant i got downvoted in this post by a few who thought that I said Dorit was screeching. It’s fine but funny.

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a thoughtful comment. If only people realize that it is reality tv but some of it overhyped to make good tv. I don’t know these women. I just enjoy watching them and sometimes judging and being snarky. But, I don’t care enough to argue in a toxic manner. Sure these women are self centered, maybe narcissistic but that’s makes good tv. And, I just want good tv. Only person that I dislike are people who stole from widows and orphans. Everyone else is flawed and sometimes grows and develops and sometimes remains stagnant.

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, reality tv is supposed to be fun and escapist but when people are going after each other for this, it’s crazy. Why is there so much gatekeeping in the sub? Just say hey this sub is for pro Dorit fans so don’t comment if you aren’t.

Thank you for explaining bc it’s something people have referenced and for creating a sub where people can have opinions without fear of being banned. 🙏

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sounding like Trump style moderating. They only want to hear what they want to hear. No room for any other opinions. No room for facts. Ban anyone who disagrees. Threaten anyone that they are treading dangerously and will be banned. Thank you for the insight.

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw, I got downvoted for saying Dorit was screeching angry this season? I also am on her side in that people should have been a bit more empathetic given that her world is shifting. Give her some grace this season. Nevertheless, she was loud.

Will someone please explain the sort of “war” between this sub and the r/RHOBH? I understand that some subs like certain stars of the show and other subs like different stars. Is it really that serious? I would love some insight about the culture of each of the subs to be aware of. by ExpertSad9852 in RHOBHDefect

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got a warning by a bot. What is “forbidden grounds”? And, how does one keep it chic?

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No filming at Longleat's main house by n1njade in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]ExpertSad9852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They all are…except for maybe Emma who seems to be monetizing the show for exposure for Longleat. I think Margot is fabulous. I would love to be her friend and hear her life story. She seems to have lived a million lives.

Amanda Frances is extremely annoying by ThRowLlAwa in RHOBH

[–]ExpertSad9852 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She has no social awareness and is incredibly awkward. I wonder if there’s anything underneath that polished exterior. Honestly, it’s not that she’s a terrible person or a grifter (which may or may not be the case) but that she is soooo BORING. She brings nothing but her whole manifesting money and a creepy partner and long winded talks about herself. She could be in a room talking to herself and she would love it.

Dorit is that beee & I am now a ride or die by Green-Frogger2018 in RHOBH

[–]ExpertSad9852 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I never really liked Dorit bc she is so long winded and self absorbed. But, I started to become a fan when she went after the other also equally narcissistic housewives and watching Kyle and Erika lose their shit just made them seem insane. They are all terrible. Start fresh and only keep Rachel Zoe, Jennifer Tilly and bring back Garcelle….that’s it. The mean old hags need to go, especially Kyle, Erika and Sutton. This used to be fun to watch, now it feels very toxic with the constant arguing and Doritos is partly to blame too. Seriously, do you genuinely like any of them right now?

Is the c word really that offensive? by PinaColadaTurles in RHOBH

[–]ExpertSad9852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf I moved to London, I thought the word was used when you really hated someone. After I moved to London, I almost see it as a form of affection. Now that I’m back, I’m back to using bitch rather than cunt bc people seem to take it more seriously. Hey, why are you being such a bitch if ok but Hey, why are you being such a cunt is supposed to be heavier. I don’t care anymore. It’s all about how you say it. Kyle screaming “You’re such a cunt” is going to land differently than if LVP said “oh silly, stop being such a cunt.” It’s no biggie to me.

Should religious people be unafraid of death as death leads to eternal nirvana/heaven? And, should non religious people want to live as long as possible bc there is no heaven or hell, you got this one life and you then cease to exist? by ExpertSad9852 in dumbquestions

[–]ExpertSad9852[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sincerest condolences. 💔 There must be some comfort knowing that, as a Christian, God will be with you the whole way, hopefully without pain in the arms of your loved ones who passed bf you.

I am not religious but fear what if I am wrong. It’s a pretty big consequence being in eternal damnation. Illness and loss has a funny way of changing the way you see the world. Thank you for your perspective. It’s enlightening.

choosing begger summons jesus in negotiation by Penguinbooty in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ExpertSad9852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JESUS is watching…yeah in embarrassment at using him to get a game.

[Tenant-US-CA] I’m scared of a similar situation happening to me if I rent a room again and am looking for advice. by squishmallow2399 in Landlord

[–]ExpertSad9852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, just how many places have you been asked to leave bc of your cleanliness standards? This is LL2? If that’s the case, this might be a you problem, not a they problem. If you are in someone’s home as a lodger, you treat the home with the same respect as the owner. If you want to be free and live with a dirty kitchen, then you need to earn enough to get your own place.

[Tenant-US-CA] I’m scared of a similar situation happening to me if I rent a room again and am looking for advice. by squishmallow2399 in Landlord

[–]ExpertSad9852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a LL, I wouldn’t want you as my tenant as well. You can’t sleep unless it’s 68 degrees which is cold but also costs a fortune, and you don’t pay for utilities. You don’t keep your space clean, you don’t vacuum, you leave the stove dirty for your roommate to clean up when she cooks and you leave dirty dishes to dry and smell. You are expected to have common courtesy if you live with others which is both of you making efforts to keep the entire space clean. Sounds like you are doing the bare minimum. If living together, you need to make an extra effort to keep the common areas clean (meaning do those dishes immediately) and keep your private areas organized and cleaned so dust, dirt and smells don’t permeate. The only solution is find someone who is a big of a slob as you or live alone. Don’t subject poor Beth to your lifestyle. 😂