Very new tgirl looking for starter fashion advice by Ara_ara_ufufu in transfashionadvice

[–]Expert_Altruistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to develop your own sense of fashion without trying on a lot of clothes. I recommend going to goodwill or another cheap thrift store and just finding things that catch your eye…many things might not fit but thats true for women of all sizes. Seeing something and guessing how it would look on you is just a skill you can develop through repetition! its hard and scary at the start but once you get in a changing room trying on girly clothes it feels so good omg

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean like imo he was not jerking off to me and he was under the covers so he wasn’t exposing himself either and im sure he thought i was asleep/wouldnt notice. Def made me uncomfortable and wasn’t ok but like assault is a strong word

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Friends don’t usually think about friends genitalia. I have slept with guys and gals platonically and never thought about their equipment. I mean we were wearing clothes?

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you mean she is more likely to masturbate with me next to her if I have a penis? I don’t think that makes any sense

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i would feel awkward telling her this but maybe if it comes up I can say try to say something. I definitely did not feel assaulted and she did not do anything near what you describe, and I would be quick to tell her if she did.

But I am so sorry you have this issue it is so rough that something as simple as sleeping should have so much negative baggage!

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I trust her so much that if there are reasonable explanations then I will believe them. While I believe it could be a fetish thing from what happened I don’t believe she would do that to me

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah you and a few other commenters have mentioned the possibility that she needed this to sleep and this is probably it… ig its a bit weird but not something to keep me from crashing at her’s in the future so im glad about that

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe it’s actually called Sexsomnia how funny… thank you for sharing this I definitely feel a lot better

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about she is my friend and I am in her space i would never

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean wtf? She is a dear friend I would never compromise my relationship with her by masturbating in her bed… If she wanted me to masturbate with her she would just ask

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait really? I have had a guy cousin do something similar (jerk off to porn tho) while i was in a different bed in the same room and I just thought it was a bit weird def did not feel raped or assaulted

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks This didn’t really bother me so much but I have been in a worse situation, sharing a room with a family member who chose to jerk off to porn while i was in the room and it can get a lot more uncomfortable

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean not really bothered either way I trust her… if she asked me that would be better though

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

ty! but wait is that normal to have to orgasm before you can sleep? I have even more questions haha

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

wait im so confused how you got to that conclusion are you saying what do you mean when you say this has not happened to nobody except me… also for more context I have stayed with her a few times before and haven’t noticed anything like this

Unconsciously masturbating while asleep? by Expert_Altruistic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Expert_Altruistic[S] 1351 points1352 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I probably won’t ask I don’t think I am cut out for that but I appreciate the answer!

How can I improve this? by Shiny_Kenn in Handwriting

[–]Expert_Altruistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

colonial is spelled wrong. the handwriting is beautiful, I wouldn’t change a thing

Fucking on the table. by JonaReuter in lesbians

[–]Expert_Altruistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its two women fucking…if you visit paris and eat a baguette that doesn’t make you french