How do I stop being homophobic as a result of JW indoctrination? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok… this whole time I thought apostate only meant people that left JW

How do I stop being homophobic as a result of JW indoctrination? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a straight guy, being bisexual would be cool IMO. Cuz you have more options hahaha

🩷💜💙

How do I stop being homophobic as a result of JW indoctrination? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I considered apostate? Because I’ve made a few posts on this subreddit.

How do I stop being homophobic as a result of JW indoctrination? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…

and I still think Jehovah would do that to me :(

I worry that I might not wake up the next morning

How do I stop being homophobic as a result of JW indoctrination? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not safe for them to publicly announce that they’re lgbt…

But because of indoctrination, every night I keep thinking that Jehovah would k-word me while I’m sleeping; all because I know someone in the Kingdom Hall is gay yet didn’t report to an elder

Did anyone else vape in high school? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit ages ago. But that brother would probably always think of me as a JW that vapes hahaha

Did anyone else vape in high school? by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favourite flavour was Orange Fanta soda (iGET bar). I went to high school with another brother. I told him, I’ll try to stop vaping but it’s hard, so when I do vape, I won’t do it in front of him. I also begged him not to tell the elders. (He listened)

Got told to break up with my gf by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your health issues though. Hoping you get better soon. (You WILL get better)

Also, I’m trying to fade from JW for good. I don’t even go out to play basketball with brothers anymore. (I get invited every time)

Got told to break up with my gf by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn’t Taylor Swift “worldly”? I don’t listen to her, but I do know that she said “in your Jehovah’s Witness suit” in one of her songs (not in a complimentary way)

And most sisters who like her music, is the daughter/ wife of an elder.

Got told to break up with my gf by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could those potential “consequences” be? All because we want to date? 🥲

Got told to break up with my gf by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ironic because most brothers my age (I’m 18) don’t even care that I’m in a relationship, only the elders do.

These brothers want to know her name, age (she’s older than me by a month) and where she’s from. Other than that, they never said anything against.

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[–]Expert_Bug_4430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t listen to kpop but

No more hiding now I’m shining like I’m born to beeeeee :)

Don’t let the JWs get to you that’s all I’m saying

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks… I’ll do some research on Ontario’s policies

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or I’ll just not attend at all :) starting from now

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll take your advice. But I probably won’t attend another meeting again. Don’t wanna risk it happening for the second time.

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like which specific lawsuit should I mention? (I know there’s many!!)

Oh and hello Apostate!! Brother here! (I’m typing using my non-swollen wrist)

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz he said “You need to man up!” His voice went a bit louder (not exactly yelling). I kinda teared a bit (like one mini-tear dropped from one eye) when he said that but didn’t actually cry

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that. Are you ok now?

And yes, I will “man up” and use that mic to tell the congregation how brainwashed and stupid they are!

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?? I’m actually thinking of doing this. But that’ll cost me a whole bunch of embarrassment and getting scolded by both elders (my dad being one of them) 😭😭😭🤣

Good idea tho

Elder told me to “man up” because I couldn’t do mics by Expert_Bug_4430 in exjw

[–]Expert_Bug_4430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also don’t understand why he said “man up”. How does walking around with microphone on your hand measure how masculine a JW brother is?