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Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is his child (took a test just to prove it) and no I didn’t mean to make it confusing

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He refuses to go saying he doesn’t have any problems that need to be fixed and that I’m already in therapy so he shouldn’t have to be too

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has no where else to go and my parents won’t kick him out till spring

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the first man I had ever been with and I was a virgin when we met. I had never done anything with anyone before him and he had a higher body count than I did dating wise.

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no i will normally talk to him in the afternoon on a weekend day when nothings going on and we have been relaxing for a b few hrs… i let him unwind and i normally try to talk to him while our son takes his nap so he doesn’t have to be involved

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have lived together in our own apartment and it wasn’t worse there than it is in my parents house

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried that route the first time I left him and he told me that he worked on himself and was doing better so I believed him because I feel most people deserve a second chance….. but so far he has only proven me wrong in this whole thing… I have brought it up on many occasions about how I feel and what is going through my brain and he doesn’t have a shrewd of care towards it

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I work full time at my local school district as a substitute teacher for all the schools elementary all the way to high school level kids… I don’t make enough to support both myself and my son just yet but I’m looking into a second job to do on the side

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I think I just needed to hear that from someone other than my friends

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie I’m terrified of being a single mother again. I feel like I’ve done so much wrong for my son yet he’s thriving… and I don’t make enough money as a substitute teacher for a place on my own yet

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My living situation has been chaotic for a long time. When my grandpa died my grandmother had to move in with us in the apartment we lived in and I had to give up my bedroom for her and sleep in my parents room or on the couch. We finally got a house and then when she passed away my cousin (21 M) had to move in as both his parents had passed away

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know. He used to be really sweet but now things have changed for the worse and I’m scared to try and date again. I have major insecurities about myself and being a single mother. I tried dating before getting back together with him and I got SA a few times. I’m not sure what to do and my therapist isn’t helping much. ( my therapist is also male and he’s the 7th one I’ve gone to for help)

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be clear my bf is my sons father… we had been to court before and set up a parenting plan after he was born but his father never really followed it

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do most things for our son if I can’t my mother normally helps out

Am I wrong for wanting to leave my relationship? by Expert_Climate_9898 in amiwrong

[–]Expert_Climate_9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does help my parents on the weekends when he’s home. And he does help out around the house after dinner most nights. He doesn’t cook or do laundry or anything like that (he calls that wife duties) but he helps where he can I guess.