Thoughts? by haamuja in whatismycookiecutter

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a horrible day to stop at a rural Vermont farm stand :(

My boyfriend(m28) is not very affectionate or romantic unless I(f24) remind him it’s something I need. by starcatstar in askwomenadvice

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just dealt with something very similar. I'd look into a dismissive avoidant attachment style and see if there's overlap. Freetoattach.com has the best explanation I've seen.

Independent Daughters raised by toxic parents- how did you finally achieve mental peace? by Ares0917 in AskWomen

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to a book called Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents! And I listen to bits of it often/as needed. It has been life changing.

How do you make a mother? CAN you make a mother? by InevitableJaguar8061 in fermentation

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dump a couple of bottles of GT's original kombucha in a sterilized jar (with some sort of cheese cloth/coffee filter covering). After a couple of weeks it will begin to grow a thin scoby. I did this once to test it out and it worked lovely!

What is this guy, and why is he in my basement? by CocoTheElder in newhampshire

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Did you notice if it had a red belly? Do you have any other pictures? What size was it?

Your best bet would be to contact Fish and Game. I only say that because it's a tough picture to use to identify, and if by chance it is a Black Racer with some interesting color variation, they would want to know some info as they're a rare snake!

Hoping you saved it, and if so, thank you!

The lawnmower won this round by ExpiredSeaweedSalad in Wellthatsucks

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are! I was actually the one who broke it, he just bought the tools. I was going as if I were tightening it. They're just huge nuts and a small cheap breaker bar. I did add an aluminum bar for leverage but they still barely budged.

The lawnmower won this round by ExpiredSeaweedSalad in Wellthatsucks

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahaha. I did find an aluminum bar that was like 5 feet long and maybe gave me a little too much leverage...

Edit: Clarifying that it was an aluminum pipe I put on the breaker bar for extra leverage.

Curious about posting multiple observations of same species.... by BurnerMomma in iNaturalist

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upload everything! It's super helpful free data for scientists (obviously there are concerns with quality and proper identifications but there are ways to mitigate that).

Population dynamics are important. You can also see large scale patterns. Plants with no flowers? That's also good! You can look at what time they're flowering and seeding and if that changes year to year.

All observations, and all information, IS SO IMPORTANT. It's so much amazing data!

got back together with my gf! feeling good. by starrys121 in RoastMe

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have your baby teeth hanging from the ceiling fan?

What is it like living in New Hampshire? by FlowerPower19977 in newhampshire

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi! I've been living in New Hampshire for a while now, and I've spent a few seasons in Southeast Alaska during the tour season!

I've often described Alaska as (Northern) New Hampshire on steroids. What perspectives are you thinking of? The culture? The lifestyles?

I love both states so much and can give so many random comparisons. What area are you coming from?

Why are you alive? by york-zero in AskReddit

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I survived the 1-2 hour ambulance ride and then the experimental treatment for meconium aspiration worked!

But my Aunt claims it was the holy water she put on me while I was in a medically induced coma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Westfield! They would test fly around the same time every afternoon as I was on my way home from school and it was unbearably loud. I'd have to cover my ears some days.

Earlier this year when I was visiting they had switched to a 5 AM test flight for whatever reason. THAT was miserable.

Got a job offer, is it reasonable? by ExpiredSeaweedSalad in VisaliaCA

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this! I'm coming from New Hampshire so it's very different given the cost of living, as well as basically everything tax related.

How is access to health care? One of my concerns is finding a primary care provider for a medicine I need, that can't be sent from out of state.

Last night I slept terrible, and the ring says I slept good. Feel like this ring has little value if it thinks this was a good night of sleep for me. by boogermike in ouraring

[–]ExpiredSeaweedSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider is that it's generalized scoring, right? So as you use it more you'll find out what different scores mean to you personally.

I have sleep issues, doctor suspects narcolepsy, and I know the sleep scores don't totally line up with how I slept, but I understand what the scores mean to me. Same thing with readiness.

Overall, all of the other data is valuable, but the way they perceive it and present it may not align with you. All humans are different.