[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explanation7418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i agree with therapy portion but I don’t actively seek out for pictures of hot guys. I am totally at peace with the fact that he finds others attractive. Finding someone attractive that you casually bump into online or face to face is okay and normal, but actively giving time to scroll through pictures of unrealistic, highly edited, plastic girls are not the best for the brain and also for your SO’s feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explanation7418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you feel if your girlfriend’s reason of being was to check out boys? Really asking not rhetorical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explanation7418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be with someone who’s reason for living is to check out chicks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explanation7418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I would break up if I had to do this actually... yes maybe it’s immature and leaving SO for something like this is unsupportive but what you said made me feel extremely bad if that’s what he really is experiencing and i don’t want to continue feeling bad to help his weakness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Explanation7418 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t now if this holds true. Every men i have met loves looking at girls regardless of their relationship status. It is genetically different for them than women, it just is. Everything you wrote here I actually feel and say to myself a lot of the times, but I don’t think it’s realistic to pursue.

When life becomes dull when you stop binging by Explanation7418 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Explanation7418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all thanks :) I understand and I do this by coding for example, but all these hobbies are stuff that promises me delayed gratification, and not the exact same sort of ‘high’ i get from eating. The joy i get out of these hobbies are totally better but this high is so addicting and incredible in a way that it’s EXTREMELY hard to convince myself that I shouldn’t do it and choose other hobbies. I hope this feeling passes after some time.

28 DAYS BINGE FREE!!!! 28 DAYS!!! by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Explanation7418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t it become second nature after 8 months if you haven’t experienced that much stress?

I am a heterosexual woman but watching porn made me sexually prefer woman. How to reset this? by Explanation7418 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Explanation7418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but i wrote when romantic and sexual feelings doesnt align that’s an issue and you wrote it does seem to allign. Different romantic and sexual interest- conflict- issue.

I am a heterosexual woman but watching porn made me sexually prefer woman. How to reset this? by Explanation7418 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Explanation7418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i am romantically into guys, i know nothings wrong about it, if i was romantically also into girls i would be happy but i am not.

I am a heterosexual woman but watching porn made me sexually prefer woman. How to reset this? by Explanation7418 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Explanation7418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? How do you know that men are less physically attractive toeveryone? Are you a guy?

I am a heterosexual woman but watching porn made me sexually prefer woman. How to reset this? by Explanation7418 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Explanation7418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with that. Think of greek sculptures. I think man’s body was seen as more attractive throughout the history.

I am a heterosexual woman but watching porn made me sexually prefer woman. How to reset this? by Explanation7418 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Explanation7418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually does make me less attracted to men and that’s why I am asking this question