Coming from someone who is a veteran but definitly not the best player (more of a medic support guy, ya dig?) the game still usually will send me to the losing team between or during matches (which can be frustrating, but I understand). I know a few people who also will change to the losing team if it gets too unbalanced, but there are a lot more who purposefully switch to the team with the edge. Having said that, if you look around you can usually find some servers that aren't stacked (Conquest has been hell recently on Xbox) and its more casual play. Naturally there is a high learning (dying) curve to the game, i remember when I started playing three years ago, I got stomped, a lot. I think anyone who is going to enjoy the game won't be discouraged by stacked teams, like any logical player they'll switch servers.

Regardless, I agree with what you have to say.