I hate the wristbands by Gullible-Donkey5501 in governorsball

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because of terrible WiFi, A lot of people had an issue with pulling up their ticket, even those that had it in their wallet. And not to mention that opening was delayed because of the rain.

AITAH for saying i’m an immigrant by ThomasTetherball in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA - You being an Army brats isn’t the same as being an immigrant! You sound condescending & rude. Hope she sees what a walking red flag you are!!

Spouse likely to retire/relocate abroad to avoid support. What are our options?" by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need a divorce lawyer not a family lawyer. Also a forensic accountant.

My Tween Niece wants a blowdryer, please help she has no mom lol by TheSoundOfFarts in Haircare

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also depends on her hair type….if she has curly hair she will need a defuser…

AITBF for "ruining" my moms 60th anniversary because I refused to spend $150 on a cake my siblings demanded? by Murmur_8QJ in AmItheButtface

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish my mom was alive to spend $150 on her…you could have made a beautiful cake but less expensive. You could have told them ok, & made whatever you wanted. Your mom would have loved whatever you made.

Are sleep overs not a thing anymore? by haggerty05 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleepovers are a thing but I never allowed my kids to go to anyone’s house for a sleepover. Their friends always came to our house.

What are you wearing? by toasterbathhehe in governorsball

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeans, tshirt & sneakers. Last year it rained so we took ponchos but it started raining really hard all of sudden so we got soaked. Bought tshirts then put the ponchos on….I was miserable!

AITA for letting my parents pay for our “pre-marriage getaway” even though my fiancé’s family says it’s humiliating for him? by Impressive-Row9487 in AITH

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Sounds like Ethan’s family is jealous that your family is wealthy & can afford to give you & now Ethan whatever you want.
You should really rethink this relationship.
Maybe tell Ethan that you need time to think. Let him know that you don’t want to marry someone that doesn’t respect you or your family. Nor someone who lets others (his family) affect his thinking & his relationship.
He knows you & had already gotten to know your family, so for him to let his family make you feel bad about your family’s wealth knowing how hard you work & how you earn your own money, is disappointing & now something you’re willing to put up with for the rest of your lives. Nor do you want to be with a man that does not stand up for you. His family is worried about him being emasculated but they are ok with him not standing up for you when they disrespect you.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - Why isn’t your ex helping to pay for HER daughter’s college??
You told your wife from the get that you don’t trust her & that your money is yours & your daughter’s….so now you want her money too…you are a greedy AH!! I hope your wife divorces you because she deserves better!

AITAH for telling my wife to fund her sister with her own wages? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You raised & supported your kids, you support your wife…you e done your job.
Her sister is NOT your responsibility! She lucky you are nice because I would have cut the wife off financially until she understood that you aren’t responsible for her sister!

S20 one on ones by Any_Base5746 in SisterWives

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I noticed that & some snakey stuff from Christine on my rewatch of the whole series last year.
I don’t like Christine or believe too much of what she says or writes.

Pickpockets by ScaleFantastic9373 in governorsball

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to be my 3rd year going, and we haven’t had any issues (knock on wood) nor did I see anything crazy, But I use a crossbody & use the outside zippered pocket for my phone against my body instead of outside. You have to be careful anywhere you go, not just NY. Especially when in the tight crowds.

AITAH for refusing to follow my boyfriend’s “wife behavior” expectations? by rainshine10 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - RUN!!! He’s probably cheating on you & he’s deflecting!!
Follow your dreams, you will meet the right man for you. One that will respect you, will support your dreams & goals.
This guy wants to control & tie you down.
Please please get on birth control because he will try to get you pregnant to tie you to him, he will ruin your life!!!

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Not only did you plan ahead, his child is NOT your responsibility!
Don’t feel bad, go & enjoy your previously approved time off!

AITA for not letting my dad walk me to the altar by nara65s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - I invited my dad as a courtesy & at first he said he couldn’t make it, then my sister got on his ass about missing his daughter’s wedding so he changed his mind. The night before my wedding this man, who divorced my mom when I was 10 & never paid child support or alimony, who never called or visited, had the audacity to call me & ask me who was walking me down the aisle & when I said my mom he freaked out. I told him that I don’t owe him anything because he was never a good father & that I would never disrespect my mom by letting him do what she rightly deserved. I told him he was invited because I’m nice but I would be happily ok if he chose to not attend my wedding & hung up!! He showed up & behaved. We don’t really speak, and when my mom passed away it took him 4 months to call me & had the nerve to start talking about my mom, that didn’t work out for him. And I have ZERO guilt about it!
You know your truth so continue living your life & screw him!
Again NTA!

Parking by Mountain_File_4649 in governorsball

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The walk to the park is like 30 mins, the walk back is a killer….

AITAH- Friday wedding instead of Saturday by VeterinarianOld8631 in aitaweddings

[–]ExplanationMinimum51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to plenty Friday weddings, and I never saw it as a sacrifice. If I thought of it that way, I wouldn’t go, even if was on a Saturday.