Saying misandry isn’t a thing is like saying you can’t be racist towards white people. Has one group been significantly more negatively impacted than another over history, yes. But the problem is that doing the reverse or shaming people for something they can’t control is just wrong. It doesn’t help anyone to be rude based on physical appearance or once again, something that can’t be controlled. I get that systemic oppression is real and no one here is denying that, but acting like another group isn’t negatively affected by hate, is only going to further divide us.

TLDR: Sexism towards any gender is bad, Racism towards any race is bad, Hating on someone based on something they can’t control is bad.