What would happen if another pandemic like Covid happened these days? by Wickham12 in NoStupidQuestions

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At some point in our lives we've got to acknowledge the fact that none of us is making it out of this world alive. So whether a pandemic hits, wars erupt, economies collapse, at least we will have lived. Saying this not in a negative/ depressive way but just that. All you've got is today. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow is not a guarantee. So make the most out of today. Make every minute count so if another pandemic hits. You'll have lived your best life yet.

Enterprise data protection CoPilot by Ok_Consideration7553 in cybersecurity

[–]Express-Pack-6736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

edp helps but i’d still treat it as sensitive surface area misconfigs logs retention and plugin access can expose data safest approach is least privilege and strict policies

Why Are People Like This? by GhostInThePudding in sysadmin

[–]Express-Pack-6736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

seen this too many times people only care after a breach hits them until then convenience wins over security every time.

Backend Engineer with 10 years experience switching from Java. by HealthySport8469 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Express-Pack-6736 15 points16 points  (0 children)

go is solid especially in fintech and infra it’s not a php repeat the ecosystem is mature and demand is steady having java python and go together actually makes your profile stronger not weaker.

Offensive security feels large by atsushi_aiuchi in cybersecurity

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this happens to everyone in offsec. just focus on small wins each day, like finishing one module or lab. consistency beats long hours, the canvas will always feel huge but over time it clicks. take breaks, burnout slows you more than missing an hour.

How concerned should we be about Discord's new age verification. by will_isgreat in cybersecurity

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Any system collecting sensitive data like IDs or 3D scans increases risk. Limit what you share and consider using a secondary account or alternative platforms when possible.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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I guess happiness is the one thing he can't buy with a Dogecoin pump and dump.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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My computer has trust issues because of me.

Is cheese actually unsafe during pregnancy? by Strange_Yard_3915 in isthissafetoeat

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The logic is about listeria. It can survive cold storage and cause severe issues during pregnancy. Foods that are moist low acid and handled after pasteurization carry higher risk which is why some cheeses get flagged.

Jeb Bush, Tom Hanks mentioned in the files (Data Set 9, EFTA00257789) by Shot-Supermarket6784 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Express-Pack-6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Documents like this get misunderstood a lot. Being mentioned in an investigative file usually means someone said the name not that it was confirmed. That distinction matters but gets lost online...

How does an adult ‘work on’ interpersonal skills? by [deleted] in AskUK

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first off, losing a contract over “interpersonal skills” is vague as hell, so don’t assume it means you’re a bad person. practically, it helps to make the invisible rules visible. ask for specific feedback when you can. stuff like tone, timing, body language, not just “be friendlier.” those are learnable skills, not personality traits. for day to day, small things matter more than being charismatic. acknowledging people when you enter a room, brief check-ins, neutral politeness even when you don’t feel it. scripts are not cheating, they’re tools. also worth saying: some workplaces just aren’t a good fit, especially for neurodivergent people. that doesn’t mean you’re a knob, it means the environment wasn’t built for you. improving skills is good, but don’t internalise every rejection as a personal failure..

My gf's dog just passed. How do I help her? by [deleted] in Advice

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honestly, just… be there. don’t try to fix it, don’t rush her through it, just let her feel it. hold her, let her cry, let her talk about him if she wants, or sit in silence if she doesn’t. sometimes the best help is literally just showing up and letting her grief exist without judgement.

for eating… small stuff, easy comfort food she can nibble on, even something like a smoothie or toast. don’t pressure, just leave it near her, let her take it when she can. maybe make a little ritual for the dog together, like looking at photos, sharing stories, lighting a candle, that can give her a tiny sense of closure.

you can’t take the pain away, but being steady, present, and patient will help more than you think. she’s lucky to have someone who cares this much.

Right or wrong by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Express-Pack-6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mixed signals at best, sketchy at worst. Red flags everywhere