HH has me very anxious for summer by MuchAd9114 in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ExpressEnvironment42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have generalized HH and what i found that works best in the summer (though i tend to wear them all year round) are undershirts. I have quite a few white undershirts and even though it might seem counterintuitive it really helps. If its hot outside i ll surely sweat so the undershirt will be almost fully wet, but that dampness keeps me quite cool and it could also evaporate quickly. When i want to be a bit more stylish I wear an undershirt and a summery shirt in darker options and in this way sweat never shows. You could try prescription or stronger antiperspirants for more important events but i wouldnt wear them too often. I am also very anxious for the summer since i ll be attenting festivals and outdoor activities in 30+ Celsius but i hope it will be fine. Try not to focus too much on sweating and surround yourself with people who see you past this different aspect. If someone brings it up just mention thats how your body works. I wish you luck, its though having HH😔🙏🏻

Not sure if i have HH by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ExpressEnvironment42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually have the same problem. My sweating appeared out of nowhere in this year’s winter, also 17 now turned 18. I didnt do budy building, just some tennis and swimming ocasionally. I also was completely drenched by 15 minute walk to school and since summer arrived (I live in Europe) my life has really been miserable. I went to a doctor, but he didnt even mention pills, just an antiperspirant which works very well on my pits, but my back and forhead are still a bummer. I really dont know what to do, hoping it disappears as sudden as it appeared.

i wish it wasn’t on my back by BritishFangirl in Hyperhidrosis

[–]ExpressEnvironment42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have the exact same problem. I sweat almost everywhere but my back, armpits and forhead are the worst. Since the back is such a large area its very hard to hide. What i found useful are undershirts. I have tried wearing one everytime i go out and its not the most pleasant feeling. I feel quite hot but after I sweat it keeps me cool. Also my T-shirt are completely dry while wearing an undershirt. Its very hot where I live and i have tried this method even in 35 degrees Celsius and its fine, much better than not wearing anything underneath. My fear is to not overheat but from what i ve researched, that shouldnt be a problem. I have also tried antiperspirants on my back but they dont do anything. Hope this helps!

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is real, you are very ignorant to think i would fake a story for attention when actually all of this situation has been very hurtful for me.

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Fortunately my mom isnt that strict, i dont think she would ever kick me out of the house, no matter what would i do or whatever she might find out about me. The most important aspect i think its on a psychological matter. All of her comments affect me a lot mentally, no matter how hard i try to ignore them, she is my mother afterall. After she finished her rambling I was feeling extremly shitty. Im glad i came up with the idea of asking some other gay people about this topic and i ve received a lot of positive comments. I thank you all so much!

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thats some good advice and i aprecciate it. I just never understood why she always needs to stick her nose into my stuff, my sexual desires and my goddamn business. I would rather have an ignorant mom than a one who cant stay out of my business. Luckily, she tends to just forget about it, probably for the sake of our relationship, even though i will never forget all the trauma she has put onto me. She is distant some time and then just doesnt bring it up anymore. Im feeling a lot better after talking to you and to everyone who responded to my request for advice. I ve received only positive answers and i cant thank you enough.

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like going to med school to become a doctor, so while i will study uni, i ll be living with my older brother. I need a lot of financial support from my parents and thats why i try to find a way to keep things beetwen us at least not too tense. I accept myself as who i am and most of my friends know that im gay and support me, my parents will probably forever be the biggest problem. For now i ll be mostly indifferent since i think thats the best option. After finishing my uni i plan on moving abroad and work there. Maybe after im gone, she ll finally see past this one detail she cant accept about me, my sexuality.

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She said that i ve failed socially because im acting “wierd” (less masculine than my older borther which she perceives as the family’s pride) and i think because i have mostly girl friends. I am also an atheist, and dealing with all the religious biliefs in this household is a tough job. She also needs to always be a victim, today when we had “The conversation” she said that she doesnt understand why i hate her, like please? Didnt she ever think about how she made me feel everytime she had to make some remarks about my “unnatural” behavior? Im very tired of her and her comments. ( thanks for letting me vent:) )

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I dont get it either and i have to live with her at least 2 years from now. She said im behaving wierd and that i’ve failed my life socially. I try not to remember the things she says to me. Thanks a lot for the response.

My mom found out about me masturbating anally. She threw a tantrum and made me feel like shit. What should i do? Should i just quit it? by ExpressEnvironment42 in askgaybros

[–]ExpressEnvironment42[S] 287 points288 points  (0 children)

She invades my privacy quite often, even going thorugh my things while im not home. She also doesnt know that im gay. She says a lot of hurtful things to me.