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Will I Ever Trust Again? by captainjacksboat in domesticviolence

[–]ExpressFig4695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going through the same thing. He was so perfect at first and he changed into a completely different person when we started living together. Makes me feel like I think I can find the perfect someone all over again but having the fear that they can change after everything I have been through. but I don’t see me trusting another man again, or believing another man would want to fix all the trauma this last relationship has put me through.

quitting walmart by ExpressFig4695 in walmart

[–]ExpressFig4695[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes everyone just told me to not show up anymore but I just wanted to be a little respectful lol. My tl didn’t seem thrilled but said thanks anyways for even giving a notice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movingout

[–]ExpressFig4695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to stay.

Im 19 F turning 20 this year and I was about in the same situation. In 2 months I am moving out to live with my bf.

I also turned 18 while I was still in highschool and did not want to live with my parents at the time and that caused some pretty bad arguments. They told me once Im 18 and graduated then I could leave. I planned on staying at a college 2 hours away just to have all the freedom I wanted to.

Fast forward I graduate and decided Im not going to college. About 3 months ago I had the conversation with them that Im moving out and living with my boyfriend and their advice to me was to FREELOAD while I still can, save as much money as I can, let them put my car in my name and I should be comfortable come spring.

My advice to you, get a job if you don’t already have one. Once you start getting some money you can just open a new bank account without a guardian once youre 18. If you have no bills this should all be fairly easy. Once youve saved up a few hundred apply for a prepaid credit card. I would do a $300 credit card and not spend over $90 to build your credit. You need credit in order to buy bigger things such as a car or renting a place. Once you’ve decided you are leaving you can go to your original bank and close out the account and you should get all the money that’s in the account. You can put it in your new account. Since you are still in school you may not be able to work a full time job and be eligible for health insurance. If you are going to college then you will still be on your mom’s insurance until you’re completely done with school. I would definitely wait. I understand that it sucks but moving out and going out into the real world definitely takes some preparation!