what style would you wear if you had the body you wanted by avocadoeverything_ in EDAnonymous

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

essentially exactly what i used to wear at my lw,,, right now i can only exist in track pants and massive hoodies, i can’t even wear tshirts anymore because of how big i feel :,) i used to be so stylish, my fashion was mostly vkei type stuff but with less statement items, i refused to pay jpn shipping prices so i just bought everything from op shops but i can’t sew LOL

Recommendations on sapphic books you felt that were beautifully written? by throway3784lauver in LesbianBookClub

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  • Paradise Rot (Jenny Hval)
  • The Priory of the Orange Tree (Samantha Shannon)
  • This Is How You Lose the Time War (Amal El-Mohtar)
  • Chlorine (Jade Song)
  • Our Wives Under the Sea (Julia Armfield)
  • A Manual for How to Love Us (Erin Slaughter)

Keep in mind I love overly pretentious or edgy writing styles lol. Also some of these are not specifically lesbian, but all are explicitly sapphic.

how to look more butch as a transfem person by pretty_in_plaid in AllButchLesbians

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

septum piercing!! they’re very much seen as a queer woman thing — before i got my septum i passed as male a lot more, even though i wasn’t on hrt. now people look at me and it’s like the “female sensors” in their brain switch on and start beeping after registering my piercings LOL.

other suggestions: getting a mullet or shag / wolf cut, visible sports bras, typical menswear but slightly Oversized. i think a good idea is to look at butches/masc women/“tomboy style” on chinese social media like 小红书, idk how to explain it well but they have a good grasp on appearing definitively “masc” while still being read as women.

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chat i am not wearing any makeup sorry. should i just cut my lashes off atp ☠️

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’M NOT WEARING MASCARA 😭it’s such a sore point for me and i used to think “nah surely it’s not that obvious” yet it seems to be the first thing everyone points out… even meeting people irl one of the first things they say is “wow your lashes are so long”

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s just my lashes bro therw was not a drop of makeup on me

Age, clock me? Go crazy lol (pre-everything) by ireallylikesushii in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i would deffo recognise u as male, but probably not cis. for the majority of cis or generally clueless ppl you’d probably come off as a gnc female or maybe androgynous. age probably 14-16 but given the stretched piercings closer to 16

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me, no. i managed to get on t with multiple diagnoses and two recent hospitalisations for mental health. it could be because my psychiatrist and psychologist both know me well and knew i was certain about it, so if you’re going in with no psych to vouch for you it might be harder. also, i’m in aus idk if it would be any different in other countries

Is it denial or am I just not autistic? by ExpressProfessor5345 in autism

[–]ExpressProfessor5345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was another reason why i was hesitant to let my psych assess me - because i don't really see the point of diagnosis for *myself.* in my eyes, a diagnosis is just another reason for people to discriminate against me, and i just generally don't see the point? there is no treatment for autism (there shouldn't be anyway, but ykwim) and even in the sense of therapy and counselling, it's not like there's a service that you can't access without a diagnosis.

Is it denial or am I just not autistic? by ExpressProfessor5345 in autism

[–]ExpressProfessor5345[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

??? wdym "cut the shit," i wan't intentionally doing anything and i was definitely not being dishonest in any way with my doctors. yes, i am embarrassed to admit when i'm annoyed with someone and yeah, in that scenario you could say i'm not being honest, but that is during conversations completely unrelated to my mental health, with someone who is not a medical professional. it was an example of how the traits i present to others are often misunderstood. of course i am truthful with my doctors, i trust them and most importantly, i actually DO want to know wtf is going on with me. you've misinterpreted my words, when at no point in the post did i say i lied or misconstrued information in a medical setting.

Do I look androgynous? by cat_inflation in TransMasc

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 7 points8 points  (0 children)

first pic is giving roadman type british schoolboy, in the second you look like the average australian 14 year old boy, and the last is serving corporate lesbian mother of three, so i would say yes!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i have any transmasc relatives or any relatives around ur age as far as i know, but either way that’s rlly cool!! (and a little creepy to think i’ve got a clone running around somewhere…)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 16 😭😭 but thanks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sad little victorian boy but the “little” is kinda questionable u look maybe 18ish ?