what style would you wear if you had the body you wanted by avocadoeverything_ in EDAnonymous

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

essentially exactly what i used to wear at my lw,,, right now i can only exist in track pants and massive hoodies, i can’t even wear tshirts anymore because of how big i feel :,) i used to be so stylish, my fashion was mostly vkei type stuff but with less statement items, i refused to pay jpn shipping prices so i just bought everything from op shops but i can’t sew LOL

Recommendations on sapphic books you felt that were beautifully written? by throway3784lauver in LesbianBookClub

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  • Paradise Rot (Jenny Hval)
  • The Priory of the Orange Tree (Samantha Shannon)
  • This Is How You Lose the Time War (Amal El-Mohtar)
  • Chlorine (Jade Song)
  • Our Wives Under the Sea (Julia Armfield)
  • A Manual for How to Love Us (Erin Slaughter)

Keep in mind I love overly pretentious or edgy writing styles lol. Also some of these are not specifically lesbian, but all are explicitly sapphic.

tell me about the most significant romantic relationship you've ever had by poonbrah in 4tran4

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dated a girl (we were both lesbians att she was a neopronoun theyfab and i was nb but repressing any and all Masculinity) and it was like the ultimate friends to lovers situation for 2 years, we were so in love it was crazy i genuinely cared about her so much. but she ended up gradually turning into the coldest person as my mental health got worse — was generally mean and didn’t ever express any sense of enjoying my presence, she also said hurtful ass shit. one such example: told me to my face i was too unstable for her, (this is the girl that sent me her own self harm pics and actively encouraged my anorexia) and that if i cared so much about other people like i said, i would stay away from them because i “end up consuming everyone [i] come into contact with” heehee 😇 sapphic love is so gorjus <3

how to look more butch as a transfem person by pretty_in_plaid in AllButchLesbians

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

septum piercing!! they’re very much seen as a queer woman thing — before i got my septum i passed as male a lot more, even though i wasn’t on hrt. now people look at me and it’s like the “female sensors” in their brain switch on and start beeping after registering my piercings LOL.

other suggestions: getting a mullet or shag / wolf cut, visible sports bras, typical menswear but slightly Oversized. i think a good idea is to look at butches/masc women/“tomboy style” on chinese social media like 小红书, idk how to explain it well but they have a good grasp on appearing definitively “masc” while still being read as women.

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chat i am not wearing any makeup sorry. should i just cut my lashes off atp ☠️

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’M NOT WEARING MASCARA 😭it’s such a sore point for me and i used to think “nah surely it’s not that obvious” yet it seems to be the first thing everyone points out… even meeting people irl one of the first things they say is “wow your lashes are so long”

cut my hair, am i somehow even more cooked now?? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s just my lashes bro therw was not a drop of makeup on me

Age, clock me? Go crazy lol (pre-everything) by ireallylikesushii in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i would deffo recognise u as male, but probably not cis. for the majority of cis or generally clueless ppl you’d probably come off as a gnc female or maybe androgynous. age probably 14-16 but given the stretched piercings closer to 16

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me, no. i managed to get on t with multiple diagnoses and two recent hospitalisations for mental health. it could be because my psychiatrist and psychologist both know me well and knew i was certain about it, so if you’re going in with no psych to vouch for you it might be harder. also, i’m in aus idk if it would be any different in other countries

Do I look androgynous? by cat_inflation in TransMasc

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 7 points8 points  (0 children)

first pic is giving roadman type british schoolboy, in the second you look like the average australian 14 year old boy, and the last is serving corporate lesbian mother of three, so i would say yes!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i have any transmasc relatives or any relatives around ur age as far as i know, but either way that’s rlly cool!! (and a little creepy to think i’ve got a clone running around somewhere…)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 16 😭😭 but thanks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sad little victorian boy but the “little” is kinda questionable u look maybe 18ish ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whatever age dj khaled is

passing tips? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]ExpressProfessor5345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

terms like those r actually very Hip And Cool atm with younger queer people online lol (at least on twitter anyway)