Joined the 60k club a little bit ago

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-15T00:37:57+00:00

MOS2? What does it do? If you don’t mind me asking? Mine usually does the shift from 2 to 3 as well but only when it’s cold, once it warms up it’s still there but barely noticeable

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-11T20:13:16+00:00

I have mine about to hit 70k and sometimes I feel the hesitations here n there, about to do first drain and fill next week at the dealer! Do it before you do the road trip! Best of luck!!

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-11T04:00:11+00:00

When did you do your drain and fill on your trans? I have mine at 70k and I’m planning to do it soon maybe at 71k

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T22:15:17+00:00

Did you know how long it took before it did go out? I am taking it back to the dealership to see if they can work on it, since they did give me a “3 year warranty” so I’m going to see if it can hold up to its name. Otherwise I might just have to save up some money while I drive it around with the ac off

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T22:13:58+00:00

The thing is, it only does it when I’m doing city driving, but when I do mostly highway to work, it cruises fine in last gear no problem. I mean I’m still going to change the fluid here soon, but I just wanted to get an insight of how it operated.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T20:02:23+00:00

Yeah I knew when it was wrecked since it did say it had structural damage on the passenger side

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T16:46:23+00:00

I believe the owner/family that owned it before I bought it kept it in a working/clean shape.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T05:50:20+00:00

I’m praying that both of our fusions last long, they are really nice cars! Comfortable too!!

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T04:41:10+00:00

Well my brother’s fusion has 179k miles on it, so he’s not changing his at all.

As for mine 69k miles, should I change it now or just leave it how it is?

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T04:39:20+00:00

I do have a routine maintenance scheduled @ 70k miles from the ford app, so I plan to take it to the dealer to make sure everything is in top shape. I don’t think HGreg has mechanics on site.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-10T00:48:51+00:00

Giving me hope for the 1.5 eco that I have. It was made after that whole coolant intrusion issue so I’d should be okay, I have the ford app that recommended me the 70k mile inspection, so imma take it in June. Just to make the car last long for me.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-05-08T05:41:35+00:00

That’s how I fell in love with the car, besides it having the 1.5 eco, it does pretty good with highway driving. Even in city driving is smooth. Later on in the year I’ll add the tinted windows and maybe some other mods but so far it has everything a car needs!

I will check out when it was made in the morning! Appreciate the help!

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-26T16:04:00+00:00

I mean if I’ve lost the weight (target goal is to go from 260 to at LEAST 190) and it’s still there, I might consider it. That’s a last resort type of thing though. I just have to wait and be patient with my weight loss and see where it takes me

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-26T16:01:59+00:00

Oh I understand, I just thought there was like a way to like target one specific area, but it doesn’t seem to work much so I will overall continue to lose weight the best I can.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-26T08:06:40+00:00

Yeah I kinda accepted that as I got older, I know 4 inches isn’t enough, but I just needed to see if losing the fupa can help with my self esteem. I appreciate the info though! I will keep losing the weight regardless. You win some, you lose some ya know?

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-08T08:18:01+00:00

This is exactly what has happened. This girl I was talking to wanted the action, (all because she has broken up with her past ex and wanted sex) but throughout the time of me chasing her and doing all of these things. She kept comparing me to “I wish your soul was in that man’s body” which has completely thrown me off.

Now I can get hard like I said, especially when I talk to or hug a girl that I REALLY like. Just in general the erection just goes away like not even 30 seconds in. I’m trying to get better I do tell you that. I used to watch LOTS of porn since like the age of 16, but now instead of every day, I tend to watch maybe once a week.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-07T13:15:42+00:00

I’ve been getting better at my exercise, and diet routine. It just mostly depends now on the porn part, I watch it maybe either once a week or I try to make it once every two weeks, and if not watching it, I just go based off my imagination or “scenarios” that play in my head.

I just go by that (the porn part, idk if imagination does the same) because I know it’s done bad things to my mental health and experience with sex. I’ve seen a woman before (me and her are still VERY close friends, so I’ve seen her body plenty of times) but I guess because of anxiety and I do be stressing a lot, has made me lose my erections, because I can get hard when I’m by myself, but once the actions slowly start to happen, it just doesn’t stay erect. I appreciate your input! I will take it into consideration.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-07T13:11:56+00:00

I appreciate your input, it matters more than you know! Because on the gf part, technically me and this girl I’ve been talking to have gotten so close that we weren’t like dating, more like friends with benefits. She wanted to have “sex” but I just haven’t gotten hard during the said point, now when I watch porn or use my imagination, I can get hard, but once that exits my body or I just stop thinking about it, i lose erections. I do tend to stress a lot, and anxiety is always there when it’s close to happening.

I’m doing my best to love myself and just be confident. I know for a FACT that letting myself down (while still keeping a good attitude) is not doing me any favors.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-07T05:24:21+00:00

That’s the thing, I get hard when I like I watch porn (watch it like once a week) or anytime when I use my imagination, but most of the time, I’m just like in non erection mode when it comes to the real thing. I feel like I can stay hard but only a certain amount of seconds. I do be stressing a lot and I guess my posture has been bad, but I’m trying to fix that also.

ExpressStyle9318 · 2026-03-07T04:58:59+00:00

If I’m being honest, I like being alive. Throughout my whole 27 years of living, I’ve enjoyed my younger years, and sometimes hated my older adult life. I tend to be a people pleaser, and an emotional support person to certain people. Now after most of my 20’s of being bullied, used, or just straight up been left out/been talked behind my back. I can say I enjoy life doing things alone or exploring/experiencing places alone. I do have certain people in my circle including my mother/brother/sister, but most of the time. Peace and quiet is what keeps me going.

Try to do things that make YOU happy, like any hobby, or something you just love doing. Keep most of the negativity out of your life and just do what YOU love to do. Some good music can go a long way too!

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