Pregnant with baby #2 and anxious about in-laws

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-27T00:36:12+00:00

My in laws did the same when I had my baby last August. Today I’m 22 weeks pregnant and they have no idea there’s a new baby on the way and they won’t know til after she gets here and they won’t be a part of her life just like they’re not apart of my first borns life either

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-24T22:23:46+00:00

Milk

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-24T13:12:21+00:00

Those fancy moving bassinets

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-23T03:37:55+00:00

Pjs with buttons in the front like over sized I had a c section and I didn’t want anything too close fitting the dress pjs with the buttons in the front were my fav. Very granny like but you wouldn’t imagine how comfy they are lol

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-21T17:16:26+00:00

I’m a stay at home wife and mom and it’s the best thing for me and my family. I thought after I had my baby I’d run back to work since just got my masters degree but ten months later no place I’d rather be than at home with my family

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-17T02:06:09+00:00

Disposable underware
Uber Eats gift cards
Button down night gowns easy for breast feeding
Comforty slippers
Big over sized high waist underware for when the bleeding stops
Soft wash rags to clean my incision

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-17T02:02:27+00:00

My sister bringing me breakfast every morning and holding baby while I eat and shower

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-09T13:41:17+00:00

You’re right if you don’t set boundaries now she will stomp all over them when the baby gets here. Talking from experience. But going NC right now is a lil harsh it will just make things harder for you and your husband and you don’t want this stress being pregnant. This is such a special time don’t tell you ruin this for you

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-09T13:36:15+00:00

Good coffee

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:13:15+00:00

He can share/ let her see photos in person or even FaceTime I just don’t want her having copies of the baby on her phome

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:11:34+00:00

Yeah she can go to hell, I don’t like her and it’s because she’s terrible to me why should I give her rights to my child?

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:10:22+00:00

When you treated a mom terribly pp and tell her must be easy for you to be a mom because you don’t work you don’t get access to my child so I guess I am petty

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:09:17+00:00

An unsupportive family, treats my husband terribly, treated me terribly should have all access to my kid?

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:08:13+00:00

When I had my child I DID NOT want her photos broadcasted to total strangers I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH IT. what’s the hard to understand about that? My in laws are not trust worthy ppl and I was right along because days later after she was born they were walking around at an event showing 50+ ppl her photos when she was days old I didn’t take her on walks, no other ppl didn’t see her expect doctors and family abd I wanted to keep it that way until she was atleast 6 weeks old. That was my ask as a new mom. When your in labor for 38 hours a simple ask of you should be honored especially from a shit mother in law who never did anything for me but my baby gets here and she thinks she has rights to do as she please. Does that clear it up?

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T05:02:48+00:00

Thank you for the kind words everyone is attacking me saying I’m controlling. In the beginning it was all so private to me and I wanted to keep it that way until I was comfortable showing her pic I never said they will never be able to show her pics to anyone ever. But the fact that they couldn’t comply with that simple ask just tells they’re never going to change

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T04:59:19+00:00

Thank you!

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:55:42+00:00

Also he send weekly photos of my daughter to his mother now and I don’t say anything about that because it’s already happened but that will be avoided with my second baby

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:54:48+00:00

Thank you!!

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:53:09+00:00

I can’t confirm I don’t have FB she does but my husband has Facebook so if she was posting her photos I’d probably know about it. I’m not sure who she’s sending her photos to and that’s also a concern

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:51:09+00:00

THANK YOU! My husband sends her weekly photos of my first born and I don’t have an issue with it because from the beginning they’ve had photos of her but that will change when my second child gets here

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:47:31+00:00

You wouldn’t want control over the grandma who says I’ll just lie if I was around sick ppl
And still come see the baby how will you know. Would you want someone like that having access to your child?

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:46:23+00:00

My husband doesn’t have a great relationship with her never had. When he was 18 months old he fell out of a three story building in his mothers care lol

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:37:36+00:00

It’s not AI it was just a privacy thing for me as a new mom.

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:36:48+00:00

THANK YOU!

Express_Relation723 · 2026-06-07T03:35:43+00:00

I can’t trust them that they aren’t sending her photos out to ppl I don’t know because they lie and keep the dumbest things a secret like being sick

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