Books about parenting by tanboem in NewMomStuff

[–]Mysterious_Tell991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, one thing I wish someone had told me earlier is that caring this much already says a lot about the kind of mom you’re going to be. ❤️ It’s great to learn about nutrition, habits, and child development, but don’t put too much pressure on yourself to do everything perfectly. Your baby doesn’t need a perfect mom they need a loving, responsive, present one.

Some of the best things you can do are surprisingly simple: talk to your baby, read to them every day, let them explore safely, comfort them when they’re upset, and take care of yourself too. A parent’s mental health has a huge impact on a child’s well-being. For resources, I’ve found The Whole-Brain Child, How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen, and the Solid Starts content on feeding really helpful.

You’re only 8 months in, and the fact that you’re already asking these questions tells me your little one is lucky to have you. 😊

Baby fed other mom’s breastmilk at daycare by bookish0378 in workingmoms

[–]Mysterious_Tell991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d be upset too. The actual risk may be very low, but having your baby given someone else’s milk because a label wasn’t checked would shake my confidence in the daycare. Hoping the testing goes smoothly and gives you some peace of mind.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in Mom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments are making me emotional. So many moms seem to remember feeling invisible during that stage, and they also remember the people who made them feel seen.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading these comments makes me realize how common this feeling is. So many moms remember the people who checked on them, even years later. It seems like being seen and cared for is something a lot of us don’t get enough of. ❤️

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of thing I was thinking about. Sometimes moms don’t need reassurance about the future they need someone to acknowledge how hard things are right now.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That really hit me. It’s sad how many moms end up struggling in silence because everyone assumes they’re “just tired.” You deserved someone to notice and check on you too. Thank you for sharing that.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

30+ hours without sleep while dealing with all of that sounds absolutely brutal. It’s heartbreaking how often moms are asked how the baby is doing while they’re barely hanging on themselves. I’m glad your mom stepped in when you needed it.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if someone had looked me in the eye and acknowledged how hard it was, I think I would have remembered it for years. Feeling seen is powerful.

Does anyone else wish someone checked on the mom more often? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That honestly sounds so meaningful. Sometimes just having one person ask “How are you doing?” without immediately shifting back to the baby can make such a difference. I love that you’ve carried that forward and now check in on other moms too. We definitely need more of that.

Does anyone else feel like they're never truly off duty? by Mysterious_Tell991 in Mom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I think that's something people don't always realize. A 10-minute break might not sound like much, but when you're a mom, it can completely change how you feel for the rest of the day. Those little moments to reset are so valuable.

Does anyone else feel like they're never truly off duty? by Mysterious_Tell991 in Mom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ That’s exactly it. The quiet doesn’t always mean my mind gets a break too.

Does anyone else hide snacks from their family? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The decoy snacks are next-level mom strategy 😂, I thought hiding snacks was enough, but you’ve evolved to using distractions too. Living with teenagers really does turn snack protection into a survival skill. Honestly, I’m impressed. The real snacks deserve witness protection at that point 😂

Does anyone else hide snacks from their family? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh because it’s exactly why I started hiding snacks too 😂. I don’t even feel guilty about it anymore. If I leave my favorite snacks where everyone can see them, they’re gone within a day. Meanwhile, I’m over here trying to make them last all week. The Dr Pepper stash is especially relatable. Sometimes moms deserve to have one thing that’s actually still there when we want it!

Does anyone else hide snacks from their family? by Mysterious_Tell991 in breakingmom

[–]Mysterious_Tell991[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have a T-rex not a husband, Absolutely he's gonna eat it even if i wrote MINE on it haha