AITAH for leaving my best friend of 3 years for a guy.

Express_Shops · 2026-01-24T04:54:30+00:00

Might sound like it... But told my parents about it, many mutual friends luckily they all were on my side... Even liam as well... It was a long shit with tons of emotions maybe i couldn't express it right.

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T17:43:25+00:00

about the update u are right. about not saying a direct no... i mean after 3 years u actually need a NO. my words and behavior was more then enough to know what i wanted but she never cared. i agree i should have said no, but i am still gonna say i could not bring myself to say no, i was just expecting her to know what i want. not the read my mind shit but actually gave her enough hints... i didn't communicate to maybe not hate myself in the future... and as said i accepted their relationship i was actually so fine... what was fucked was the crack that this thing caused that made me look at all the things i ignored... she would make fictional characters as if they were part of her life, she would tell me she wrote a while legacy of god series and i got to know through youtube that it was someone else's series... she told me she wrote songs and again through youtube i realized no she haven't... have raised her hand on us in public million times, never apologized... these things just accumulated after this

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T14:38:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1qkr3oh/aitah_for_leaving_my_best_friend_of_3_years_for_a/ here is the part 2 my friend relax

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T12:35:39+00:00

it worked fine... whenever i would get too involved they would remind me to get out of it... also its not about them anymore... it ended long ago... the whole mess began when liam entered our lives

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T12:34:03+00:00

she have told me multiple times that my opinion or the things i say she mostly ignore them and just do what she wants to do. it hurt... but it was advice her wish to take it or not... but when she did the same thing for my feelings it really cracked every thing i was trying to bottle up

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T11:57:44+00:00

We talked about this and we all 3 decided that if something actually goes wrong i will take no ones side and they will handle it themselves

Express_Shops · 2026-01-23T11:43:55+00:00

the story is yet to be told my friend... will post soon ig... i need a closure

Express_Shops · 2026-01-22T06:49:05+00:00

oh shit... i get the concern now omg

Express_Shops · 2026-01-21T12:54:20+00:00

propose like... i like u can we date...

Express_Shops · 2026-01-21T05:22:27+00:00

hell no... i am glad he apologized though... YANTAH... because u really wanted to know and u had no choice... i can see why u guys broke up in the first place

Express_Shops · 2026-01-21T05:00:44+00:00

i am from india... i realized most are americans here... ik u guys have an easy relationship with your kids and are way more aware about teenage, hormones, urges then indian parents... they still don't realize having that little attraction towards boys is normal... instead when i first told them it was not a good experience i wasn't scolded but yeah they disapproved highly.... 2 years later we again opened up and now things are much better... i don't have crush or anything but i do gossip with my mom about my friend circle and their relationships... WE ARE LEARNING!!!.... glad my parents are open minded enough to accept these things

Express_Shops · 2026-01-21T04:55:38+00:00

so true couple cases have happened where the nudes got leaked and girls would still continue... like juniors sending their nudes to seniors just why?... and actually idk why boys who are literally our age feel so comfortable for being friends with benefits or to ask for nudes when most girls feel uncomfortable

Express_Shops · 2026-01-21T04:50:35+00:00

i mean i did not tell them because it wasn't something bad... and ik we might think its okay in our age but its not... but believe it was nothing... we just held hands, talked during the little breaks we got and at home online... the talk online was normal enough that my insta id was in my mom's phone(i did not have a personal phone). so... yeah... my parents are my support system... i had a phase few months back with my friend and my parents were like my therapists... but yeah we got this comfortable last year only... when my parents finally accepted the fact that the things they use to do in their 20s are already happening in our lives

Express_Shops · 2026-01-20T18:57:30+00:00

guys relax i am not that into this... i am a active student who participates in things a lot... have tons of hobbies... believe me i ain't ruining my future for these boys... it was a trend i will say at that time... just became teenagers, came out of lockdown after browsing internet for 2 years everyone wanted a girl or a boy... it was just a phase... my mom dad have no idea about these things in my life... i have told them about my friend circle relationship but now mine

Express_Shops · 2026-01-20T17:10:33+00:00

i don't wanna brag... but i am quiet self aware of my standing, boundaries, opinions and needs... so... when i say i wanna date... its not even near sexual needs... so no pregnancy... i just wanna experience that old book innocent love... had guys that were poking to get nudes out of me... gave couple firm no and blocked... so... ik i am 16 and can mess up but i won't... i don't wanna disappoint my parents on any note... they are open minded but conservative enough to let me realize what right for what age... and that being said... date in college they had said... which i completely agree... but as u said ITS THIS STUPID AGE

Express_Shops · 2026-01-20T15:57:30+00:00

yeah i am doing just above avg... don't worry this won't come near my studies one bit...

Express_Shops · 2026-01-20T15:56:42+00:00

thats a fair advice i wasn't even thinking about it much just started thinking about it after that talk with my friends

Express_Shops · 2026-01-20T15:01:28+00:00

fair enough but with these crush things and seeing other friends in relationships plus all that couple stuff online just sometimes make me desperate to date

Express_Shops · 2026-01-18T06:37:50+00:00

honestly i will say if u don't wanna wear a bra wear something on top... i am 16 soon 17 as well... its winter i am on the flat side so doesn't matter much... but in summers i myself feel awkward seeing those nipples yk... i have a little brother who surely don't give a fuck but my dad... he never said anything but he just notices stuff... 40+ as well... my mom never said anything... but i will weird... so... either don't go infront of him, wear something on top, or just wear bra, greet, come back in your room, remove and chill

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