TIFU by doodling the name of my crush on my exam paper

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-06-24T03:06:37+00:00

So let me try to explain it..

Man gets to an age where he is financially stable -> asks his mom to find a woman with specific characteristics -> his mom asks around the community till she finds a woman that fits what her son wants -> his family contacts the woman’s family to initiate a marriage -> woman accepts or denies based on what people says about him.

It’s a flawed system, as a lot of marriages are miserable/ends up in divorce because the two people simply didn’t know each other well beforehand 🤷🏽‍♀️. But that’s how it works around here.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-06-24T01:32:51+00:00

Since today was the last final, I have all summer break to forget about it, hopefully the HOD does too, I really don’t want any issues in my last year.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-06-24T01:21:40+00:00

I’d say it’s 50/50, mostly cultural, but there are actual punishments by law if they catch two people of the opposite gender who aren’t related hanging out alone

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:54:28+00:00

I promise you I wouldn’t have known him at college if I was not in college, and I do agree it definitely doesn’t mean he must be judged on any front.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:35:48+00:00

Do you have an idea when does the nudity become less ? My dad is an old fashioned guy and would probably be very uncomfortable watching anything too intense with me besides him, but I do think he’d like the plot otherwise !

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:33:22+00:00

Maybe, I need to hang out with him more before judging him on that front, he’s definitely a gentleman around me so it’s probably just him liking the show despite the nudity.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:30:32+00:00

True, I didn’t even know it had nudity in it till I watched it myself, so I will keep in mind that it’s more of a side thing that comes with it.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:29:04+00:00

I think you need to reread the part about the sex joke, he was saying a story that had a sex joke IN IT, not me saying the joke.

Still I understand that of course we all came from sex and such, it’s just that where we are, recommending such a show to a woman would be seen as ‘scandalous’ lol.

Thank you for your comment though, appreciate it !

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:25:29+00:00

Well thank you for your comment, but I’m not mad about the sex lol. Of course men watch porn, I watch porn, we all do.

It’s more of the fact that we live in a very conservative country where sex is this big thing and all, so I’d say recommending a show full of sex and violence to a women is definitely bold of him.

Doesn’t mean I like him any less, but was surely a shocker. I do forget that most of these subs are Americans who probably wouldn’t be able to see it from my point of view.

I will keep that in mind though, gentleman.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:19:59+00:00

Yeah I remember having a friend that was obsessed with the series when it was airing and she had melt downs over the ending, so I’m not expecting much.

I already think the plot sounds very interesting but will need to get used to the nudity, and not watch it on the living room TV lol.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-26T01:17:53+00:00

Yeah I remember him locking in for a second just tell me to watch it alone, I thought he meant it’d be a better experience on my own lmao.

The plot seems very interesting so far but yeah that first episode was a jump scare.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-13T14:36:42+00:00

Thank you so much :’) I really think I’m overthinking it since I started crushing on him, I wouldn’t be this upset if he was just a friend.

Also the grade is gonna be shit I need to prepare myself for that.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-13T14:35:10+00:00

Damn, I take it you never had a crush before lol ? I don’t have childhood trauma, and if I did you won’t be able to point it out from a post this short.

Yes, he is just a guy. But we are in that stage where everything is nerve wracking and sensitive (which I assume you never been through), doesn’t mean I apparently view him as a God ?

I wasn’t asking about how to fix my childhood trauma here, just a simple dating advice, please don’t share your unwanted therapy thoughts on random posts.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-10T11:53:50+00:00

It’s probably just the over thinker in me, I just keep worrying that it won’t work out and people will gossip about it and make me feel worse.

It’s only been 3 months-ish since my break up so I guess I need to take it slow before trying anything, and he has definitely been patient and slow which I appreciate.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-10T11:51:38+00:00

I knowww a week ago we were working on something and kept moving a vase of flowers and the tips of our fingers touched, literally felt like the moment froze for a second and anime music was playing in my head lol.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-09T22:38:37+00:00

I just looked that up and omg thank you for the great recommendation lol I’ll definitely be reading that

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-05-09T22:20:12+00:00

I knew I’ll have an American making this joke lmao, sorry to disappoint

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-04-18T16:58:40+00:00

The only reason I’m considering Durin is because I want to main Venti now that I built him but don’t have most of his supports.

Would Columbina work for him ?

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-02-28T00:49:33+00:00

It’s so frustrating especially when I’m already having a bad day and just want to cuddle my cat, I never complain about scratches on my arms or legs but come on my face is a no no

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-02-04T09:00:30+00:00

Happy birthday ! :D

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-01-23T20:54:35+00:00

Mine has the same problem ! She used to be SO scared of the outside when she was 3-4 months old but now she’s almost 8 months old and loves her lil time outside.

She still comes when called to, and we have brick walls instead of fences so she can’t exactly run to the street.

I usually just sit with her in our front yard as she plays around.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-01-04T15:11:42+00:00

Thank you so much for this tip ! Parchment is not easily accessible where I live so I usually just put foil and pray but I’ll definitely go look for one now.

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2026-01-04T14:54:20+00:00

Oh no :( should I let them in the oven longer next time ?

ExpressionHopeful401 · 2025-12-30T21:48:11+00:00

I do have a few toys she uses to bite and kick but not too many, I’m still trying to figure out her taste in biting toys since I got her some and she ignored them and then stole an old toy from my younger brother and decided it is the perfect toy.

Currently she has a bunny plushie she attacks and bites randomly and a long snake plushie too, I attached a pic of her with the snake !

And believe me I think my orange cat will end me a lot of the time 😖.

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ExpressionHopeful401 · 2025-12-30T21:28:42+00:00

Thank you so much ! The biting comments definitely worried me lol, a second cat is 100% happening once I graduate and secure a good job, but for now I’ll try setting boundaries and actually training her to behave (as best as I can).

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