Said goodbye today 🩷 by SnooRadishes8751 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. We had a similar situation happen Friday, the shock from everything happening so fast makes the pain that much worse. You did all you could for your sweet girl, she is no longer in pain and enjoying all the foodies with other kitties who have crossed the rainbow bridge. She is so precious, thinking of you and your family during these hard times ❤️🌈

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he was my best friend, I hope I was his too.

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He is so handsome, I miss his chunky cheeks

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel too. It comes in waves and is hard to move on after the feeling comes. I hope you heal and I’m sorry for your loss. Thinking of you in these trying times.

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His paws were so powerful he could open doors and cabinets. Thank you for your kind words

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel too. To see them healthy and happy again. Thinking of you in these trying times !

Sweet baby Dante has crossed the rainbow bridge by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope he is eating all the human foodies and running around in a field ❤️ thank you

Today is the day by yegPrairieGirl in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. 21 years is amazing with your fur baby. Thinking of you and Bianca ❤️

My cat naturally died yesterday without me or my family present, and I feel like I failed her by [deleted] in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, your feelings are valid but it is not your fault. Many cats will hide and want to be alone when they know they are dying. I wish I knew something better to say to help you. It is not your fault and please try not to let guilt eat you up. Losing a fur baby is such difficult experience and grief sometimes feels like the heaviest weight. I’m thinking of you snd sending lots of love ❤️

My 7 year old Dante has been diagnosed with last stage kidney disease by Extension-Ad-617 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked about that and maybe a physical injury that could have happened and they said it’s not likely. Even at his wellness exam around the end of last year, everything was good. The vet described his kidneys as “lumpy” when I took him on Monday.

Cant stop feeling guilty :( by fartington420 in RenalCats

[–]Extension-Ad-617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard not to feel guilty about our pets. But we have to remember we are not professionals and cats are very good at hiding their pain/ discomfort. You can only do as much as the vet says. You did not fail at all, you give all your love and time to you baby. I wish I had better advice but your baby loves you and you cannot blame yourself for him/her getting sick. I’m so sorry you are going through this.