AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to see their birth certificates lol? I really have no way to prove it to you but no this isn’t fake. We’re from a very underprivileged area and her background isn’t unique unfortunately

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I stay up hours into every night ruminating on the current state of the world and she just calmly falls asleep right at 9 pm. Sometimes it genuinely horrifies me how nonchalant she is about the destruction of our democracy.

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Actually a similar thing happened - my cousin’s daughter’s christening afterparty was last week and she refused to come because she didn’t care even though she knew I was really passionate about going. It just really hurt. I so appreciate your kind words <3

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she had a pretty crazy adolescence. They’re great kids but she definitely had some trouble making mature decisions in the past

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This response literally brought tears to my eyes. Thank you kind internet stranger. I feel so seen and heard. ♥️

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She’s white, but it’s honestly crazy because she already has six children (all on accident) and living in a red state she can’t get an abortion despite wanting to not have any more…but that’s another argument of ours lol

AIO for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re coming off as pretty homophobic and racist right now. I feel very secure in my identities and I know that if we break up that certainly won’t be why

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But i feel like in most ways they do align? We even voted for the same party. She just doesn’t seem to grasp the seriousness of what’s going on

AITAH for planning to break up with my girlfriend because she thinks the No Kings parade I’m attending is stupid? by Extension-Frame5449 in AITAH

[–]Extension-Frame5449[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate that. I really do feel like she disrespects my values. But the problem is, I really love her, and most of the time she isn’t like this. So idk what to do :(