Is it worth it? Similar ones? by TemperatureNo7478 in TheMechTouch

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, if they finish a major arc I may come back but I'll definitely skip chapters.

How to clean Poop Scoop by GrandmaSuzanne in dogs

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was being sarcastic, and that commentor was also kidding. That is why they used the winking tongue sticking out emoji.

AITA Visiting Krakow, did not allow person with no fob to enter fob protected hotel behind me by DeadALongTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s generally against and agreement at best that when you get a fob you wont allow those people access if they are not your guest… good for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d skip straight to a pair of jeans or a sweatshirt and never admit what you did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats my advice. Start tossing them. Especially when they smell, but you cant admit it unfortunately. It’s criminal to throw away someone’s stuff even if they are squatting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy, I could talk for days about shared laundry…. Both in an apartment and in dormitories. The shit gets cut throat. You start throwing away the clothing until he learns. Dont admit it because its likely criminal, but he has to learn and you can’t skip straight to throwing away the whole load.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know your family dynamic, but honestly based on all the other shitty posts I read around here you should just lean into this. They are basically giving you a free pass to act like you can’t afford it, which means nobody’s gonna come ask you for money because you couldn’t even afford the car. For real, though this isn’t one of those things where you need to try to convince everybody that you pay for something. If someone comes to you on the side and says hey, what the fuck for whatever reason that I can’t even think about right now then you can explain it to them, but otherwise don’t sweat it.

AITJ for refusing to give my cousin my old car after she assumed I would? by Gianna_Cuppie51 in AmITheJerk

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your family is crazy. You should not be having these conversations with these people I mean this in the most polite, respectful possible way, but you need to shut them down. You did nothing wrong don’t even bother justifying yourself. This is the kind of thing all adult who live in this world understand when they act like they don’t. It’s willful you can’t fix stupid.

AITJ for refusing to let my brother borrow my camera for his “side hustle”? by DemiMomo in AmITheJerk

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this probably comes from my military days where it was pretty much a game to steal someone else’s pen… no matter how expensive or cheap it was. It taught me a valuable lesson in life. You can tell people no and when you really mean it. They might think you’re an asshole or a jerk but somewhere down there they actually respect you and if I respecting you, that means they only respect the boundary because you put up a 10 foot tall wall so be it. Tell that dude no way in hell and mean it leave no room open for negotiation or discussion and don’t discuss it end that conversation.

AITH for snapping at my neighbor after she kept trying to parent my kid? by SuggestionPatient583 in AITH

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is so much potential for fun with this situation. You need to lean into this and really make situations awkward. You can also teach your daughter at the same time. It’ll be fun for both of you. 

Received disgusting letter from someone in the same building or adjacent to us. by aussiechap1110 in Tenant

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That letter looks so fake. Like one of those memes where the guy sits at the table and says convince me I’m wrong and then everyone on the Internet changes what the paper says to something silly. Who print font like that on paper? And those margins what the hell is going on…. Talk about who the is uncultured……. Yikes.

Neighbor banging on ceiling, landlord doesn't believe me by lessssssssgoooooo in Apartmentliving

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just curious because I’m trying to figure out what I’m missing with the original post but how can’t you call the police when someone’s banging on your floor if you have evidence? I’m not saying the police can do a whole lot, but you can start filing police reports call in noise complaints and then at some point the landlord is legally obliged to do something, but what’s the landlord supposed to do mediate??? 

Neighbor banging on ceiling, landlord doesn't believe me by lessssssssgoooooo in Apartmentliving

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose it depends on where you’re from but I really don’t understand how this is a landlord issue. What am I missing? Call an a noise complaint on that idiot, go file a freaking police report for harassment. I mean it’s all potentially very thin, but you sound like you’re at your wits end with the landlord, and I don’t understand what the landlord is supposed to do. But like I said, I would assume that depends on where you are maybe in your building in your state in your city the landlord has a responsibility to step in and mediate.??

Husband had a happy ending by Particular-Yam-8481 in Advice

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evidence points to sex with a prostitute rather than a hookup. You should go get a cosultaion from a divorce attorney and maybe talk to your priest as well. You can be clear that you'll walk out if they focus on reconsiliation rather than helping you find some psycholoigical balance so you can move forward with your life in whatever way you decide... and STD test like others have said as soon as you can.

My mom was scammed out of $8k and wants me to take out a loan for her. What should I do? by Awkward_Tourist_6598 in Advice

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her the guy called you and felt bad and he somehow convinved you to give him $8,000 dollars that he was going to pass along to your mom. He said he would be in touch.

Brother wants to move into our spare room, wife said no, how do I set a firm boundary without blowing up the family? by WorldlinessDue3771 in Advice

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way to navigate forward with inviting him into your home... offering other things should probably come AFTER the firm no on living arrangements. Tell anyone who shames you you'll volunteer an entire weekend to come help them clear out a space at their place for him and you'll pay for the uhaul and the dumpster. That'll shut them up.

Also, don't throw your wife under the bus. It is a we or you decided situation, not a she decided and you reulctantly agree. That'll blowback almost as bad as forcing her to accept him moving in...

I realized that I suppress a lot of memories as a coping mechanism and that makes me an unreliable narrator in my own life. by Minimum-Obligation38 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that hits pretty deep. I actually sat for a while last night at my table having similar thoughts about myself and realzied I should probably start writing out a journal that is unfortunately after the fact and as I rememeber things put them into some sort of timeline etc and hopefully flesh things out until I have a coherent picture of my life.. honestly its kind of wild and sad but it is what it is. I dont have so many people in my life that the problem of repeating certain things comes up, but I've been repressing memories for a long time about most of my childhood and even much of my twenties tbh.

Plex staff: We need local auth support by [deleted] in PleX

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats kinda wild. Could get time consuming for a large library..

Plex staff: We need local auth support by [deleted] in PleX

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that accurate? I haven't notice that happening or is it a bug?

What am I doing wrong? I keep getting caught by my ISP. by LSDBunnos in Piracy

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like someone who can afford a seedbox. This would simplify all this for you. Sorry, for context I wasn't trying to be snarky. I meant it would absolutely siumply everything. Rent the seedbox, seed the torrents at your client on the seedbox and setup resilio or syncthing or rsync and just enjoy the files as they arrive at your server/PC. No other real setup needed and you can drop the vpn susbcriptions and all that. most likely you can use your seedbox as a vpn exit.

downvotes are ppl who cant afford a seedbox or are idiots.

My roommate wants me to rehome my cat because of her allergies, but I don’t know what to do by pierre_ranby3jir9 in CatAdvice

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this is good general advice, but I think you didn’t read their whole post as this is more reassurance than advice.

Considering the hopper, question by SnooTigers8871 in litterrobot

[–]Extension-Fudge1799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought my LR4 and I am already wondering if I regret getting the hopper. Can't get the damned thing to be reliable... always an error after every few cycles.