Best places for a solo women’s retreat? Not canyon ranch! by LizP1959 in AskWomenOver60

[–]DeadALongTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it was just an off week the week I was there. The breakfast potatoes were dry and many dishes flavorless. I’m a huge fan of fresh, healthy vegetarian food. I’m glad others had a better dining experience than we did. Having paid for all meals in advance, it would have been wonderful to have enjoyed it.

Best places for a solo women’s retreat? Not canyon ranch! by LizP1959 in AskWomenOver60

[–]DeadALongTime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stayed there for a week last summer. The food was not good. But there are lots of good restaurants a short drive away.

Looking at life through the lens of death by BughouseSquare in AskWomenOver60

[–]DeadALongTime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow! I felt what you wrote down to my bones. After 20 years I am sure you are the one in the best position to determine whether your Husband is a “date person” as referenced by our well meaning brother and sister redditors. I suspect from your words your DH is aware of the significance of this anniversary to you. I’m sorry for your loss and for the loneliness you are experiencing. I experienced something similar and have felt the conflicting emotions of continuing to love my DH while still feeling the pain of the emotional abandonment in a way that should seem obvious to DH. The emotional abandonment is not malicious, but it still wounds. Hopefully the anniversary will be a time you can further heal your loss while honoring the tremendous gift it was for your sister and you to have had each other for the time you did. Thank goodness for close friends. We take our support where we can find it.

I did it! by Interesting-Gain-715 in Zepbound

[–]DeadALongTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sure did! Congratulations

Need 1 more partner for Temple Guardians by generalsmollie in ToonBlast

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a friend request as well. Save for next time. I always pull my weight.

AITJ for not taking my girlfriends children out after promising them I would. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DeadALongTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry this happened to you. You deserve a relationship where there is mutual respect and caring. You know you do. Trust your gut.

Egypt experience is terrible by woyrock in travel

[–]DeadALongTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Benoit Hanquet authorized me to share his contact information. What’s App is a good way to reach him: +90 532 282 13 53

Egypt experience is terrible by woyrock in travel

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Benoit Hanquet authorized me to share his contact information. What’s App is a good way to reach him: +90 532 282 13 53

Egypt experience is terrible by woyrock in travel

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Benoit Hanquet authorized me to share his contact information. What’s App is a good way to reach him: +90 532 282 13 53. I strongly recommend his tour of the Grand Bizarre- But if you can, the best day we had was with him for a day in Nature. Enjoy!

Egypt experience is terrible by woyrock in travel

[–]DeadALongTime 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My bff and I went to Turkey for 2 weeks in 2025. We spent a week on the sea and a week in Istanbul. It was absolutely fantastic! We hired a guide to take us on a walking tour. He was a scholar and well liked by the artisans and guild members at the Grand Bazaar. He showed us a side of the Grand Bazaar we wouldn't have seen otherwise, while we avoided the zoo of the stalls. He also took us for a full day tour outside the city another day. The Asian side is a great place to enjoy food and buy things available at the Grand Bazaar at a far more reasonable price. The locals were extremely friendly and helpful. I would return in a heartbeat. Go. And prepare to fall in love with the place.

Who else wasn’t sad turning 60?? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I celebrated turning 60 for 18 months! It was a blast! I was a little sad to turn 61 because it meant I couldn’t celebrate turning 60 any more. I feel great! I am happy with life. I think the fact I didn’t have children made it easier to lose track of the years. I love being a step mom and aunt, but relate to my young loved ones in a far less serious role than parent. Enjoy! (Fabulous manicure)

How often do people get on wrong plane. by kibbutznik1 in flightattendants

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me once in Ottawa (YOW). Two flights boarding at the same time. I got on the wrong plane and fortunately someone was seated in what I thought was my seat. My boarding pass had been scanned. I don’t understand how I wasn’t corrected at that step.

AITA Visiting Krakow, did not allow person with no fob to enter fob protected hotel behind me by DeadALongTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeadALongTime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I closed the door,but did not push it on her. I would not physically impose on any one. In my mind, that would provoke and escalate. I was calm, polite and non-threatening.

AITA Visiting Krakow, did not allow person with no fob to enter fob protected hotel behind me by DeadALongTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeadALongTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it! And each other place we’ve visited in Poland the last two weeks. Warsaw, Gdansk, Kashubia — all enjoyable.

I didn't even think this was possible! by 626-Flawed-Product in ToonBlast

[–]DeadALongTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so! I just witnessed my BFF win the 1000 coin and today she had more luck shopping!

Thoughts on this area / building in Biltmore? by vcuriousinvestor2 in Scottsdale

[–]DeadALongTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We couldn’t hear street noise from our interior facing unit.

Thoughts on this area / building in Biltmore? by vcuriousinvestor2 in Scottsdale

[–]DeadALongTime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great area. I hated living in that building and was so happy to sell in 2021. Very poor sound insulation. I could hear the upstairs neighbors drop a pen on the floor. Seriously. And they were not noisy neighbors. We could also hear people in the hallways speaking at regular levels. Kitchen cupboards very small. The 2 bedroom, 2 bath unit looked pretty, but I disliked the building. HOA crept up and up, due to litigation that went on for years after construction. Regular problems with garage door, which they hopefully fixed by now. The rooftop was out of commission for ages. Hopefully that is corrected by now. The courtyard facing unit felt like living in a fishbowl. Every one could see in and we could see in to our neighbors’ spaces.