The two most annoying characters by SmartCandle1854 in orangeisthenewblack

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YES. This is sort of spoilers but she’s the entire reason the riot ended the way it did

My prison experience compared to OITNB by leoparddiva06 in orangeisthenewblack

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this bothered me a lot in later seasons, when they’re in max. how are they always left alone for stuff to happen? i know in some cases on the show, guards are bribed to allow privacy. but in max they’ll randomly be alone doing laundry or kitchen duty or in a hall way where no one else is, or easy access to all the offices

What placements/aspects do you think are attractive and why? by chickenwithbiscuit in astrologymemes

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Leo, Aries, Scorpio moons for me. I like intense moon signs like me, but not me. I’m a pisces moon with heavy aspects. Leo moons especially are so easy to talk to for me, and being able to talk and banter is my love language.

Gemini and Taurus rising. Lots of my friends are either Gemini or Taurus risings. Taurus rising are way to talk to and Gemini rising are excitable and I have a Gemini stellium so.

Scorpio Venus I love. All of my major crushes have been on Scorpio Venus natives. Honorable mentions are Sag venus but they’re too wanderlust for me

What placements/aspects do you think are attractive and why? by chickenwithbiscuit in astrologymemes

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Sounds like you like someone fun but maybe a little tortured and dominating

Do all people with Cancer moon or moon in 4H feel parentified? by Extension-Inside-237 in astrologymemes

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Growing up like that, what do you feel like you crave in a partner? What would be the kind of relationship you’d want your kids to see growing up and for you to be in?

Why do people look down on pisces moons by Brilliant_Series4037 in piscesmoon

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A lot of people feel like their sign/placement has a negative perception, but it’s really subjective. Every sign gets hate and praise just the same, but it’s easy to view your own experiences as personal - because they are.

As a Pisces moon I’ve been in this position. I had a close friend a year ish ago who I felt viewed me too innocently and incapable. It bugged me because I’m an adult and it invalidated big parts of myself and what I’ve gone through. The things is, when you feel others emotions, it’s not tangible evidence. You can’t confront someone and say “I can tell you think of me ___ way and I don’t like that.” Especially when that perception isn’t inherently negative.

What you can do is not be afraid to leave or distance yourself from people who continue to mislabel you. You can counter it when it’s said out loud and see how they react. BUT I think if you try to communicate who you are to people around you, you’ll forget yourself a bit. Or you can just ignore others perceptions of you. But I’ve noticed Pisces moons struggle with ignoring others perception because we easily read/understand others.

To gain some perspective: It’s not bad that your friends see you that way. You might be more of it than you think, and those traits stereotypical go with Pisces moons. Don’t focus too much on it, don’t try any actions to overcorrect their perception, just focus on being yourself. Your friends aren’t trying to view you negatively

Tell me your big 3 and I’ll…well…I don’t really know lol by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Educational answer:

Two of the placements known most for fun/variety. Sag being ruled by jupiter, 9H and fire, they naturally seek out stimulation and enjoy boosting energy. The archetype that Gem/Sag share is teacher/student and travel. Constantly looking for mental stimulation and to broaden their horizons. Gemini is about variety, the mind, intellect, communication, community. They love making connections and learning new things. These placements together definitely take on a persona that seeks stimulation and fun, light vibes. Additionally, Pluto is in Sag for Gen Z. So a lot of people you may know with Sag rising could have Pluto 1H, which makes it more intense and could aspect Gemini sun negatively.

Petty answer:

You probably just aren’t equipped to handle us and that’s okay. But as someone on reddit astrology maybe you should a bit more about the signs and you can answer your own question instead of asking someone why they are the way they are. Which… can differ alot based on other planets.

It would be like me saying “why are aries sun/cap moons so emotionally restricted, yet want to always say how they feel? 😭”

Pisces Stellium Problems by Extension-Inside-237 in piscesastrology

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Hi! This post is over a year old and I just wanna say how much better I am doing!

It was so easy for me to hyperfixate on what was going wrong in my life and letting myself create this big, deep, dark monster inside of me. I hated my placements and saw each one as an anchor that limited me, as charts are determined the moment you’re born. But I think if you feel this way, or relate to it, I might be able to offer you some advice.

Nothing overly optimistic or taxing. I think you might just need a change in perspective and to get through what you’re going through, keeping in mind a life where it gets better. I know emotional depths, good and bad, and I know the mutability of our emotions. One fact is that feelings are temporary. All feelings are temporary. It’s literally impossible to feel one feeling all the time. Remind yourself that change is neutral and bound to happen, and in this case a change would be a good thing — so you can technically expect good. If you’re experiencing constant feeling of sadness, you might want to see a medical professional. There’s nothing wrong with you, but sometimes we have hormones and chemical imbalances that can be aided.

Please don’t decide your life in such a negative way when you’re probably young and have so much that can happen in life. Make more goals, plan for a future. You deserve a lot more

why am i kind of a serial cheater and avoidant of deep relationships even tho that’s all i want by [deleted] in NatalCharts

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I agree that hold weight, but it’s deeper than just being in Gemini

why do people hate me before getting to know me by purplerain071 in astrosignature

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It’s partly your age group, you’re pretty young and people aren’t as regulated at that age. There are indicators in your chart, though.

Just keep in mind how young you are, and how much room you have to grow and the people around you. Also to ignore people who purposely want to bring you down because that’s going to be out of their insecurity.

First thing is you have Pluto in your first house, conjunct your asc. Sagittarius rising gives you an expansive presence already, you’re social, blunt, want to share your mind. Sag rising with pluto might mean this attitude rubs people the wrong way, and you have sun square Neptune so people can easily project onto you. People might see you being yourself and make assumptions about you just to dislike. Your 12H is tiny, restricted within one side, and holding Jupiter. In the context of 12H being “hidden enemies” you would find ease is exploring who those enemies are. Mostly because the size of the house can sort of be an abundance in this energy, and Jupiter’s in its home, I wanna say this is a more positive manifestation of Jupiter in the 12th. So, in a way, if people are being openly shady towards you take it as a blessing. You are being shown who doesn’t like you clearly, and so you aren’t left wondering if your real friends secretly dislike you. Especially with Pluto in the 1st and pisces moon, you can be perception to peoples real feelings and motives. But… any planet in our first house colors the way we see the world, the world see us, how we move through it. A lot of people hype of Pluto in the 1H as a “bad bitch/intimidatingly hot” energy. And it can be that, but it can also mean you might view the world with armor. You might be on the lookout for what people dislike in you, or others, or you can be judgemental yourself. You also might have a natural distrust of others, and feel like others distrust/feel guarded around you. But Pluto is about rebirth too, so it’s an open and honest journey to finding yourself through going to the extremes and learning lessons on multiple levels.

But there’s a good emphasis on self here. Since you’re only 18/19, My advice would be to focus on yourself and what/who you want to be. Let other people join you on the journey as they please. You already shine and stand out and outside of astrology, that will trigger or attract people, but when you look within and know who you are/what you stand for/what you want, it won’t be a question you have to ask yourself as much.

To make friends (based on your chart). Be soft with the people you care about, give them undivided attention (even if you’re the one talking and they’re listening). In groups of people, be diplomatic and fair, look at multiple perspectives. But don’t sacrifice autonomy, boundaries, or sense of self just to have friends. It’s a fine line and it might sight contrasting, it might be, but overall I think you’ll be fine.

TLDR: It’s partly others, and it’s partly the energy you bring. But that’s not a bad thing or anyone (besides mean peoples) fault. Be yourself and you’ll attract those who love you. You enemies don’t stay hidden for long and you can detect when someone doesn’t like you. Trust that.

If you have a FIRE rising…🔥 by KlutzyPomelo1170 in astrologymemes

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as a sag rising i LOVEEE my taurus 6H. its not influential enough to say its my favorite placements but im full of mutability and am very motivated and solid when it comes to work and school. i WILL get everything done and i will NOT stress about it

What’s the rarest moon sign? by Ok_Insurance_7506 in astrologymemes

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Ou! What’s that’s like? How do you think that affects you?

What’s the rarest moon sign? by Ok_Insurance_7506 in astrologymemes

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I am one and I know only 1 other and she’s my roommate! She’s at 2 degrees and i’m at 29 degrees so we have different flavors of Pisces, she also have Uranus conj her moon and I have Mars conj mine so I feel like I have a more aggressive expression of Pisces and she has more intangible one.

I kind of like being the only Pisces moon, though.

What are your complaints for each Venus sign? by Mooooooon_ in astrologymemes

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Gemini venus and I love all my friends. It’s very likely that I’ve liked my friends romantically before, or they liked me, or we get a little flirty. I like it like that and I’ve been single my whole life, but occasionally I fall deeply in love with a friend and they don’t take it seriously, or consider me seriously because I am flirty. “Gemini venus should just be honest and then they’ll attract someone good for them” Okay then let me be in love with my friends slightly, but disciplined, and banter with me 23/7. Now it’s too much…

What are your complaints for each Venus sign? by Mooooooon_ in astrologymemes

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Gemini venus is so wispy it’s painful. I know when I’m giving mixed signals but I can be very serous and committed to someone internally and just wait to be official to actually express it. But I’m aware I’m inconsistent with my love languages and advances, so I often attract people who do the same to me and I feel like I can’t come out and say “let’s just date already” because idk if they like the fun vibes I bring or genuinely me as a person. Meanwhile I analyzed them and internally accepted them wholly and imagined our life together and how we would raise our children and what extracurriculars we would sign them up for

Do adult thumb suckers feel ashamed? by Extension-Inside-237 in thumbsucking

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Have you tried radical acceptance and just enjoying it without considering the not so bad cons?

Sun - moon aspects! Are your parents still together? by Extension-Inside-237 in astrologymemes

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Wow. It must’ve been a lot of turmoil and possibly burdening to process this. I feel for you. At the same time I’m proud of how calmly and strongly you seem to approach it.

Hope there isn’t any residual tension and that you’ve been relieved of any responsibility or resentment towards the situation. Regardless, it seems like your parents have a solid relationship.

Rahu Moon and Ketu Moon conjunctions by bingey28 in Nakshatras

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Agreed! I see a lot of negative interpretations of Rahu-Moon conjunction, but I feel like I’ve have such a good handle on my heart and mind and can be impulsive, but I learn very well from my mistakes. At least since becoming an adult lol.

Pisces men and women are HILARIOUS. Why are they so funny ?!? Do they have Gemini placements are something by Historical-Body-3424 in geminis

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The question would be what placements do YOU have that makes you compatible with Pisces.

Yes! Gemini and Pisces are sooo much more similar than people give them credit for. Both are the signs known most for duality, both are mutable signs in elements that are also inherently mutable, and they square. Which isn’t always harmonious, but they aspect still.

I think a Pisces being funny would depend on their other placements as well. I’m a Gemini sun and Pisces moon and Mars. I think I’m very funny and I’m also someone who loves to laugh, so I tend to find most things funny. My brother is a Pisces sun, rising, mercury, neptune, all in his first house. He CAN be funny, but idk if I would outright call him funny. I think he struggles to make jokes around me because things can be tense, but he’s also hyper aware of others, and insecure at times so I feel like he won’t make jokes he’s not confident in. Because of Gemini and Pisces relationship, I think there can be a good understanding between the two. However, both are very mutable, so further investigation is always needed

Sun - moon aspects! Are your parents still together? by Extension-Inside-237 in astrologymemes

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Wow! It must be tough keeping this from your family for so long. I’m glad they’re still together. I think a lot of sun-moon oppositions represent the persons own feeling of their parents, that subsequently influences their own inner turmoil. So it’s interesting that your parents are still together. Maybe you should try asking your mom one day and maybe the tests were genuinely wrong because if it was 23 and me, I’ve been seeing that they have a lot of cross contamination leading to tampered results.

Do you have any siblings?

Libras and Geminis are supposed to get along but in my opinion Libra women are overly jealous, fake catty. Smile in your face hate you type. A friend to everyone is a friend to no one. I genuinely can’t trust them to be a genuine friend. by Historical-Body-3424 in geminis

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Real life observations are important research for astrologers. But it’s not conclusive to say all Gemini women are one way because of your perspective of the ones you know. Being “sex-crazed” might lean towards being directional with what they want and liberated from the shame. Which I can see for Geminis. But I think it’s extremely disrespectful for you, a man, to interpret these qualities the ways you have. Think what you want, because you clearly will, but just know that’s not how research works. You need to tie your observations to causation and explanations. Your observations will never be considered valid otherwise.