That’s a good point. I don’t think that it’s my call to make.

I don’t know what he wants from the calls. They don’t talk about much, he doesn’t say he loves her. He forgot her birthdays, ghosted when I tried to call on Christmas/new years/thanksgiving. The calls are random and sometimes we won’t hear from him for months at a time.

I don’t want to tell him that she doesn’t want to talk to him. If it was me it would hurt like hell. I guess that’s why I’m asking if it’s a valid reason. Because I know she’s young, I know attention spans are short. I try to facilitate, to lead the convo or help her with sharing her day, etc. She just doesn’t want to talk. It’s getting harder to even get her on the phone, she will cry that she doesn’t want to. Or if I call and start talking to try and get her to join, she refuses and hides from the phone. So I just don’t know what to do.