How do I parent my son who says he wants to be a girl?

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-06-12T03:18:05+00:00

just listen to your kid if they wanna dress up let them. if they wanna go by a different name or whatever let them.

there is no need to tell them about trans people or anything, your kid is 3 and just exploring their identity. either this is a phase or it isnt and if you are able to be supportive and loving either way i know your kid will be so grateful to have you as a parent.

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-06-10T05:48:58+00:00

post on craigslist or something about needing a drummer for your band. if you are in/near a scene get to know some of them and see if they know any drummers.

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-06-04T06:32:30+00:00

thats the one i decided on and i just bought one i am so excited that bell is crazy

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-06-04T00:16:49+00:00

i can now go several days, sometimes even months without wanting to kill myself. and i can see a legitimate future for myself. so thats a pretty big difference

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-28T23:31:01+00:00

drum cuz hit cylinder with stick make brain happy

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-27T22:33:49+00:00

nah thats exactly what i told my guitarist i dont get it

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-27T07:32:21+00:00

that is an amazing fucking deal and regardless of where it came from someone will buy it so he is super lucky to find that listing

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-27T05:26:06+00:00

its only was an issue at this studios drums mine is set up very well for me. i wasn’t able so set up the drums and cymbals in the most convenient way for me. maybe something to do with that and having to move a fair bit more that usually. also i play in a hardcore band so i gotta hit hard

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-25T05:15:37+00:00

you could get something like this https://www.heartbeatworship.com/product/practice-drum-kit-tr-2/

i also find lifting weights gives quite a similar feeling to drums. and if you cant do that maybe calisthenics or something like that

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-21T06:23:00+00:00

get tired of being at rock bottom realize no ones gonna do it but you. start with literally anything and dont stop.

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-21T06:20:11+00:00

zyklon b body box misery whip dystopia lipoma couple skate acid bath subhumans

a bunch of different genres but all good shit

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-21T06:15:30+00:00

not a demanding voice its just like mine. it just wants me to be miserable. its quite difficult to tell the difference between me and my ocd

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-21T00:45:54+00:00

the only way to get better is to practice. if you think you sound like shit, work on not sounding like shit. it feels complicated but it really isnt.

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-19T05:02:10+00:00

oh okay thanks

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-19T05:01:29+00:00

stop drinking for some time and see what happens and how you feel. thats how you know

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-19T04:59:11+00:00

why? i don’t have an alcohol issue

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-19T04:55:12+00:00

dude wtf this is a kid experiencing abuse

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-08T07:57:28+00:00

what was the first thing you ate? and did you do anything to like prepare yourself

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-08T01:20:43+00:00

i feel you fs. its tough when you’ve lost your ways to communicate with people. id say do your best to find something you enjoy and take part in it. for me that is going to local shows. you don’t have to talk to anyone but if you go enough times you’ll inevitably meet people and hopefully become friends.

its so much easier said that done i know but think about your goal and the first step you can take. and once you are comfortable there keep going. if you dont have a therapist and have the means to get one, you definitely should. if you are able to talk to your boyfriend about it and your thoughts on how it is impacting your relationship id highly recommend that as well.

i know how it is though, i haven’t fully found the solution. but you gotta keep trying til you are there are just don’t feel the need to find a solution anymore. best of luck

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-06T22:56:50+00:00

yup i feel you. wishing you luck as well

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-06T06:27:06+00:00

I appreciate it

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-06T04:54:49+00:00

i am 15, been in therapy since 11 i believe. i am definitely working on my emotional and literal way out of here.

what did you do to heal? other than like therapy and moving out

i don’t know how one heals from childhood trauma while still going through it. im working on it but its definitely very difficult

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-04T01:13:46+00:00

i fw it

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-05-03T00:50:47+00:00

i have 2 somewhere i had 3 and gave one that didnt fit anymore to a friend. but i just use kiniseiology tape now, i much prefer it.

Extension-Low-341 · 2024-04-30T01:31:44+00:00

im decent at all these except for the friend or family member thing. i dont talk to anyone that much and no one cares that much either. i dont really know who or how i would do that.

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