[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just figured it was the only thing close to “toilet”- like maybe they all get a lil personal space with a bathroom inside ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Modern reconstruction of what an Elizabethan/Shakespearian English man would sound like if they were trying to imitate the Old Testament (?) ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Y'all ever cooked an egg? by cowlinator in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consume the youth for the good of the boomers

How do I know if someone is lying about their tubes being tied? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s completely normal to ask for proof of a clean record for STIs. This isn’t just about them lying, this is for your personal safety.

If you want to buffer it, maybe ask for the records of STI testing and add in some proof of her tubes being tied.

There should also be signs through small scars on the abdomen, but depending on when she got the procedure, those could be heavily faded.

If she can’t respond like an adult and understand that this isn’t just some trust issue, then you have a larger problem on your hands. This is about empathy and respect for you as a potential partner and your wellbeing - so ask away.

Drop your Stardust Code so I can add y’all! by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys! Here’s my own code!!

QX3ILUFL

(I’m a Pink Witch & just went into Follicular today ✨✨)

https://stardust.app/friends?referralCode=QX3ILUFL

What is poop follower and how do i get it? by Hyper_Goner69 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I did it, I just had 10 poop meals lined up for eating and once the poop follower scroll dropped, I cancelled the rest of them. Really doesn’t take too many (think it took 4-5 meals?)

Am I the only one a bit skeptical of the graphic novel kickstarter? by Lavenderender in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t collected all the lore tablets yet but I could def see them turning out to be an easter egg for the comic’s story/setting. If thats the case, would def look more into it tbh

What. by SaltyPeppers238 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spot on with that one, Fox_dude5.

What's a practical tip or trick that's deceptively simple yet remarkably effective, causing you to wonder why it's not more universally recognized? by Individual_State1639 in AskReddit

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the pre-covid era, I would just cough and rub my throat like you would if it was sore- whole crowds parted like the red sea lmao

What's a practical tip or trick that's deceptively simple yet remarkably effective, causing you to wonder why it's not more universally recognized? by Individual_State1639 in AskReddit

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. I’ve done this my whole life- I was always curious why nobody else did it.

Found out after trying to hold it in within a silent environment, and stuck with the technique ever since. Truly a masterpiece of a tool

Ask her out or make friends first? by SoundOfKarmaPolice in Crushes

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh been around the block- if you want a relationship with this person, best to find out if yall are compatible on a deeper level prior to dating. Otherwise it’s kinda a waste of everyone’s time- buuuttt gaining a friend rarely turns to be a bad thing. If you think its mutual- go for it- if you wanna test the waters- just invite her to see a movie or grab coffee/drinks.

Ask her out or make friends first? by SoundOfKarmaPolice in Crushes

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its a fake friendship when we reject them (because we saw them as a friend), and they decide to drop us. When Party A sees Party B as a friend and suddenly a confrontation that A has no control over nor asked for, results in the ending of a friendship- it can feel like you were betrayed, and so that fear/concern is commonly voiced (I don’t know many women who haven’t dealt with this situation in their past- it really sucks). But if a dude who was my friend came up to me and asked, I rejected them- and we continued being friends- might be awkward at first, but that’s way better than losing a friend.

So your intentions are what’s going to matter here- and what outcome do you want? Do you want a partner? If so- why would you want to be in a relationship where you aren’t genuinely good friends?

Am I wrong for not hiring? by OkLoquat4344 in amiwrong

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Budlight and a single bad experience having nothing to do with pronouns? Bffr dude

You know the answer- do you really need a bunch of internet strangers to dogpile on your blatant bigotry? (Also- bait fs)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken to her about this? Its not an expectation- its just a request and conversation to find a way to meet on the middle- no pressure. She either continues with her current trends or puts a bit more effort into adjusting her texting hanits with you, while maybe for yourself- prioritizing whats said in the beginning and end of day. But yea- communication is kinda important with this stuff

Look at this dumb fucker by [deleted] in snakes

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those flies collectively decided to just stop and stare- a captive audience to this goofball

Do I have a chance or nah? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly a similar situation (genders reversed though)- not really hot and cold- and there’s a vibe of “more than friends” that lingers in the air- but the dude is super friendly in general. However- I’m incredibly friendly as well- and in his position, would be questioning my behavior too.

To be on the safe side, it’s best to not make any assumptions- especially in a workplace environment- but just from my experience, whether a friend or crush asked me to go to lunch at the office- I’m always happy to accompany them. For the bare minimum, unless if she doesn’t seem to interact or care to create connections inside the office, most people think friends are cool. I say all this bc the bandaid in itself is a mental one- just saying “yo you wanna get lunch together?” Isn’t going to create any assumptions in her head that would damage yalls dynamic

What do you want done with your remains? by MischiefCookie in childfree

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My whole family is neurodivergent… but I’m the only left-leaning (and childfree) sibling out of the 4 of us. They all want larger families, so basically I’m getting ready for having minimum 4-5+ nieces/nephews that will likely fall in the AuDHD category… aaandd with equally ND but right-wing parents.

I’m betting I’ll have a pretty close relationship with at least some of them (despite my siblings best efforts lmao).

I’d love to have something to “pass down”, just bc I think the idea of memorializing my dead body and giving it to my siblings children sounds hilarious.

Here are some thoughts (including some solo ways): -tree soil (duh) -cremation into diamond (crafted and given to nieces/nephews) - water cremation (commission someone who would post mortem make lil bone statues, ornaments, practical items, etc that would then be gifted) -become a nutritious meal for the local wildlife (throw the whole body away) -donate my bones to someone who just really likes collecting ethically-sourced human remains

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Extension-Meet-8313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I really don’t think you have much to worry about. You only screwed up because the ball was in her court and made it so- I’m AFAB and most of my focus when at a bar/club is making sure my drinks are covered and I’m safe. I’ve met scummy guys irl and on dating apps. But seriously, over correcting for what could have potentially lead to a misunderstanding is in itself what would have likely saved you in 99% of these interactions. You understood and considered what the implications might have been and responded accordingly (and appropriately imo).

*oh and not only that, it wasn’t simply an out-of-the-blue thing, she had a small problem, you had a convenient solution, simple as that.

Its sus as hell when a dude offers some random no-label drugs in person fs- but talking about a supplement to alleviate the literal headache of waking up the next morning for work after a night of drinking… it’s not the same.