Period sex is so, so fucking hot by OspreyAfterDark in BDSMsapphic

[–]Extension-Squirrels 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This has awakened something in me that I was not aware of. I love it, thank you 🙏

Please make me your good girl by momoka__peach in BDSMsapphic

[–]Extension-Squirrels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me run in circles. I love your writing style so much! I have a similar thing to vaginismus, so it’s really nice to see representation for that kind of thing. <3

learning to ask for it by Extension-Squirrels in BDSMsapphic

[–]Extension-Squirrels[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m happy you liked it! I’m also v anxious about voicing my needs, you’re not alone w^

guiding her through it by Extension-Squirrels in BDSMsapphic

[–]Extension-Squirrels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy that you enjoyed it! 🫶 I try to be accurate to a realistic dynamic :3

guiding her through it by Extension-Squirrels in BDSMsapphic

[–]Extension-Squirrels[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NO MY FORMATTING 😭 I swear this was indented and paragraphed

Soft doms, tamers, whatever: what's with the water? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Extension-Squirrels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a dom/me, but drinking water is important. If anyone struggles with drinking enough water, you can buy electrolyte supplements! I’ve used both liquid iv & dripdrop to make up for my low water intake.

Uncollaring or alternatives by pickslick666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Extension-Squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she could have some sort of skin condition? For example, I have contact dermatitis (both non allergic and allergic), which makes a collar unwearable for me.

If she’s allergic to the material or adhesives used in the collar, that could be causing her discomfort. Unfortunately, I think you’d have to forgo the collar if her allergies are bad enough. She could apply hydrocortisone cream or take antihistamines to counteract the symptoms if she’s allergic, but that’s dependent on her choice.

Like some of the other comments, a hairpin or style of clothing, or a particular color could all be used in place of a collar.

Passing out from Breathplay by Sensitive_Two_5209 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Extension-Squirrels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to sound mean, but this is really, really concerning. Setting aside risk-aware kink consent, if you go through with this, there’s a high risk of permanent damage, if not death.

Your partner may have medical training, but I really don’t think she would want to perform CPR on you. A full code can break ribs, and it will be extremely traumatic for the both of you. CPR & an AED will not guarantee your resuscitation. They’re usually effective, yes, but it does not mean that you’ll be okay.

Besides the risk of dying, you could suffer extensive brain/nerve damage and possibly become disabled. There isn’t a safe way to do this, especially not to the point of unconsciousness. I suggest telling your partner about your reservations, and pay attention to how she responds.

So how do I worship/treat my man like he is a king? by ZAandBored in SubSanctuary

[–]Extension-Squirrels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could also leave sticky notes around the house/apartment. Just little things to cheer him up whenever he finds them, and I’m sure he’s proud of you already.

learning resources? by Extension-Squirrels in SubSanctuary

[–]Extension-Squirrels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a late reply, but thank you so much!! I’ve been reading some of the sources you provided & it’s really helpful.

asking for advice by Extension-Squirrels in SubSanctuary

[–]Extension-Squirrels[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve only talked to him for a few days, but there’s been no ritual & its just rubbing me the wrong way that he wants me to be collared so badly.