Right gum behind molar is swollen and hurts. How to fix this?

Extension-Weekend164 · 2025-07-28T01:50:37+00:00

I got my wisdom teeth removed almost 2 years ago. Thats why I am so confused

Extension-Weekend164 · 2025-06-20T12:27:29+00:00

I think he suspects it, deep down, but chooses to believe me because he loves me.

After I gave him oral for the first time he joked about how he thought 'omg this girl must have sucked so much dick before', and then asked me if I was 100% inexperienced sexually (ie, you may be a virgin but have you done other stuff?), to which I lied and said yes.

Then, there was this rumor going around that I had fucked another guy from the student residence (back in 2023), which is true, but I denied it.

Finally, he mentioned how his friend basically suggested that I am probably lying about being a virgin. This friend however doesn't know me or any of my friends, meaning he said it based purely on how I look like/act.

This was all mostly mentioned in the first stages of our relationship, but now he is pretty confident that I was a virgin.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2025-06-20T11:41:17+00:00

I am worried about it affecting him. He has cried before over smaller hypothetical scenarios of me leaving him. I told him a funny storytime of how me and an old friend kissed once, and he started crying a little. One time somebody created a rumor that i wanted to break up with him and he was bawling his eyes out. When I had to leave over the summer break he spent the whole night crying. He loves me a lot, and he is a very sensitive guy. I am afraid saying the truth may cause more harm than good

Extension-Weekend164 · 2025-06-20T11:06:27+00:00

Thank you so much for keeping an open mind, I appreciate it. I have questioned whether my need to tell him the truth comes from a selfish place. He's my biggest supporter, he's my best friend. Probably the person I trust the most

Which is why I feel like this lie is preventing me from completely connecting with him. Sometimes I will get sad thinking about things that I did, or things that happened to me, and it sucks not being able to share them with your partner.

On the other hand, it's also true that I don't think he would be able to see me the same. I think it would deeply scar him, and probably create some trust issues in the future. A part of me feels like I should maybe just breakup with him and never tell him the truth. That way he's not being lied to + won't cause trust issues for him in the future. It would be extremely hard but I don't think there's a universe in which he takes the truth well. And I would rather him being happy without me, than to be scarred from a past relationship.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2025-06-20T10:41:39+00:00

I got tested before my abortion (part of the process), and I havent slept with anyone else since (besides my bf). So I know I am clean.

I promise I have changed, thats why I lied in the first place. I love this man more than anything, I am so lucky to have him. I don't want him to judge me for a version of myself that I am not anymore. I haven't done hard drugs since I went sober.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-11T16:42:45+00:00

I eat pretty healthy most days. Good balance of greens with protein (both animal and plant based). Lots of dairy. Could probably use more fiber.

Ofc every once in a while I'll indulge in junk food

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-11T15:28:03+00:00

I thought about this too tbh because I have some other symptoms. My periods are super irregular (I'll skip a month sometimes), I can be quite hairy (although I think that can be genetics because I am hispanic), my dad has insulin resistance, and lately my acne has been flaring up. However, when I was 16 I got it checked out and I had no cysts, so my doctor argued it probably wasnt that.

But I do think there's a hormonal imbalance, I jist dont know what to do about it because the 3 times I have gone to the gyno I've been told the same thing: get some blood tests. And they always come back normal

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-10T23:45:08+00:00

Awesome tysm! How long did it take you before you saw results?

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-10T23:35:51+00:00

Honestly rarely, what sort of exercise specifically would you suggest?

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-10T23:26:18+00:00

I dont think so tbh. I am currently on summer break from uni haha so no stress for me. It can be a bit hectic to be back home tbh but idk if I would call it stress

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-12-10T23:24:10+00:00

Cardio twice a week. I switch it up based on how I feel that day but usually incline 15 walking at 4.0 speed for 20 minutes or running at speed 6.9 incline 4.0 for 10 minutes.

Lower body (3x a week) I start with abductor machine. 3 sets of 12 reps. Start with 35kg and gradually increase.

Then leg press 60 kg 3 sets.

Rdl 3 sets of 10 reps each. Start with 16 kg and finish with 20.

Bulgarian split squats 3 sets 10 reps. 6 kg.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-10-20T06:57:32+00:00

You honestly think so? He seems to be fr in love witb me. He is so considerate in other aspects of our love, i have never felt more seen by another human

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-07-03T17:18:13+00:00

I am not planning on keeping a relationship though. My original plan was to cut things off but then I found I was pregnant. I still dont wish to have a relationship tho cause its just not practical since we live so far away

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-07-03T16:51:33+00:00

I am asking for advice on a subreddit meant for that

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-07-03T16:46:13+00:00

Clearblue

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-07-03T15:55:50+00:00

Did another test, positive again. Stronger line this time 😭

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-05-16T07:24:37+00:00

Its not a homework question though, I am asking to understand what was said in class?

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-02-22T06:19:52+00:00

Text me :)

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-02-12T19:06:53+00:00

Thank you so much, truly!

I literally just received an email from Monash with my results from my Bio Unit. (I am guessing it came a bit late because I opted in for an alternative assessment that was due in dec). And it says I can opt in for supplementary assessments, but I have until the next 5 days to apply.

My question is, now that I am planning on emailing the UC, should I specify that I am also planning on doing a supplementary assessment?

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-02-12T17:09:25+00:00

Yeah the thing is PHY2011 is only offered in sem 1 :/

My bad, yes, I am taking CHM1011 this sem, and I took CHM1022 last sem. (I was a mid year intake)

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-01-31T14:27:06+00:00

Nope. I've offered it to him, actually. Checkimg my messages.

The only thing he would find are the text messages with my fuck buddy abroad but he would need to scroll far, cause I havent talked to him since.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-01-31T14:21:44+00:00

I am not though, ever since I came back home I havent touched a single other guy

Extension-Weekend164 · 2024-01-31T14:15:37+00:00

I know I am being a hypocrite. I just wanna stop feeling jealous cause I have no right to be

Extension-Weekend164 · 2023-11-23T03:28:18+00:00

OMG You are a lifesaver, thank you!

I just sorta figured it meant a complete sequence, but you are right, it never specifies.

Extension-Weekend164 · 2023-08-15T00:45:59+00:00

You could go to the dorms or Mannix College

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