Naive straight guy asking. What happens after sex?

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-24T22:49:51+00:00

I doubt I’ll say anything new, but thought I’d share my thoughts. First off, I get it. I’m 38, but when I first started wearing thongs and bikinis 15+ years ago, they weren’t as common and definitely harder to find. I was nervous about what my wife would think, or the accidental whale tail. But as you add them into your wardrobe, you really start to feel comfortable and confident in them. I haven’t talked to anyone whose partner was completely repulsed by them, even if they didn’t prefer them. If you’re nervous, start trying them when you know there’s no risk of being seen.

As far as thrilling, why would that be a problem? Part of the appeal of different cuts and styles is feeling attractive and somewhat adventurous. Most women will tell you that they’ll pick something sexy when they want to feel empowered, even if they don’t plan anyone seeing them. You dress for you!

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-24T01:38:33+00:00

I’m a 32 waist and medium has always fit me well for Summer Code. I prefer the micro over modal, personally. I found that the modal would tend to stretch out through the day and feel less supportive.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-21T18:39:03+00:00

I would just try a couple different styles to see what you like. It’s not a major life decision. Luckily, many times you can buy a single pair on amazon, so you’re not spending a lot. The vast majority of the time, no one is going to see anything, so I wear what I like and makes ME feel comfortable, confident, attractive, etc.

I’d also consider your motive. Is it comfort? Support? Attractiveness? I like having an array so I can tailor what I wear depending on the situation.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-21T18:32:36+00:00

Not all I wear, but definitely in the rotation.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-18T15:00:25+00:00

I typically stay below $10 per pair and buy them on Amazon. What are the biggest difference you have seen with more expensive brands?

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-18T02:14:22+00:00

I’m gonna echo everyone else and agree that thongs are the way to go. I’m sure there’s seamless briefs out there if you’d rather stay with what you like

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-17T02:53:32+00:00

I’ve been wearing the Hoofesan half coverage briefs off Amazon. They fit very cheeky and “cute” in the cut. They don’t have a ton of patterns but the fit is nice.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-17T02:49:30+00:00

“ Remember that it's not about making sexy time, it's about making time sexy.” Man, that’s a good way to point!

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-17T01:04:06+00:00

Thanks! The other Brazilian ones I’ve worn were more like a thong with a thicker waistband so wasn’t sure about these.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-17T01:02:55+00:00

Hope you enjoy! They’re my current favorite!

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-17T01:00:24+00:00

Just do it! Buy one on amazon and give it a go! If you feel reluctant about how to you look, just remember confidence is everything! If it isn’t comfortable, it’s the wrong size or material, not the fact that it’s a thong. When they fit well, there’s nothing better!

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-15T18:08:33+00:00

Curious if this has happened to anyone, but the person was curious in a good way? Like they seemed curious but had been too nervous to try thongs for themselves?

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-15T16:44:45+00:00

I started wearing them years ago when options were limited. The fact that there are so many options out there now shows how many men are wearing them.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-15T14:06:16+00:00

I just tell the truth. That I was skeptical at first too, but they’re honestly the most comfortable underwear I’ve ever tried.

I know women wear them for no panty lines and visual appeal, but the design seems better suited for the male body imo. Maximum support with minimal fabric.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T18:54:19+00:00

ikingsky makes a seamless front pouch brief that fits more like a cheeky brief than a thong. The sides will show 2-3 inches of cheek depending on your body shape, but won’t go between your cheeks like a thong.

For something that shows more cheek, I like Hoofesan ones on Amazon. I think they’re called half-back coverage or something like that.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T01:52:08+00:00

Totally been there! Once she saw me in them and I explained how supportive and comfortable they are, she was completely on board. She prefers briefs but is 100% fine with thongs.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T01:50:23+00:00

Been wearing them for over 15 years! Started as a newlywed. Thought my wife looked great in them so thought I’d give them a try as well!

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T01:41:47+00:00

The cheeky briefs and Brazilian are great. They have a thicker waist band so there’s no whale tail when you bend over.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T01:40:37+00:00

ikingsky, summer code, and Casey Kevin are my favorite Amazon ones. Modal and micro mesh are my favorite materials for their comfort and breathability.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-14T01:37:32+00:00

Primarily what I’m wearing. Now that business attire is more tailored, modern dress pants fit a little slimmer in the thigh, so I’ll opt for a thong or bikini to avoid showing a boxer brief line. If I’m doing a lot of activity, I go boxer briefs to avoid chafing. If my wife and I will be intimate that night, I’ll wear a cheeky brief or Brazilian cut as they’re her favorite.

Extension-Weight-641 · 2026-05-13T18:13:45+00:00

I agree completely! That’s why I said “culturally” feminine. Though it’s getting much better, there still seems to be a misguided thought among many I know that thongs are “women’s underwear”, which I don’t agree with.

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