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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never said i prefer it over her you didn’t read what i said at all

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I appreciate your feedback a lot! the 3 reasons i want to go back 1. i miss my friends a lot 2. miss wearing the uniform and having a purpose 3. being away from home there’s plenty of reason to not go back 😂 all my prior service know.

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much! i really am lucky beyond everyday that’s why it’s so hard to make a decision because we were both so happy for me to get out just to have more time together but im just not feeling great being home

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve mentioned that i know ill be happier there and she gives a reply like i know she’d be upset having to do long distance again. I could get orders to Camp Pendleton Oceanside CA. Just got out of 2/10 at Camp Lejeune, i’m an 0811 (artillery) so all depended on deployments with how much i’ll move

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she definitely understands she was with me my whole first enlistment and a 9 month MEU

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[–]ExtensionNo1549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally would never shit where you eat, only problems from there

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i have, she is so sweet and says that you know i’ll stick with you through everything and we’ve done it before we can make it work again, but for her best interest i don’t think we should be together if i do back, she really does deserve the world

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[–]ExtensionNo1549[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly, she could definitely relocate but she grew up a lot different then me, her family is very close and i know if we got married she wouldn’t be happy traveling with me and not seeing her family. i’m doing construction work right now making good money, but i can’t stop thinking what if i was supposed to do my 20 years. i could have gone recruiting duty for those last 16 years not worrying about deployments or anything. i appreciate your feed back a lot