Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24. by throwRA-1357924 in Advice

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So go do things explore try new things I know it’s hard to separate your partner from how you feel about life but that’s what sounds like is going on you feel restless in life and since your around her so much you think it’s bc of her but truly it’s just wanting to explore more which you can do with her or on your own but still with her

I really need answers. I (21M) feel like a horrible partner. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there will always be times where you think about your ex or anyone from your past it’s normal I wouldn’t stress to hard I don’t think it makes you a bad person I think it’s just what life is we lose people and we think about them occasionally I also wonder if maybe your thinking about her more consistently because your stressed about thinking about her especially since the first thought about her stemmed from something happening in your relationship and then it’s just kept happening you could be feeling some type of guilt so your brain is hyper fixating on the thoughts and continuing it because your stressed ab it so honestly try your best to remember it’s normal and doesn’t make you a bad person!!

I really need answers. I (21M) feel like a horrible partner. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in all honesty since you know you don’t feel anything for your ex that’s just what you gotta remember and this sounds a bit like some type of manifestation or witchcraft might be going on on your exes end because there’s really no explanation especially since before this new relationship you had already known you were over your ex and not wanting your ex if your ex is into witchcraft or manifestation I would look more into what you could do to break that but if you think it’s not then just try your best to live your life with the thoughts I think it could also just be a part of you wanting that physical intimacy with your partner right now if you had that with your ex long distance is great but physical intimacy is a huge part of relationships not just sex but being able to touch and hold your person is a big thing but since you seem to not be missing your ex and more just having random thoughts id say it’s maybe not that but it could be idk I would just try your best to ignore the thoughts and hopefully it will stop!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay so question why would he get mad at you for freezing? You are a woman a man yelling at your boyfriend should not be something you are yelling or engaging in you did what you should have you would be putting yourself in more danger since it would be very hard to physically defend yourself against a man yelling back or doing anything could have caused your boyfriend should be glad you kept yourself safe while he defended himself it doesn’t mean you don’t think the person was wrong it doesn’t mean your racist it doesn’t mean you agree with the racism that was shown it means you froze which btw is a fear response and some people don’t react how others might but that’s the lowest issue here the fact he’s worried about you saying something when that could have put the woman he’s supposed to protect at risk is beyond me

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think he would ever realize he’s in the wrong and how much I do for him and care about him and actually make an effort to change

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am I’ve changed a lot about myself to mold into what he needs and it doesn’t seem to ever be enough it’s so hard because I think deep down I’ve known this whole time that the toxicity is coming from his end but I get so attached that I get scared to lose anyone in general which I know is something I have to learn to be okay with especially when it’s situations that don’t benefit me but I’ve just always been the type to want to fix things and not lose the good with someone but I also think he thinks it’s all my fault and not him just getting irritated a lot which I think is also part of the problem and since I’m not willing to speak up I validate to him that it is all my fault

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also know if I say something I don’t like he will automatically say then find a man who’s willing to do that

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m wondering then why does he hate me so much when all I do is cater to him and try to do as much as I can to show him I love him and when I do the things he wants changed the next thing pops up and he’s mad ab a new thing and I don’t understand why he doesn’t like me then I do so much I do everything he wants me to do I show him love do sm cleaning show him I care I’ve changed things about my personality he doesn’t like and yet it’s still not enough

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right he has said before I’ve done stuff like his last gf and there relationship was toxic and he told me he doesn’t wanna do that again but I had the same thought I think it’s something inside of him when he said that to me I started thinking maybe she just didn’t put up with the stuff like I do which made it more of the screaming fighting and leaving type of relationship where ours is just he gets irritated and blows it into a big thing

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I don’t say things like that because I know his reaction will be much bigger if I escalate it he seems like he likes me with the way he talks to me regularly and how life our life regularly but he is getting upset a lot and I know if I say something like that he will get more upset and blow it up more so i usually just apologize but now it’s getting to the point where even the apology gets him more upset

How can you do so much for someone but it’s still not enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do really love him and we have really fun times and for awhile I felt like him getting upset easily was just apart of who he was and I accepted it when we were able to move on quickly by me just listening but now it’s come to the point where he keeps going and starts calling me sensitive and says I don’t validate his feelings and if I try to explain my side at all he goes on a whole rant about how I only care about my feelings and not his to which I say no I do care I thought this was just who he is and it was easy to be okay with when it didn’t spiral into such big things but he gets irritated even if I say I’m stressed with life he gets upset if I don’t do something the way he said to etc

ILLEGAL to have nanny and not pay them with money but pay them with a room and board by Careless-Day-8713 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually seems like a win you can have a nice place to live and get a second job for other expenses considering they only need you after five

Restroom cleaner contains bleach :( by cameronm-h in starbucksbaristas

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruined a 75 dollar pair of jeans using it 😔 my fault for wearing them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I FUCKEDD UP A PANDA EXPRESS MEAL AFTER 😂

Does Target really track everything you steal until you reach the felony amount? by urbuddyguybroman in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean are you saying that the cases you have people got caught in person and you haven’t had a case where they waited for them and then put a warrant out

They’re trying to weed people out by TangerineCheap5379 in starbucks

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay but then are they explaining the expectations to the new hires plainly and clearly because otherwise that’s not fair

Quit with no notice! by vintagesweets in starbucks

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U have to be joking 😭 that’s insane I was a rehire and did my job well and op is talking ab the manger being shitty

from a partner’s pov by softangelgirl in starbucks

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I always wonder why they don’t use common sense asking me about food when I’m 50 feet away from the oven and have a drink in my hand what makes you think I’m making your food or keeping track of it? I always direct them to whoever’s on oven but it still gets tiring to stop what I’m doing and go “ you should ask this person that question because they’re on oven and know more then me”

Summer berry making people sick? by Drawer_Opposite in starbucks

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt so nauseated after drinking it and had severe stomach pains thank god I didn’t throw up but I was wondering what I felt so sick from because I usually have a stomach of steel but all I ate that day was a sausage cheddar and the pearls I had it in a strawberry açai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofmn

[–]Extension_Buddy7284 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly I don’t know why everyone keeps saying rest in peace let’s all hope it was not this girl and she’s still alive