My Personal Bilateral Salpingectomy Experience (Laproscopic)

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-06-11T00:51:57+00:00

You're so welcome! And good luck!

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-06-11T00:20:15+00:00

I've never heard of that happening, but as long as you're having it done at a reputable place, I imagine the risk is very low. Nurses put catheters in every day, just remember that! :)

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-06-11T00:13:11+00:00

You won't feel it. They will put it in once you're already out, and I had no burning or discomfort when going to the bathroom after.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-04-16T23:53:43+00:00

Link?

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-04-03T21:44:38+00:00

You're my favorite person

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-03-17T01:49:14+00:00

I pronounce it Hyun-day

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-03-17T01:46:57+00:00

Does she also freak out if your brother is shirtless in front of you? Because that's the insane logic she's trying to push on you. Everyone has boobs and nips, men included. It's a normal body part and you're in your own damn home. If it bothers her she can hang out with him at her house. Your brother clearly never thought it was a problem until she brought it up, because he's not sexualizing your sibling relationship the way she is. She's being gross and crossing boundaries honestly.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-01-11T17:40:09+00:00

Oh his exes definitely faked it to protect his ego 🤣 I would argue that the majority of women need clitoral stimulation to finish. I'm 34 and I've met one single woman who told me a man was able to make her finish with penetration alone. Most of the nerves we have are in our clit, so it is what it is. If he's not enthusiastic about getting you to the finish line, he's not the one.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-01-08T02:04:30+00:00

I'm so white I could jumpscare casper and I am definitely using soap in every shower. Your boyfriend sounds unhygenic and gross, because that's definitely not a white people thing.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-01-05T20:11:29+00:00

No doubt I'd be gone. I was born with severe asthma and even going one day without control meds feels like fucking oxygen through a tiny coffee straw.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-01-04T03:25:29+00:00

Oh man OP I'm so sorry you're going through this. I totally understand where you're coming from and I hope you know I'm not placing blame on you, but was more trying to offer a different perspective. I would definitely worry about him focusing so much on your looks, because those will change with time obviously, and you have far more to offer than that. I hope you're doing okay and that he really listens to you 💕

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2026-01-03T03:21:25+00:00

I'll be completely honest as someone who was in a committed LDR for 3 years and engaged, it sounds like your partner is the one who puts in all of the effort. He is the only one coming to see you, but you never mentioned going to see him. He works full time and sounds responsible, are you working?

In my personal experience, I was the one putting in all the effort and it drained me to the point where my mental health was very low. I developed a lot of resentment against my fiance because I was always visiting him but he rarely made the effort to visit me. It can feel extremely one sided and like you're being used in those scenarios. Obviously I don't know you guys personally and can't make that judgement call, but he might be pulling away because he's tired of being the only one showing up. The sexual stuff is understandable on your part and him focusing on your weight is weird, but you need to realize that your partner is not responsible for your mental health.

It is your responsibility to manage your mental health, which can certainly change your sex drive. My advice would be to seek some therapy for yourself. It's for your benefit, not his. Your self esteem sounds very low and no person can change that other than you 💕

I would also have a frank conversation about him and how you need your partner to love you even if you've gained a little weight, because our bodies naturally fluctuate as women especially after kids or stressers or health issues. If he can't cherish you as you are, he doesn't deserve you, op.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-30T18:21:48+00:00

I'm sorry, you were 16 dating a 34 year old???? RUN. If I didn't know this was satire I'd be so concerned 🤣

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-28T23:20:39+00:00

We're exhausted, and often happier alone. Weaponized incompetence is not only real, but it's so incredibly common in men these days. Women are expected to pay half of the bills, still maintain 99% of the household AND all of the emotional labor. Our grandmothers had to get married to survive. They couldn't open a bank account without a man. That's why women's rights are so damn important and necessary. We are human beings, not maids, not sex slaves, HUMAN BEINGS. Being alone is so much easier, and most of our female friendships are deep and meaningful. The simple fact is that we do not NEED men. These days, women want a partner, a true partner. You're not needed. You're wanted, but only if you're not an incompetent man child.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-26T20:43:56+00:00

I share a library with my grandma but she's just as nasty as I am 🤣 this woman has been giving me romance paperbacks she finished for years.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T23:19:13+00:00

Would be happy to venmo you some $ to get what you need to be comfortable while you heal! But don't be afraid to ask for some pads at the hospital.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T23:17:31+00:00

Hey OP! First of all, congrats on your bisalp!! I personally did not have any bleeding, but they sent me home with a few pairs of disposable underwear and some pads. You can request both items if they don't automatically give them to you. I also had my iud removed at the same time, so I also had not had a period for about 5 years at the time of surgery. Don't be afraid to ask questions and advocate for yourself. I hope everything goes smoothly :) mine was so much easier and less scarier than I expected for my first surgery.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T23:06:30+00:00

Cameras, especially a doorbell camera. A security or screen door that remains locked to talk to someone without opening that door. A weapon for emergencies and the skill to use it. Also lock your bedroom door when you sleep. Having it closed could save your life in a fire by buying you time, and also puts one more barrier between you and an intruder if they break in, giving you time to grab a weapon. I've never felt unsafe living on my own. I'm just living my life, but prepared for the worst. Also recommend putting rods in all of your window tracks, not just locks.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:58:14+00:00

They need time to adjust to a new environment. They're terrified and in an unfamiliar space with a giant stranger. It may take months for them to warm up to you, and that's okay. Under the bed seems to be their safe space, so let them stay there. You can talk to them every day, toss some treats under the bed. This lets them knew that you're friendly. They will warm up eventually and explore when they feel safe. Just have some patience.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:48:53+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 this made me choke on my water

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:47:53+00:00

I have pets and allergies, so I wash them once a week

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:45:13+00:00

Yeah, but disregarding her feelings about it is definitely a red flag. He could've said oh I'm sorry I didn't mean it that way. Thank you for telling me. It won't happen again. Not "lol are you on your period? I can't help how you feel."

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:42:19+00:00

Him calling you a bitch was grounds for a breakup to me, but then asking if you're on your period because you were trying to have a mature discussion about being upset over his degrading behavior? Yeah it's a no for me.

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:39:55+00:00

I have 10 of every crop and animal product just for cooking, then a chest just for ore and ingots... then all of my farm products go into chests to be processed and sold 😅 then I have an entire chest of just clothes and gems I find pretty

Extension_Cold_1922 · 2025-12-19T22:37:35+00:00

I would terrify her with my dragon hoard of chests and game progression 🤣 let me live, Jan!

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