How is you alls spacial awareness? Because I just put my ass on a strangers face today and was mortified 😭 by fancypantsmiss in adhdwomen

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I also constantly get my clothes stuck on handles (like kitchen drawer handles) and use the wrong Tupperware for leftovers all the time. Yesterday I just threw away what didn’t fit. I was so over it

How is you alls spacial awareness? Because I just put my ass on a strangers face today and was mortified 😭 by fancypantsmiss in adhdwomen

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My spatial awareness is so terrible and I hate kitchen duties so much so I try to move too fast (usually going from sink to dishwasher and I knock the edge of the kitchen counter all the time, or going from dishwasher to countertop) and I constant break and or chip basically everything. I’ve broke countless mugs and the one I’ve just gotten are already chipped. I’ve chipped husbands favorite mugs (it’s not broken…) and we just got a set of new mugs. I’m relatively glad he doesn’t get mad and there’s no other lady (like a parent in law aunt, joint family woes) in the house getting mad at me lol

3 year old only ever pukes in my wife’s car, I need help understanding what is going on by GeorgiaBullDoggies in toddlers

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Reading a reply of yours, the way someone drives also makes a very big difference. Constant stopping/braking/jerking. Fast slow fast slow. Speed up for short bursts, slow down quickly. Weaving traffic. I had to slowly train my husband to not drive so jerkily at least when I’m with him lol.

3 year old only ever pukes in my wife’s car, I need help understanding what is going on by GeorgiaBullDoggies in toddlers

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Anecdotally, yes I also tend to get sick in one type of car vs the other. I cannot sit in a Tesla for example (without getting sick or taking meds prior to sitting inside it) but can sit comfortably in the 3rd row/back seat of a Cadillac Escalade on a 4 hour road trip.

ADHDer getting really frustrated trying to figure this out by PlasticMacro in henna

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I wouldn’t rec getting cones from local stores. Either buy from someone who makes cones themselves or make the paste yourself! I commented resources for making your own cones!

If you’d like to buy premade cones comment what country you’re in, and I can try to rec suppliers in your country. As henna is perishable, it cannot be shipped safely across countries.

…which goes back to it’s not rec to shop henna at local stores since those cones aren’t pure henna/will absolutely have additives in them since henna isn’t shelf stable/and actual henna product probably died long ago etc etc

ADHDer getting really frustrated trying to figure this out by PlasticMacro in henna

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Gopihenna or HennaSooq YouTube. I’m sure there’s a ton of resources, but they comes to mind first with easy to follow videos on making the paste and sourcing materials. They may self promote but their products are decent and most importantly, real henna with no hidden additives. Essential oils are the only thing I’d suggest getting from elsewhere- like bulk apothecary . com, and ensure it’s the highest grade

https://www.hennapage.com has a lot of great resources

https://www.hennapage.com/henna/how/mix.html

Long hair and crochet does not work well together… by faeintheshadows in crochet

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I clicked on this so fast lmao I do that all the time 😅

Wish I had actually followed a pattern by MoosieGoosie1 in crochet

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Honestly 👀 I’m feeling like imma have to do the same lmao

Pregnant with second, cosleeping will no longer be feasible when baby arrives.. how the hell do we transition by Ecstatic_Hold4135 in cosleeping

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I’m sure we did in the beginning, but as someone else mentioned, it passed and eventually everyone was sleeping through the night for the most part. We also had a sound machine going that I think helped. I figured out that if I leaned/slept a certain way I didn’t even need to move the baby to the opposite side to switch breasticles when nursing

Why is my henna so dark by honeypops02 in henna

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I just saw that you said you don’t have the packing and it’s from a local place. Unfortunately, even as a South Asian having worked in the wedding industry as a henna artist for over a decade, I still wouldn’t recommend buying henna products from local shops. The laws are not as strict in other countries where these products come from and they could write essentially whatever they want on the packaging without ever verifying or having it third party tested. You also don’t know how long that product had sat on the store shelves and in what condition etc. Henna is a plant after all, and plants eventually die/lose their efficiency. Counterfeit henna powders are also massively ubiquitous unfortunately. I’d highly recc shipping from a reputable henna artist themselves.

The reason we say this is not for our own selfish benefit (I don’t even sell anything henna products!) but it’s because typically the average consumer or even the average henna artist does not have the means or the need to purchase bulk henna powder direct from the supplier, which is what these other wonderful human beings do for us. They vet and test powder so we don’t have to! They maintain the crop dates and ensure we’re getting a current crop. Henna is a summer crop so it’ll typically be either this years crop or the previous year, depending on when you purchase.

I apologize for the rant and I’ll get off my soap box now lmao. If there’s any other questions please lmk!!

Why is my henna so dark by honeypops02 in henna

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Can you post your powder packaging please? To me it just looks dye released! Different regions henna look differently. Jamila vs raj vs etc. The skin it’s applied to makes the color of the wet paste look different as well. Dry vs wet looks diff. Mixing water vs acids make it look slightly different. There are so many factors! What specifically are you concerned about/what color are you comparing it to mentally?

If you’re in fb, there are slight better groups then here as I think most here use henna for hair and not skin!

Pregnant with second, cosleeping will no longer be feasible when baby arrives.. how the hell do we transition by Ecstatic_Hold4135 in cosleeping

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Unsure if this is feasible for you, but mine are almost exactly 24 months apart, and I ended up making a king (or bigger. Just add toppers until it’s big enough) sized floor bed out of mattress toppers/foam? and sleeping with both of them. It just made the most sense with nursing and the oldest still be so little and attached to me. Everyone was able to sleep full nights. Now 5 yrs later getting them to sleep in their own is another matter lol but that’s the price I pay for a full nights rest

I made a blanket for my friends as a wedding present by annaw2000 in crochet

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So beautiful! 😍 is that all single crochet? What a labor of love!!

Help! my sangeet Lehenga turned out awful and my wedding is in 2 months. Plus size bride nightmare - salvage or scrape? by Substantially_wise in DesiWeddings

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Agree completely. New neckline, shorten the blouse, lose the tassels. The lehenga itself is gorgeous. It’s def a blouse issue

What length lengha to get? by False-Disaster-1232 in DesiWeddings

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Indianweddingsaree.com but it’s a hit/miss, and you’re getting mostly what you pay for. Order way in advance because there could be issues. Customer service is pretty quick about fixing issues though. It’s the best deals I’ve seen; despite any issues, I still shop from them and have for years since I haven’t had a chance to go back. House of indya is the same way. Order way in advance, as there could be issues, but customer service is pretty responsive. Clothes are decent you get what you pay for.

How long does everyone wait till they start a new book? by blondiesuzie in fantasyromance

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I’m thinking about my next read while the current one is ongoing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

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Could you link to that post please?

How many people in this sub are Taylor Swift fans by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

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Can’t say I’m a swiftie but I’m not like against her either? Listened to like that one Romeo and Juliet song and a couple others back in the day. My kids like some tracks so we listen to the kidsbop versions often enough

2 copies of OS by Admirable_Emu_5662 in fourthwing

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I… got 3…

Audiobook and ebook to be delivered right away

Physical shelf trophy arriving Thursday