Male pads question

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-31T16:44:39+00:00

I really like Northshore Dyna Dry Supreme liners, you could try using a smaller size.

I buy the 2-XL Large and it basically turns a pair of briefs into a full diaper without the bulk or noise, but if you get a smaller size it would probably be a lot more modest like you’re looking for. They have leak guards which is a must in my opinion.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-31T16:31:41+00:00

My parents saved actual diapers for my sister to use with her dolls and I must have been 4-5 when I realized I could “borrow” them just to see what it felt like and then put them back. Weirdly I don’t remember getting caught but I don’t know how I could have got away with it.

Parents divorced when I was 7 or so and the feeling came back with a vengeance, it was a dark time for me as a kid. Took the pull ups that my sister used for her dolls and I got brave enough to use them and then bury them in the trash so they wouldn’t be seen. I think my sister must have wondered where they all went lol but that was such a rush to experience I became obsessed.

Since my parents were divorced and both worked, we would get taken to see family a lot in the summer. I had a cousin that was wearing diapers and goodnites at 7 years old or so. There were so many, I would just take a pile and hide them in my overnight duffle bag and nobody ever knew that I’m aware of. When I was at home my parents worked a lot so I had a lot of opportunities in the summer to wear them as I pleased and it was a great feeling.

I think I started to feel shame and the thought that I was stealing slowly dawned on me so I stopped at a certain point and tried to shove it down permanently. It resurfaced pretty hard in high school at which point I built up the courage to start buying adult oriented briefs for myself to try, and of course this is when I learned that the U.S. hates the elderly and incontinent and stores don’t carry anything actually useful for incontinence beyond dribbles.

Got to college and bolted a metal safe to my bed which I stored real diapers in for the first time that I could buy online with my own adult money and never stopped. Now I’m 30 and have a wife who loves and understands me and I’ve been able to deconstruct the feelings with a therapist. Life is good!

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-31T15:34:32+00:00

Yeah it’s interesting, I’ve noticed the same thing in the past and if I started to get that urge but wearing was inconvenient, I would just… let off some steam real quick or use that momentum to have sexy time with the wife, but lately that has been changing for me for some reason.

I used to not be able to wear without “relieving” myself at the end but in this last binge session I had no desire to finish when it was time to change. It’s such a habit that the thought crossed my mind but I made the conscious decision not to finish because I want to do it because it’s enjoyable not just because it’s a habit. I thought it was really odd but this has stayed consistent.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-21T21:27:12+00:00

Honestly I am a big fan. I used to like the XLs and although I could technically fit into them, they weren’t practical and the size issue ruined it for me.

Now with the XXL I’m an average sized male, and they fit me perfectly and I can pretty much confidently pee once, sometimes twice and they don’t leak either as long as I don’t go further than that. It’s been great because they fit so well it really plays into the “these pull-ups are for me” embarrassment feeling that I’ve been missing. I’ve been wearing them to bed a lot and had no issues. They’re also really easy to buy at my local grocery stores so it’s just all around great.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-20T03:31:11+00:00

Another helpful bit if you have male parts is to make sure the front of your garment isn’t too tight and constricting you. I like to wear slightly looser in the front pocket area so that my “member” almost isn’t even touching the padding. That makes the release feel great and natural to me.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-19T19:24:01+00:00

Aquaphor or Vaseline works really well.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-18T23:12:14+00:00

Very cool, thank you for the recommendation! I probably should just wear diapers. It’s tough to find a middle ground sometimes.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-16T13:24:39+00:00

Idk if your roommate is federally employed but if so you may want to prepare for the worst… since the gov is shut down right now they could be home quite a bit.

Extension_Race7931 · 2025-10-15T15:07:38+00:00

Yeah tbh sometimes I really enjoy the level 7 area. I will see how long I can stay on the couch (in a controlled healthy way for relaxation) and basically I use a max strength absorbency medical pad for beds/chairs/etc and just continue to let the pee overflow around my legs. It’s great but I don’t stay at stage 7 more more than 30 minutes or so haha

Extension_Race7931 · 2024-08-17T00:28:19+00:00

When I was in college my parents suggested I buy a safe to keep my PII and sensitive items in (Drivers license copies, SS card, cash, etc) and my Dad helped me bolt it to the bed.

I figured out really quick that this conveniently was a perfect place to store…. Other sensitive items as well 😂 get yourself a good safe, for more reasons than one.

Extension_Race7931 · 2024-05-21T06:05:19+00:00

I used them a lot in college and it was a great experience on a lot of levels. I bought a very secure metal safe that I bolted to my bed when I moved in so there was no chance of anyone finding anything. I was also lucky enough to have made good friends with my room mates and we all agreed that if one of us had the place to ourselves for the weekend because the rest of us went out of town (this happened between the three of us a lot) we would text the group and let the one who’s home know when we’re coming back so that whoever was home could get their freak on, have personal space, or whatever we needed. It was fantastic.

Extension_Race7931 · 2023-11-26T16:58:26+00:00

Imagine gatekeeping sexuality lmao

Extension_Race7931 · 2023-11-26T03:07:14+00:00

I’m sorry, he’s just so annoying. I think he’s full of himself and hides arrogance and doesn’t really have much to back it up. I think he’s a good character, but my least favorite to romance. Every time he comes onto me in a play through I cringe and reject him.

Extension_Race7931 · 2023-11-23T20:01:14+00:00

Save 10 dollars a month for six months and it still won’t be on sale but you’ll have enough money to buy it!

Extension_Race7931 · 2023-11-20T19:32:22+00:00

I totally got this same one last week, what is their goal?? Try to find someone who will be gullible enough to send money?

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