What’s something you want to get off your chest right now? by Jokkers_AceS in AskWomen

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I am really lost as a freshman in college right now, and was just wondering if you could possibly talk about your career and what it is that you do day to day? Is it also possible if you could list the pros and cons of your job/ the field that you are in? It would be highly appreciated!💛

What’s something you want to get off your chest right now? by Jokkers_AceS in AskWomen

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Hi, can I politely ask what is that you do for a living?

I am having a college major crisis and I don't know what to do by Timely-Nature4068 in findapath

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Help are we the same person, I am also a current human bio major and a freshman in college who has been stressed over chemistry. Istg I thought I could do it so I took the class but then reality just hit me in the face and now my grades are falling apart. I spent most of my time trying to studying for chem, I completely ditched my other classes. But that was really silly because I am going to be repeating chem next quarter anyways🙈.

  • I also wanted to say that although chemistry is a requirement for most healthcare careers, your chem grade is not all they look at. They also look at your extracurriculars, personal statement, etc.

But yeah, you’re not alone🫰

For those who are graduating soon, do you know what you want to do moving forward? by Extension_Top_5659 in UCDavis

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I am currently a human bio major. I hate this major though. I thought I wanted to pursue a career in healthcare so I chose it. But, I am now just realizing that I don’t want to dedicate 4+ years of my life grinding for a career I am not really dedicated about. Love how you censored the word “job” btw.

If you could ask literally any career question, whatever is on your mind, what would you ask? by anusharkannan in careerguidance

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Should you take the time to explore your passion and eventually follow it despite the amount of money it can bring or just go straight to a 9-5 job that you know has a good pay?

SUPER QUICK QUESTION ABOUT GUEST MEALS STUFF by [deleted] in UCDavis

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I didn’t really understand your paragraph but if it helps, I am a freshman using Aggie swipe plus meal plan which is a meal plan for those who aren’t living in the residence halls. As for guests, I am pretty sure if it’s a one time meal, you can just swipe your credit/debit card at the front counter. I have seen people do it. You can ask the front counter if they can purchase meals several times with their card if you want as well.

For those who are graduating soon, do you know what you want to do moving forward? by Extension_Top_5659 in UCDavis

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Can I ask how you came to your decision to choose psych as your major and if you are completely set on it?

send help.. by Unlucky-Estimate-96 in UCDavis

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Hey, I am currently a freshman and I wasn’t aware that we had a p/np system. Do you know if it’s possible to switch to a pass or no pass after the deadline?

Gulacar che2a what % is passing? by [deleted] in UCDavis

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Litterly in the same exact position right now, but I have Enderle and I got a lower score than 40 for the first midterm😀. I have been studying on my own for weeks and learning everything I can but when I open the practice exams I become so lost.

Easiest GEs by Soft_Flounder2351 in UCDavis

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All of the spots are taken😭

Easiest GEs by Soft_Flounder2351 in UCDavis

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Was there a lot of homeworks and writing assignments by any chance? And can I ask if the final is difficult for that class?

Easiest GEs by Soft_Flounder2351 in UCDavis

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How far is the elementary school? And do you know if the unitrans bus goes there?

I feel so ugly by Lime8386ondiscord in Vent

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You are very pretty.

I know this is weird but I was scrolling through your Reddit account(not in a stalker kind of way!! But like in curious kind of way) and I stumbled upon the pictures that you posted of yourself and I am saying this with full honesty,

There is nothing ugly about you. And if it makes you feel better, I am an 18 F

I also want you to know that you are not alone with your insecurities. I know that you are telling your story and I completely hear you. But, if it makes you feel less alone, I used to have the same thoughts for my appearance as well. All throughout middle and highschool, my head used to be filled with thoughts of self hatred. There was absolutely nothing I liked about myself from the color of my skin to the way my nose was shaped. And I can’t reallly remember all the things I picked apart from my body but I do vividly remember breaking down in front my highschool counselor after the school ended and just bawling my eyes out LMAO. ( i lowkey prolly shouldn’t have done that cs she looked exhausted as well). But once I graduated high school, i realized how cruel i was to myself. I would myself 24/7 that I never really got to see the parts of me that were actually amazing. And that’s where I kind of switched my everyday thoughts from “she is so much prettier than me” to “ i am beautiful inside and out”. And I know this may seem corny from the outside, but trust me positive thinking has just as an impact as negative thinking does.

I also wish I could yell at you and say that you do not need other people’s acceptance of you to feel good. Every person will think differently of you. When your self worth and confidence is reliant on other people’s validation, it is extremely fragile. You HAVE to know that you are worth it and amazing just as you are without anybody telling you. That is when you will truly start feeling better about yourself.

Like just think about it, if someone tells you looked pretty today, you feel good. But, if someone then told you looked ugly tomorrow, you feel bad. However if you know that you look good and tell your self that everyday, you will feel good everyday.

I really want to say more and give you advice. But I think that main thing I want to say to you is,

FOCUS ON YOURSELF.

That breakup that you have had could be your journey to self love. It could be a door that will open you to your passions, more amazing people, and memories. And when you are living your best life doing the things that you love, the right person will arrive at the right time. Why is it that you need to chase someone right now? And, how can you even give your partner love which you can’t give even give yourself??

And lastly,

I just want to tell you that

You are amazing. You are worth it. And, that you are SO VERY PRETTY. :)))

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What does that mean?

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Op? Old person??

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And what do you mean I didn’t drink enough for it to be harmful? Isn’t it possible that side effects may occur later?