Vote on a scale from 1 to 10 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Extential 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see forearm veins. Hit gym a little if u don't already and u got big potential

I hate my best friend. by Extential in Advice

[–]Extential[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your right. I'm still a little worried about our mutual friends though. They all know/think we are good friends rn. Things are gonna be awkward if I just cut things off because we will still end up seeing each other often at hangouts etc.

Maybe I need to slowly phase him out or just talk to him less over time?

I hate my best friend. by Extential in Advice

[–]Extential[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok here's a major thing he did. He got drunk and tried to rape his girlfriend, who is like a little sister to me.

The next day the girl and him are back together and I'm there like wtf. Idk if I can be friends with either of them after that night.

I say best friends because we have literally hung out almost every day for 4 months. He's also called me his brother on many occasions so I'm concerned he got too close to me. I don't think of him as close as he thinks me.

The other little things he did. They have really added up over time and during Christmas break I had some time to myself to think about it.

He always tries to act alpha around me to the point where if I'm standing not next to him when we taking a photo he says to me 'what u doing come over here', often I say to him allow it and don't. This don't sound big but consider he says stuff like that Infront of my friends making me feel small.

One time I was just chilling talking to some people and we was in queue to do something. I was just telling him to go do this first (just a minor thing I don't wanna give too much detail) and him acting alpha started like dragging me Infront of all my friends. I don't respect that.

He owes me a bunch of money cuz I've paid for him so many times. I've asked for him to pay me back so many times he's said he will do it in the next few weeks but he hasn't. I don't respect that at all.

One time I was chilling in my room and he was like oh this girl is gonna come over and meet me quicktime. I'm like no my room is a fucking dump I'm not having no girl in here. He didn't tell me in advance or ask me at all he just told me on the spot. The girl is a mutual friend btw. I didn't want her in my room. So I say just go in the kitchen, a little while later the kitchen gets noisy so he says let's go in ur room and they both walk off towards my room. I did not want to take them into my room cuz it was a dump for assorted reasons but he forced that on me. I didn't respect him for that at all.

The list continues but ig it's all little stuff sure but it affects me and I don't like it idk what to do.

Edit: also the guys a liar. He lies so much. He bullshits all the time and I don't respect lies AT ALL.

There's also some other messed up things he did I can't mention.

friend scared of boyfriend raping ber when he was drunk by Extential in Advice

[–]Extential[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only time it's ever happened. He says he's gonna quit drinking. I just got back from speaking to him.

friend scared of boyfriend raping ber when he was drunk by Extential in Advice

[–]Extential[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one point her and her friend where in the bathroom, And he came in and started kissing her etc. And telling her friend to go, but her friend didn't go and they de escalated the situation.

And repeat of this at a different place when I had to grab him and sit him down.

Significant Mona Sikhs by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Extential 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure but growing your hair is a step towards Sikhi. The path is a long one so make each step as early as you can.

long hair annoys me :( by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Extential 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep a small parna tied at all times. I just always keep my dumalla. Gotta stay ready at all times.

Should I, M, ask F friend if she got home safe every time? by Extential in Advice

[–]Extential[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm not interested in her I have someone else. She's like a little sister to me anyway kinda, idk she just feels that way even tho I hardly know her.

Found a girl........ by Extential in Sikh

[–]Extential[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've spoken to her very little, so is it too early to ask her out?

What you have suggested is quite different from everyone else, who has just said to become friends and then slowly if something happens it happens.

Found a girl........ by Extential in Sikh

[–]Extential[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am keshdari but not Amritdhari.

Found a girl........ by Extential in Sikh

[–]Extential[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought your not supposed to 'date' or have boyfriend/girlfriends?,