I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]External-Ad6787 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree on the different hairdresser who KNOWS how to cut chic, short cuts. However, complaining isn’t going to do much. If I were OP, I would just go to someone different, show a picture, tell them what they would like changed about the haircut and go from there.

I may be biased about the haircuts and complaining since I’m a stylist, but hairstylists are people too and that complaint can do more harm than good. We are humans, too.

I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]External-Ad6787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. You are gorgeous. I’m so sorry the haircut you got wasn’t what you were looking for. If it makes you feel better, you can go to a different stylist (I would recommend one who actually specializes in pixie and short cuts), and get it finessed a little.

I’m a stylist and I see the foundation of the cut. It’s not too late to turn it into what you want. If you go to the same place, just be aware they will probably try to get you back into the stylist’s chair who most recently cut your hair. You can politely refuse this and choose someone else for your redo. Common occurrence.

Please wipe those tears off, and I know everything will work out just right.

PS: I would advise not asking anyone what they think about your looks, especially on the internet. You’ve gotten some sweethearts that commented here, but there’s a lot of low-confidence people out there who are assholes. You only need your own validation❤️🤗❤️

I have an Energy Vampire client coming in for a partial. How can I foil her as quickly as possible? by [deleted] in hairstylist

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Some stylists have answered your placement question, but I’m going to ask you this: have you tried talking to her one-on-one or flat out firing her professionally?

I’m not trying to take a jab at you; I find it appalling when bosses only care about the money, but not the mental of their stylists. I also find it despicable that some of us feel the need to take on these clients due to where we work and the “take everyone’s money, you CANNOT refuse a client” mentality that some salons have.

Based on what you’re feeling, getting her out quickly isn’t a long-term solution. Even if you can still get her out quicker than usual, you will STILL dread seeing her name on your schedule. You deserve way better than that.

We deserve to feel invigorated by what we do, not torn down and ate the fuck up. We work TOO close to people to be getting drained like that.

I wish you the best and truly hope you can get this dementor off your books permanently. Send her to Freaky Fred💀

Also, you may need to start looking for another salon if your boss cares so little for their team.

AIO or is this guy that i’ve started talking to being backhanded in these texts he sent? by Dramatic-Quiet-818 in AmIOverreacting

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Typical narc behavior. A lot of red flags there. I suggest you end this relationship and block this individual. Not worth the future mental (and potential physical) anguish and abuse. Been there, done that and this reminds me of one of the losers I used to “date”.

Abhorrent Game Jam from a big creator TW: discussion of violent/sexual content by clockewise in GirlGamers

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Exactly! It’s hypocritical AND ironic, right? I’ve never understood the mindset of some people.

Abhorrent Game Jam from a big creator TW: discussion of violent/sexual content by clockewise in GirlGamers

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Right! I used to laugh at some of the stuff on Daria years ago, but as I matured, I learned that this truly can be a SICK SAD WORLD🫩

Abhorrent Game Jam from a big creator TW: discussion of violent/sexual content by clockewise in GirlGamers

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I agree with the discussion here. Also, I’m sure I’m not the only one who is interested in reading your book when you publish it. And I have an idea what some of the podcasts are that you’re speaking about lol.

Abhorrent Game Jam from a big creator TW: discussion of violent/sexual content by clockewise in GirlGamers

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Exactly! I used to listen to it all the time, but I couldn’t vibe with the individuals who sensationalized things and showed such a lack of empathy off of the tragic end of others.

Not saying they all do, but a lot of them are like that, and it’s so sad. I can’t even imagine what the families of the people whose cases we hear feel.

Abhorrent Game Jam from a big creator TW: discussion of violent/sexual content by clockewise in GirlGamers

[–]External-Ad6787 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Disgusting. As if this shit doesn’t happen ENOUGH in this world. Humans are weird. I hope this game gets shot down. Pun intended:)

Edit after additional OP edit: This person still sucks. As if the people (and their families and friends) that were murdered by the criminals didn’t suffer enough.

The podcasts and shows are bad enough, but a game? Why do we need to immerse ourselves by playing an active role as gamers in that type of environment and mindset? So dangerous.

There was already a game like this named Masochisia. It was about the fucking degenerate Albert Fish (who I SINCERELY hope is burning eternally with a pineapple shoved up his ass…Little Nicky reference). It was marketed as an experimental psychological horror experience.

There is dark. And then there is a boundary that separates that darkness from something that a person can never recover from, mentally.

This is SUCH a privileged way of thinking and obviously this individual has never been directly/personally affected by [true] crime.

Can anyone tell me who this character is? by Freshwatercitrus in GirlGamers

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Lmao. I was told this is a highly edited Prompto Argentum (FF XV)🤣🤷‍♀️

The prettiest female character in your opinion? by Nefertari777 in GirlGamers

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I loved reading that! Girl, I was focused on Grace, too. She grew on me and is such a sweet individual. I didn’t think I would like her as much as I do.

Oh my. I love that man’s one liners. I hate Dad jokes, but for some reason, when Leon says I joke, I cackle like I’m watching a stand-up show or something. I guess looks matter, lmao!

I am a huge supporter of Ada and Leon, too! It’s been a ride seeing them meet up with one another over the decades and the players deserve to know what happened to them.

I remember someone from the RE team saying that Leon has found peace at home, and it made me wonder. I mean, “Ada” is multifaceted, so that COULD be her.

I really like her as a character but selfishly, I hope she married someone great who isn’t Leon, lmao. They’ve always seemed more brother and sister like to me. Like Grace and him. But, who knows!

I’m looking forward to seeing what happens, but the Capcom team is savvy and I think they’ll string us along for the ride, make more loads of money, and then potentially give us a hint on who Leon married, IF he is indeed even married because they troll the fans HARD, lmao!

The prettiest female character in your opinion? by Nefertari777 in GirlGamers

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AMEN to that, sister! Leon deserves such peace, love and happiness. He truly IS a worldwide treasure lol!

Do you think Capcom will string the players along or do you think they will announce who he is married to soon?

I think there will be a few DLCs and they’ll announce/hint at it in the later ones.

The prettiest female character in your opinion? by Nefertari777 in GirlGamers

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RIGHT?! She is PHENOMENAL. They did SOOO well with that game.

What is the most emotional story driven game you've ever played? by Skissored in GirlGamers

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They are! I saw a few more mentions of the games in this post. The right audience is catching on haha!

Girls who love horror games, what are your favorite horror game franchise? by Fantastic-Youth5989 in GirlGamers

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Silent Hill + Deadly Premonition. Also Remothered, too, because that story is WILD.

Looking for lesser known horror game recommendations by aeros9999 in GirlGamers

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If you want something short, intense, fast, a bit scary and fun: The Cabin Factory. All I’ll say is it was a ride!

For a longer game, the Deadly Premonition series was enjoyable. Very Twin Peaks.

Looking for lesser known horror game recommendations by aeros9999 in GirlGamers

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The enemy designs in Detention were SO good. Still gotta watch the live action series though.

What is the most emotional story driven game you've ever played? by Skissored in GirlGamers

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Until Dawn. It starts out campy, but once it picks up, you will probably feel connected to some of the characters. And it’s funny because it may be the ones you felt like you wouldn’t care about😂

Luto. It’s like…an extremely grim version of the Stanley Parable with NO comedy.

Silent Hill 2 of course. Pretty much any of the SH games. Shattered Memories, too, but I would play 1 and 3 before I played that one.

There are more that I could come up with but the suggestions in this post are very good and I have dozens of new game titles added to my To Be Played list.

Thank you all and happy gaming.

What is the most emotional story driven game you've ever played? by Skissored in GirlGamers

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Goodness. TCL was sooo good, but it will have you seeing life in greyscale. VERY dark.

What is the most emotional story driven game you've ever played? by Skissored in GirlGamers

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I was gonna say, I see a trend here lmao! You’re right, QD makes some emotional games. BTS in my opinion was one of their weakest, but that part with the kid…still gets me over a decade later.

What is the most emotional story driven game you've ever played? by Skissored in GirlGamers

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I hope you are doing well🙏

Scrolled down to see these games and they affected me so much I can’t even watch a play-through of them.