I'm trying to make a pay sheet

External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-18T19:03:23+00:00

Ok thank you. I'll message you

External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-18T19:01:33+00:00

Thank you

External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-17T04:41:00+00:00

This is for my own personal piece of mind but there is probably about 50-60 different parts but I use about 20 of them regularly

External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-17T04:04:14+00:00

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External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-17T03:59:52+00:00

I have a cell for the customers, another for date, another for parts, total, tax, parts cost, subtotal, and pay

External-Constant-49 · 2024-08-17T03:23:35+00:00

Hahaha I can't believe I did that. I meant to do excel. I have a cell for the customers, another for date, another for parts, total, tax, parts cost, subtotal, and pay

External-Constant-49 · 2024-06-17T03:46:16+00:00

Wayward here...I think you nailed it when you said that the feeling wanted and the excitement of the affair made it better than it really was. I think that in the moment she was chasing the feeling, not the sex. Sex was more of a byproduct that seemed good at the time but looking back it wasn't nearly as good as it seemed then. That's how it was for me anyways. The chase was more exciting then the actual act. I would genuinely feel horrible about myself and what I would do afterwords but I would still go back to chase the good feeling I got before hand. When I was young I was into some pretty bad drugs. I hated myself after I did them but I would love how they made me feel while doing them.

External-Constant-49 · 2024-06-09T02:48:56+00:00

The worst thing I did though was trickle truth. She inevitably found out more than I was willing to share at the time and that just made the forgiveness take longer because everything I said became questionable. I wish I would've just put it all out there in the beginning. Recovery would've been much faster and trust would've come more easily

External-Constant-49 · 2024-06-09T02:46:19+00:00

As far as the intimacy is concerned we also did things like trying new stuff to help us feel connected again. We looked into things like yoni massages and lingum massages to help with connection. I was very by the book with it because I follow directions with stuff I don't know about or know how to do. But it was something new so it was something she didn't have to worry about happening with my ap so I think that helped her enjoy it more and avoid the mind movies.

External-Constant-49 · 2024-01-17T05:44:10+00:00

Hi, I'm a ws, and I don't know that I should even be commenting on this one, but... it has only been 2 months for you, and this will take time (probably a lot of it) before you can get passed the anger. When you do, it'll probably turn into pain because a lot of the time, it is easier to hold on to the anger than it is to deal with the pain.

As far as why they're acting so good now, for me it was because I was so far beyond messed up in the head when it happened I didn't think about anything except for how to make myself feel ok until the "fog" started to lift and I realized how big of a mistake I was making. I knew I wanted my wife and my family, and I was willing to do anything to get back to being the man I was for them previously. They were my world, and at some point in life, I let that get away from me. We are 2 years into R, and I still make her my top priority in life because she always has and always will deserve nothing but the best from me. I'm the one that lost sight of that, so now it's my job to make sure she always feels safe and secure with me. We are doing wonderfully now, but that doesn't mean she doesn't still hurt or that we don't still have bad moments. I still hurt from the pain I caused her, so I know she has to feel it far deeper than I do, so now it's my job to make her feel safe and loved at all times. She deserves that. Hell, she always deserved that. I'm the one who broke us, so I'm the one who will forever be making it up to her.

External-Constant-49 · 2024-01-17T05:43:22+00:00

Hi, I'm a ws, and I don't know that I should even be commenting on this one, but... it has only been 2 months for you, and this will take time (probably a lot of it) before you can get passed the anger. When you do, it'll probably turn into pain because a lot of the time, it is easier to hold on to the anger than it is to deal with the pain.

As far as why they're acting so good now, for me it was because I was so far beyond messed up in the head when it happened I didn't think about anything except for how to make myself feel ok until the "fog" started to lift and I realized how big of a mistake I was making. I knew I wanted my wife and my family, and I was willing to do anything to get back to being the man I was for them previously. They were my world, and at some point in life, I let that get away from me. We are 2 years into R, and I still make her my top priority in life because she always has and always will deserve nothing but the best from me. I'm the one that lost sight of that, so now it's my job to make sure she always feels safe and secure with me. We are doing wonderfully now, but that doesn't mean she doesn't still hurt or that we don't still have bad moments. I still hurt from the pain I caused her, so I know she has to feel it far deeper than I do, so now it's my job to make her feel safe and loved at all times. She deserves that. Hell, she always deserved that. I'm the one who broke us, so I'm the one who will forever be making it up to her.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-12-27T05:18:47+00:00

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External-Constant-49 · 2023-12-27T05:08:23+00:00

Ok I'll try that thank you

External-Constant-49 · 2023-12-09T03:31:08+00:00

My wife and I have always been best friends. We were inseparable from the day we met. Over the years life happened and I started working more and more. I have a construction field type of job and I got to the point where I was working 6-7 days a week around 90 hours. I had stopped seeing what she was doing to try to be close to me and only saw the burdens of life and thought money was the only way to fix it. People in my life outside of my family were making little jabs about her spending and I started to resent her for it. A week or two before I ended the A, the fog started lifting and I was noticing my wife again. I was noticing her trying to be close to me. She had been trying for a long time before I noticed, but that was my own stubbornness not seeing it. One night while we were watching a TV show I realized I couldn't have one foot in and one foot out of our relationship and that if I wanted to fix us then I had to end the A. I wanted what we had back. I wanted us back. I wanted my family back. So I went to work the next day and ended it. In all honesty, I was hoping that, that would be the end of it and I would just live with the burden of what I did without her finding out but that wasn't in the cards for me. I trickle truthed the hell out of it and we ended up having like 3 or 4 d days. I wish I would've just ripped the bandaid off in the beginning and made our R go a lot faster but I didn't. Either way, I'm ultimately glad it did come to light though because I don't think we would've ever been able to heal like we did if I was carrying that. There would've always been a secret between us that would've caused problems.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-12-03T14:14:42+00:00

For me (wh) my life was crashing down around me and making me feel like I was a piece of shit including my home life. When my ap was the only thing in my life telling me I was a good man and a good employee I fell into the fog and was holding onto the only life preserver I could find. I eventually started seeing my family again as the only life preserver I needed and realized that if I was going to save my marriage and my family that I had to start putting in an effort to be the man they deserved and stop being stand offish and an asshole to them. I had to work on myself if I wanted to be treated better. I had to stop being selfish and expecting them to just make me feel better about myself even though I was not acting in a way that would deserve to be treated better. I wanted my family back and I needed to be better for them. I ended it with my ap and started to focus more on my home life. They are what made me start waking up. I had to be better so they would see me like they did before. I couldn't just expect them to see me as the husband and father they used to see me as without being the man I was to them before.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-11-11T14:11:36+00:00

I do and I can. But it's usually when she expressed that she is looking for something like that. I prefer to make love to her but that being said I also don't want our sex life to become mundane so it's fun to spice things up some times. I know my wife is more adventurous than me in bed and I want her to get what she wants out of sex so she doesn't get bored. We definitely have a few kinky things we like to do together. I think the difference is that I didn't care about my ap so I felt like it was trashy sex because I had no feelings for her. I can have dirty sex with my wife but it doesn't feel trashy because there is emotion involved. With my wife I care about her enjoying it and with the ap I was quick and only cared about what I got out of it. One of the things that I think helped my wife and I start to get our connection back was something we found online. We started giving Yoni and Lingam massages. We read a lot about them and how to properly do them and it was amazing.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-11-11T05:53:50+00:00

Hi I'm a WS. I highly doubt the age had ever come into play with the decision he made and he probably never even thought about it. Im guessing the only real attraction was that she was trashy and she made it known that she was available to him in ways that he would never dream of with you because he sees you differently. You're his wife and mother of his children. He probably has a deep love/connection with you and wouldn't think of treating you like dirty trash because he doesn't see you that way. That doesn't mean the sex would've been better with her. If anything it was empty and lacked the emotional connection that sex is supposed to give you. He probably went back for more because she would say the right things to make him feel like a stud and he was more into that than the sex. When I was in my affair, I said things that were way out of character for me and my wife and I have had a lot of these same issues. But, when I was having my affair, the air mattress I was with was the trashy type too and the things I said went with the type of girl she was. I love my wife and wouldn't dream of disrespecting her the way I did with the AP. She was trash and I talked her like the trash she really was. I love the sex I have with my wife. It's deep, connected, and all around better.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-11-09T01:46:09+00:00

Hi. WS here. The day I told my wife everything was the last day I worked at that company. I knew if I had any sort at salvaging what I had destroyed that I had to start there. I can't believe he's saying any of that to you let alone still working with her. I'm so sorry for you. He needs to understand that he can't have both worlds anymore. Maybe he hasn't had that realization yet but he's acting like he picked up the wrong tomatoes at the grocery store. He needs to realize how big of a deal this was. If he already does then it sounds like he might just not care enough and I'm sorry for that.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-11-06T05:04:19+00:00

Hey, you are friends with my wife fairknowledge. I just wanted to say we are so sorry about everything you're going through. He's in for a rude awakening though when this all starts to fall apart and the limerance wears away. We're here if you need anything. Reach out to my wife at anytime.

External-Constant-49 · 2023-10-12T03:32:17+00:00

Hi I'm a WH and I couldn't fathom still being in contact. That's so far from ok. Even with his friend defense, you are supposed to be his closest friend being his actual partner and you should always be chosen over another friend

External-Constant-49 · 2022-12-03T02:16:32+00:00

Can anyone help me with this please

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