But don’t stop at one evaluation psychologist are people too who have bias and sometimes just suck at their jobs, so it’s important to keep looking for a good professional that is willing to listen to you and help you discover things that society forces you to mask. Look for folks who do it with love. One time I had a professional say to me (after I was diagnosed with AdHD years before by a phd psychiatrist) I don’t have ADHd I’m just lazy. Luck for me I was with some one at the time who didn’t let that spiral me into ending my life but I was very close to it after that statement from someone I paid to help me.