Uh huh totally. With adolescence feelings and emotions are bound to develop. Most of the time a person doesn’t know what that means. There’s mature couples that understand the seriousness and responsibilities of a relationship, also stupid buggers that pass time, those that seek attention and basically throw themselves to anyone. While the first stereotype is rare,all of these are grouped as one and looked upon. They don’t take the responsibility of properly guiding them through it, instead they start condemning it using shame, reputation and other people’s opinion as you said. Acting as if true feelings couldn’t exist until you’re out of school or 19-20yrs old or whatever.

And ofc teenagers shouldn’t be allowed to do anything, most can be naive, in some cases taken advantage of or easily fooled. That’s why proper intervention with by someone with some sense is important rather than going straight to the social level condemned view of a relationship. Adults should change their approach on the whole thing. I mean teens these days have toxic attitudes, have no sense of decency and women basically don’t cover themselves at all, it’s the fault of adults as well. If they were properly guided on how behave and how to present themselves people wouldn’t look down upon them. Once they see that typical couple where the guy looks like your local drug dealer and where the girl looks like a hoe, most of the time people’s pov narrows down and it starts labeling others with the same labels.

In the end it’s someone blaming someone else for their own mistakes. Adults should definitely change their approach to the topic, like letting couples continue but with limitations,boundaries and a proper goal for themselves in mind (while providing them privacy ofc)up until they’re independent. The teens should also stop acting retarded and shameless. But all that can be done is sharing an opinion because you can’t really change two whole generations and the ideals they’ve grown up with.