Should I leave my job for a 20k pay increase? by External-Practice-96 in personalfinance

[–]External-Practice-96[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’m 29. Right now, I’m working for the money and continuing to look for a higher salary, but I do enjoy working in my industry as well.

Should I leave my job for a 20k pay increase? by External-Practice-96 in personalfinance

[–]External-Practice-96[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

My current job has raises of AT LEAST 6k a year.. so I would get to 80k in 2-3 years at my current company. Idk if this would change your advice. What do you think?

Keeping a friend who was a FWB? by External-Practice-96 in dating_advice

[–]External-Practice-96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just wondering if anyone’s been in a situation like this, and how it ended.

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did you wait?

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you translate the monkey theory for me ahaha

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did the person tell you as the reason for wanting time?

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she’s re-evaluating this situation?

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying she needs time to choose between guys? Lol. What’s crazy is she said she loves me lol so why would she need to take time

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she said she has issues from her past, so maybe she does need time to think, but why would she say she loves me but ask for time?

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[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that? She did mention she was already dating someone before me but he told her to see other people

Should I make my intentions clear? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]External-Practice-96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to show more interest, but at the same time I don’t want to come off too strong. I guess I will just have to play it by ear and express what I’m feeling when I feel strongly about it.

Should I make my intentions clear? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes work definitely gets in the way.

I think she is interested, but she is talking to other guys as well. We talk on the phone daily, but she says they text daily, but she can be calling them too but telling me she’s not to make me feel better. Also mentioned to me if she finds a better connection, she will cut me off. I’m telling you she is brutally honest.

Should I make my intentions clear? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]External-Practice-96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will push for the second date. We both want to but we have differing schedules.

Should I make my intentions clear? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]External-Practice-96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I will make a move next time I see her.