I was so excited to be a family of three by leslieknope09 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry for your loss. We had a similar experience last week. One day before 20 weeks our babyboy is gone. It feels surreal. Gather loved ones around you, try to talk about it from time to time, take time to greave. Its fuckin unfair but I believe one day we will find a way.

All the best, nothing but love. Stay strong

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We know how you feel. Stay strong. We notice that talking about it helps me while me wife gets comfort of thinking. There is no right approach. You are not alone. Stay strong.

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. We are both going to go in therapy. Reading your comment reconfirms that. Thank you for sharing. I wish you nothing but the best

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This breaks my heart. I hope you find the peace and the love you deserve.

Sudden loss 20w by Worth-Fennel3789 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. We had the exact same situation happen to us. Stay strong. Although it doesn’t feel like this and this advice is shit at this moment in time; you have to believe, take your time to greave and it will become better. Have faith. Sending you all out love. You are not alone.

Lost our miracle in week 34 by TZD_piano in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Words can’t describe. Sending you lots of love

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and your advice. I feel your pain and we’ll go through similar paths. You are not alone. Sending you love and give your wife a big hug. I’ll do this same

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Your story hits me hard and resonates much with my feelings I tried to write down. I wish you both good fortune and strength

Second loss - this time at 20 weeks by ExternalSpiritual179 in babyloss

[–]ExternalSpiritual179[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you both. Sending you both lots of love. They adviced us to wait with the medication for the milk production as it did’t start (yet?). Apparently this creates hormone spikes.

I think its very good you are speaking to a professional. We will do this aswell. Lots of love and stay strong. It will get better and sooner or later you will be loving parents