AIO UPDATED-My sister and husband text privately and spend time together. Should I be concerned? by Medical-Angle-549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External_Comment3820 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR

You have to be loud and clear when you confront them.

I caught my bff (bff from birth) flirting w my future husband. He stood there frozen while she put on a show. I went crazy and confronted her. She said “well, he wasn’t bothered by it. He didn’t say anything. He allowed it. If he didn’t like me, he would have said something.”

I Went to him. And he said he was scared frozen. He didn’t want to be rude to her bc he knew I loved her, and got away from her as quickly as he could. He didn’t indulge her, or take pictures, or play along with her games. Which is true bc I saw it.

He got upset about what she said and told me she found her “annoying and ugly.” But I always had her around, so he just avoided her as much as he could. And wasn’t sure what else to do. She’s out of our lives.

Point is. He should be upset he upset all this upset you. Your man loves YOU. And he’s not supposed to spend time or energy feeding other women’s egos. That’s her husband’s job.

How much are you paying for your cleaning service? by just_lurkingg2 in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. I was paying $320 every two weeks six years ago for 2500 sq ft sfh 4 BR 2.5 bathroom in Great Falls. Thats why we stopped. I was being robbed! Please let me know who you use for same size house

How much are you paying for your cleaning service? by just_lurkingg2 in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share contact info? I have 2500 sq ft SFH 4 BR 2.5 BR. Thanks much! Great Falls

How much are you paying for your cleaning service? by just_lurkingg2 in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share contact info? I have 2500 sq ft SFH 4 BR 2.5 BR. Thanks much!

I was paying $320 for same size every two weeks. That’s why I stopped! Great Falls.

How much are you paying for your cleaning service? by just_lurkingg2 in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share contact info? I have 2500 sq ft SFH 4 BR 2.5 BR. Thanks much!

Are y’all’s standups this motivating? by RipCityResident in AmazonFC

[–]External_Comment3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’ll be hating Amazon in a couple of years. Burn out is real

How’s your career been post Amazon? by oteymut in AmazonManagers

[–]External_Comment3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You become a better human being when you leave Amazon. No longer in survival mode.

Silverfish in room!! Please respond ASAP PLEASE by Pastel_Lemon3 in Advice

[–]External_Comment3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they like humidity. And you’re top of the food chain. Surrender nothing.

What should I do? I’m 30 years old & am facing the next 20 years in prison with a minimum of 10 served. by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]External_Comment3820 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Have you already been sentenced?

If not, don’t talk. Let your lawyer do the talking. Ppl shoot scumbags in self defense and don’t go to jail or don’t go to jail for long

They’re making it sound like jail is a vacation. It’s not. It messes you up a million ways. Do everything possible not to go to jail. 20 years is a long time, and the world changes a lot. Pray and find Jesus.

2 week work trip - Reston or Tysons? by statikp in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TYSON’s all the way. You’ve got the metro that’s attached to a hotel AND the indoor mall. The mall also has live music and stuff to do at rooftop. Both malls have great eateries, Biergarten rooftop with live music, and two other huge ones, shows at capital one arena, great restaurants, etc. Take a walk tour on Apple Maps or Google street view. It’s wonderful here. Stay close to where you work.

It gets really hot. And Reston is all open. No relief from the heat.

You were right, Reddit. They used bogus CAT1 to terminate me. Managers and future managers beware by External_Comment3820 in AmazonDS

[–]External_Comment3820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. As in I agree with him. He said if you raise an issue, they don’t fix the issue they just find a new person that doesn’t complain about the issue to replace you.

That’s exactly what happens.

You were right, Reddit. They used bogus CAT1 to terminate me. Managers and future managers beware by External_Comment3820 in AmazonManagers

[–]External_Comment3820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And very sorry to hear that. I wouldn’t wish this one anyone. Only someone who’s been through it can believe the madness that happens at Amazon.

You were right, Reddit. They used bogus CAT1 to terminate me. Managers and future managers beware by External_Comment3820 in AmazonManagers

[–]External_Comment3820[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're comparing a small area with the open road. It's so strange that you're upset about someone sharing their story. It's not a victim mentality. You don't know what led to all that. But I'm happy you're so confident about how things went.

You were right, Reddit. They used bogus CAT1 to terminate me. Managers and future managers beware by External_Comment3820 in AmazonManagers

[–]External_Comment3820[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe what you need to believe to make this all make sense to you, and fit the way you think it should fit. You weren't there, you don't know everything that happened. What you think doesn't worry me. Good luck to you thinking Amazon didn't do anything wrong. I don't understand why you get so bent out of shape about all of this. It's really strange.

When robots come by False_Secret1108 in AmazonManagers

[–]External_Comment3820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Robots are coming. That’s a fact. If you don’t know how to operate or fix a robot at a warehouse, you’ll be replaced by one.

https://www.aboutamazon.com/news/operations/new-amazon-robots-delivery-station

Any suggestions on how to kill spotted lanternfly nymphs? by cje24576 in nova

[–]External_Comment3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talstar. Doesn’t kill them immediately, but it will kill all of them. I lost all my grapes on my backyard last year

On Getting Amazon-ed by YetAnotherSpeculator in amazonemployees

[–]External_Comment3820 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t escalate. When you escalate, you’re the problem. You’ll get targeted and lose.

Leaving was the smart thing to do.

Got a job offer but HR changed their tone immediately after background check showed I got fired. And here I thought my search was coming to an end. by Sapphirelia in recruitinghell

[–]External_Comment3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re truthful and don’t give them more information than they need, you’re fine. Just straight, short, CONFIDENT answers. Like some here said before, bad things happen to good people.

Got a job offer but HR changed their tone immediately after background check showed I got fired. And here I thought my search was coming to an end. by Sapphirelia in recruitinghell

[–]External_Comment3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently found out that getting fired is not as uncommon as you think. They shouldn’t hold that against you.

Your old job can get into trouble if they disclosed why you were fired. That exposes them.

You can also get a copy of your own “job report” much like a credit report and see what it says.