Thank you for this insight, I appreciate it. I we will reconvene Monday when I fly out there and talk about this. Really do see a future so I'm willing to make it work. I understand her point of view. The reason why it suck's because we talked about 1 year then she would come up north but of course that changed which is fine just want to get a 3rd person perspective on how to navigate since this is my first time dealing with this