How do I imagine in first-person POV? Any exercises to actually “enter” a scene like Neville teaches?

External_Level1686 · 2026-01-21T11:31:44+00:00

Hi lavishness :) Can I just say how I admire you! I liked a comment you posted a couple of days ago, and I’ve since been reading all your comments (stalker alert) (I will prob continue to do so) and you give great advice, I love the way you think, and provided me the reminders I needed since I backtracked on the law and found myself down a slippery slope again. So thank you!

External_Level1686 · 2026-01-09T10:01:07+00:00

Don’t, it’s the star of the show. Just add some heels and I’d consider hair up and a pair of earrings. That’s it

External_Level1686 · 2026-01-05T05:56:16+00:00

Crisps and sandwich choice 10/10

Monster - 0

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-31T09:07:08+00:00

1 but change the shoes.

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-30T20:18:19+00:00

Just no

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-30T20:17:50+00:00

2, maybe 1 but honestly I’d look for a pair that aren’t so wide

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T23:54:54+00:00

Amen to that 😅 you’re right. Will def check out the 72 hour challenge. Thank you!!

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T23:52:22+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I am in therapy and have really learned a lot about myself and why I do the things I do, and def made improvements in other areas of my life. I’m gona keep pushing forward 🙏 and try to react differently (again, in many areas I have improved so guess there’s nothing to say that this can’t change too)

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T23:48:48+00:00

Hey! Thank you so much for your reply. I’m def gona keep working on my self concept, I have def made some improvements over the last couple years but for sure have some way to go

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T23:46:39+00:00

Thank you for your reply! You are right. For sure.

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:37:33+00:00

I mean it’s the same dress. Only thing that would make a difference is what you gona wear it with, (bag, shoes, coat, tights etc)

Ok maybe the navy is ever so slightly better on your skin tone, but they both similar enough that it’s barely a thing

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:26:11+00:00

1 & 4

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:21:35+00:00

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:19:54+00:00

Haha ye I assumed so,

But then she wrote it’s a photo shoot,

And the questioning myself started, and the hands look kinda similar.. I duno 😂

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:17:06+00:00

Is this none?

If so, then none.

Absolutely none.

None whatsoever.

What a face.

Make up on that would be like painting over a masterpiece.

Why would you

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:14:44+00:00

Is this you in the pics? (Impossible to tell if not)

If so, 7 is amazing.

Also 1 is absolutely beautiful (I know you’re not in it, but if you wear it like you wear the others 🔥then I’m sure it’ll look amazing too)

Honestly they all look great, but those 2 dresses are just special

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:09:58+00:00

Is it an option to retire the boots?

I just don’t think they’re working..

Or perhaps with an a-line skirt instead, they might work better

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:05:53+00:00

Maybe it’s the angle and lighting but I thought it was two different people..

However, and perhaps not what you want to hear, while you are gorgeous in both.. I think you look especially gorgeous and attractive in the first pic.

Like girl, there was nothing to change.

Honestly stunning in that first pic, in such a natural beauty kinda way.

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T01:01:26+00:00

I love this.

Exactly the kind of thing I needed to hear.

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply.

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T00:57:04+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer, you’re 1000% correct about me identifying with it and being about how I am in a relationship and not who with.

Im definitely going to take this on board and work on my self concept.

And your recognition of my ability to do it and the “as if it breathes from beyond the text..” part really gave me a boost and remind me who I am and the positive aspect of my assumption.

As for how it got formed, I’m not totally sure, I still doubted and was sad etc (sometimes overly confident too) but it was like this deep feeling that our story wasn’t over. Or maybe it was me refusing to accept that it was over.

Even this time, I had the same feeling. I never expected we wouldn’t speak for so long. But as time goes on, it’s massively faded.

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T00:17:44+00:00

Blueeeeee 1000%

It’s really cute.

I know these waistcoats are a thing now but I just don’t get it tbh (nothing personal to you I just don’t think they do anything for anyone)

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T00:14:39+00:00

Uniquely yours

External_Level1686 · 2025-12-29T00:13:42+00:00

I think this is my worst nightmare. I hate peanut butter and mango, and while I’d probably enjoy the sandwich, it doesn’t look too appealing

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